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Medically reviewed by Karin Gepp, PsyD — By Psych Central Staff — Updated on May 23, 2022

Entering a new relationship can be exciting and bring up a bunch of positive emotions. If you’ve recently started dating someone, you may ask yourself: Is it love or just lust?

Lust is mainly sexual or physical, with no desire to bond with the person on a deeper level. Love, in contrast, involves feelings of intimacy, vulnerability, and putting in the effort to build a stronger connection.

Certain signs may help you figure out whether you’re feeling love or lust toward your new partner. This relationship test can help.

This brief questionnaire is designed for anyone who might be wondering whether they’re feeling lust or love for the person they’re now dating.

This love or lust quiz is meant to help you answer questions like:

  • Am I falling in love?
  • How do I know if I’m in love?
  • Is it lust?

This “am I in love quiz” is not meant to tell you if you should stay in your relationship long term or not. But you can use this lust or love quiz to find out how you might be feeling right now toward the person you’re dating.

Depending on your responses to this love test, you can also understand whether you’re in love with your partner or experiencing lust.

Keep in mind that every person approaches dating, love, and their unique love language differently. So be sure to trust your gut and deeply assess your emotions before deciding if you’re willing to commit to this person.

If you always ask yourself this question or you typically experience conflicting emotions in relationships, speaking with a therapist can help you navigate dating in healthier ways.

Instructions

Answer the questions below honestly about the person you have feelings for, and we’ll score the quiz and let you know the likelihood of love.

This online screening is not a diagnostic tool. Only a trained medical professional, like a doctor or mental health professional, can help you determine the next best steps for you.

Ready to start therapy? Our Find a Therapist resource may help.

Last medically reviewed on May 23, 2022

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Medically reviewed by Karin Gepp, PsyD — By Psych Central Staff — Updated on May 23, 2022

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Am I in Love or Lust? I Psych Central

Relationship Quiz: Am I in Love or Lust? I Psych Central
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Medically reviewed by Karin Gepp, PsyD — By Psych Central Staff — Updated on May 23, 2022

Entering a new relationship can be exciting and bring up a bunch of positive emotions. If you’ve recently started dating someone, you may ask yourself: Is it love or just lust?

Lust is mainly sexual or physical, with no desire to bond with the person on a deeper level. Love, in contrast, involves feelings of intimacy, vulnerability, and putting in the effort to build a stronger connection.

Certain signs may help you figure out whether you’re feeling love or lust toward your new partner. This relationship test can help.

This brief questionnaire is designed for anyone who might be wondering whether they’re feeling lust or love for the person they’re now dating.

This love or lust quiz is meant to help you answer questions like:

  • Am I falling in love?
  • How do I know if I’m in love?
  • Is it lust?

This “am I in love quiz” is not meant to tell you if you should stay in your relationship long term or not. But you can use this lust or love quiz to find out how you might be feeling right now toward the person you’re dating.

Depending on your responses to this love test, you can also understand whether you’re in love with your partner or experiencing lust.

Keep in mind that every person approaches dating, love, and their unique love language differently. So be sure to trust your gut and deeply assess your emotions before deciding if you’re willing to commit to this person.

If you always ask yourself this question or you typically experience conflicting emotions in relationships, speaking with a therapist can help you navigate dating in healthier ways.

Instructions

Answer the questions below honestly about the person you have feelings for, and we’ll score the quiz and let you know the likelihood of love.

This online screening is not a diagnostic tool. Only a trained medical professional, like a doctor or mental health professional, can help you determine the next best steps for you.

Ready to start therapy? Our Find a Therapist resource may help.

Last medically reviewed on May 23, 2022

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Am I ready for a new serious relationship?

Do you think that love at first sight is. ..

A gift from heaven

Hormone fever

Almost a ghost: everyone talks about it, but few people see it

What dreams do you see most often?

Erotic

Romantic

Prose

Which of the three movie characters do you like best?

Titanic Jack

Jake from Avatar

James Bond

Choose from the proposed sayings the one that is closest to you: love what is

Could you fall in love with a person just because of the timbre of his voice?

This has happened to me

Quite possible

No, not likely

During what period of your life did you experience the first real feeling of falling in love?

In adolescence

In youth

In adulthood

I am easy to get to know.

Yes, I will not refuse an exciting and tempting offer for the evening

I am only ready to socialize if the person manages to make a very strong impression on me

No, I usually prefer not to communicate with strangers

Do you count the Day Valentine's holiday?

Of course love must be glorified

If you have someone to celebrate with, why not

I don't understand its meaning

How many boyfriends have you had in the last couple of years?

More than five

1-2

Nothing serious

Your boyfriend plans to spend Saturday night without you. You:

I'm starting to get worried. What if he cheats on me?

I'll let him go and then "accidentally" end up in the same place as him

It's okay, we need to take a break from each other

How often do you get the urge to text/call your ex?

Which one?

I have no such desire

I don't have an ex

What does your ideal evening look like?

A cozy evening with a boyfriend

A party with friends

An evening alone

A guy says he's ready to introduce you to his parents. You:

Cool, finally!

I will worry all week

No, sorry, goodbye

Are you ready for a relationship? But sometimes you should be a little more selective in relationships. Not all relationships are meant to last forever, and if you know he's not "the one", why start? Share this quiz on social networks - let's see how your friends do.

You're ready for a relationship, but you don't think it's a must

"Boyfriend? Okay, I don't mind if I meet someone special.


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