How well does your bf know you

A Quiz To Test How Well You & Your Partner Really Know Each Other

Once you've asked and answered all the questions and got your final tally ready, you can calculate your score and read about what your results mean for you as a couple below.

Warm-up questions:

  1. What's their favorite movie?
  2. What food would they never get sick of?
  3. What color do they never wear?
  4. What's their go-to drink?
  5. Would they rather go out on Friday night or stay in?
  6. What's their favorite book?

Questions about the past:

  1. Who was their best friend growing up?
  2. As a kid, what did they want to be when they grew up?
  3. What was their favorite subject in school?
  4. Did they have any part-time jobs as a teen?
  5. Did they have a good high school experience?
  6. Did they have a good relationship with their family as a kid?
  7. What's their favorite place that they've traveled to?
  8. What's their biggest regret?
  9. What do they miss about their childhood?
  10. Do they have "someone that got away"?
  11. What's the most spiritual experience they've ever had?

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Questions about the future:

  1. What is the most important factor in their future?
  2. What's the No. 1 thing on their bucket list?
  3. Where do they want to live in the future?
  4. What's their next career move?
  5. Do they want kids?
  6. Do they ever want to move back to their hometown or never go back?
  7. Would they ever be open to a long-distance relationship?
  8. What is a big goal they have in their five-year plan?
  9. How do they feel about marriage?
  10. What's their biggest fear for the future?

Questions about sex:

  1. What is their biggest turn-on?
  2. What is their biggest turnoff?
  3. What's their biggest fantasy, kink, or fetish?
  4. What is their favorite position?
  5. Are they into quickies, or do they prefer to take their time?
  6. Where is their favorite place to have sex?
  7. How do they like to be teased?
  8. Do they like to use sex toys?
  9. Do they watch porn?

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Questions about values:

  1. Which social cause do they most care about?
  2. What quality do they value most in others?
  3. What are their political views?
  4. How important is money to them?
  5. What's a more worthy investment to them: experiences or objects?
  6. What are their thoughts on open relationships?
  7. How are they working on self-growth and self-improvement?
  8. What influences their decisions the most?
  9. What's a nonnegotiable for them in relationships?

Questions about communication:

  1. How do they like to give love?
  2. How do they like to receive love?
  3. Are they more passive or confrontational?
  4. How do they like to be apologized to?
  5. Do they respond quickly or need time to process in an argument?
  6. Are they more logical or emotional?
  7. Are they more introverted or extroverted?
  8. Do they prefer structure or going with the flow?
  9. What is their preferred form of communication (that's not in-person)?
  10. What do they like most about you?

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What the results say about you as a couple.

Here's an idea of what the results might mean about your relationship:

  • 30 or fewer correct: Hey, don't worry. Odds are you haven't been together that long or just haven't prioritized some of these bigger conversational topics. You definitely have room to get to know each other better—and that's exciting! Time to start digging in.
  • 30 to 40 correct: You know plenty about your partner, but there's still more to find out as your connection deepens.
  • 40 to 55 correct: You know your partner like the back of your hand, and that's great! You've probably been together for a while, or you just really prioritize conversation and curiosity with each other.

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As licensed marriage and family therapist and sex therapist Holly Richmond, Ph. D., LMFT, CST, tells mbg, you're usually going to do better on this quiz the longer you've been together. Don't fret if you didn't do as well as you may have liked to—this just means you can make getting to know each other better a bigger priority.

Ways to get to know each other better if you're not content with your results.

According to therapist and relationship expert Ken Page, LCSW, quizzes like this are fun, of course, but having a daily practice of checking in with each other is "a really wonderful thing to do." He recommends finding time for each other every day and thinking of a thoughtful question or two that can help you both root in your connectedness—whether something from this list or something you come up with on your own.

Page is also a fan of the 36 questions to fall in love, developed in the 1990s by psychologists Arthur Aron, Ph.D.; Elaine Aron, Ph.D.; and other researchers. This set of questions has been found, on many an occasion, to cultivate intimacy and connection between strangers—so it certainly couldn't hurt to cover those questions, Page says.

In addition to that, Richmond suggests simply getting curious with each other on a regular basis. "Sit down at least once a week, where you have each other's undivided attention, with eye contact, and you aren't distracted." Ask each other questions, have genuine curiosity for each other, and just enjoy the process of getting to know each other. (Here are some conversation starters for couples to get you started.)

Whether you aced this quiz or there's still more to learn, the bottom line is, it's important to understand who we're with. When we take time to consciously learn about our partner, not only do we see them more and more as they truly are, but we give them the gift of being seen and understood.

101 Questions To Determine How Well You Know Your Partner


You know your partner best. It seems so, but how well do you really know your partner? Whether you have been together for a few months or several years, your relationship has stood the test of time. You might not know everything about your significant other, though. So whether you want to know more about your partner or test your understanding of them, we can help.

Let’s begin by saying that not knowing everything about your partner is fine. After all, certain conversations and situations take time to unfold. It is all good! Test the extent to which you understand your significant other with this quiz. The responses to these questions will help you determine how well you really know and understand your partner. If you don’t know the answer, you can ask them for more information! The questions on the list are about their beliefs, childhood, and favorite topics. There may be some serious and some playful questions. Let’s get started!

How Well Do You Know Your Partner?


A. Childhood And Family Questions

  1. What is your partner’s zodiac sign? Does he believe in astrology?
  2. What is his mother’s maiden name?
  3. How many siblings do his parents have? Can you name them?
  4. In what town/city did your guy grow up?
  5. What was the name of his primary school? Where was it located?
  6. What was his favorite dish as a kid?
  7. What did his parents do for a living?
  8. Does your partner have any nieces or nephews? If yes, how many? Can you name them?
  9. Is he more like his mom or dad?
  10. What was the worst trouble that your guy got into as a child? What was his punishment?
  11. What was his favorite subject in school?
  12. What was his least favorite subject? What did he dislike about it? Did he ever fail it?
  13. Has he ever performed on stage? If yes, what did he do? Was he scared?
  14. What were his hobbies in school? Was he boisterous or shy?
  15. Did he play any sports when growing up? What was he good at?


  1. Is he close to his extended family? Do they meet at family gatherings?
  2. Who is his oldest friend? Who were his best friends through the years?
  3. Did he ever repeat a grade in school?
  4. Is he close to his parents?
  5. Are his grandparents still alive? What are their names?
  6. Does he have any siblings? What are their names?
  7. Did he have a favorite teacher? What is his/her name, and what did he/she teach?
  8. What is his fondest childhood memory?
  9. What was his first pet? What was its name?
  10. What was his favorite cartoon show as a child?
  11. Is he religious? Is his family religious?

Related: 360 Good Questions To Ask And Get To Know Someone Better


Travel And Activity Questions


  1. What are the three best places that he has been to? Would he love to visit again?
  2. Does he prefer to travel alone or in a group?
  3. Does he prefer to travel by plane, train, or car?
  4. Where would he go if he could get free tickets to anywhere in the world?
  5. How many countries has he traveled to? Did he travel alone?
  6. Has he ever gone camping? If yes, how old was he?
  7. Can he change the tire on a car?

C. Food Questions


  1. What is his favorite ice cream flavor?
  2. What is his favorite thing to eat for breakfast?
  3. What is his favorite thing to drink? Does he prefer Pepsi/Coke, Sprite or Orange Squash?
  4. Does he like vanilla or chocolate better?
  5. Does he prefer his coffee hot or iced? Or is he a tea person?
  6. Does he prefer spicy or bland foods?
  7. What is the name of his favorite restaurant?
  8. Does he drink alcohol? If yes, what is his favorite alcoholic drink?
  9. Does he prefer ice cream in a cup or a cone?
  10. Would he choose whipped cream or chocolate syrup on his ice cream?
  11. What would it be if he could have one food for the rest of his life?
  12. Does he like regular pizza or pineapple pizza?
  13. What is his favorite kind of cake? Chocolate, vanilla, pineapple…?
  14. What can he not eat? What is he allergic to?
  15. If he could have dinner with one person (whether dead or alive), who would that be?
  16. What is his favorite meal of the day?
  17. Has he ever snuck food into a movie theater? If yes, what was it?
  18. Does he like to cook? If yes, what is his most popular dish?

StyleCraze Says

The ideal time to ask food-related questions would be when planning a surprise meal or a date night for your partner. It will help you curate a menu that melts them.

Related: Top 20 Healthy Food Quotes To Inspire You

D. Relationships And Love Questions


  1. How old was he when he had his first kiss?
  2. What are the three things that he likes about you?
  3. Where did you both take your first picture together?
  4. What is the best gift that you ever gave him?
  5. How many girlfriends did he have before you both got together?
  6. Was he ever in a serious relationship before meeting you?
  7. How have things changed since you have gotten together?
  8. Between the two of you, who is better at making financial decisions?
  9. Does he get easily jealous?
  10. How and why did his last relationship end?
  11. What is that one thing about him that can make you weak in the knees?

StyleCraze Says

While asking relationships and love questions, ensure that your partner is comfortable sharing intricate details about their love life. Avoid way too personal topics during the initial phase of your relationship.

Related: 40 Deep Relationship Questions To Ask For A Better Love Life

E. Work Questions


  1. What does your partner love about his job?
  2. What does he hate about his job?
  3. Has he ever quit a job?
  4. When and what was his first job?
  5. Does he love what he does for a living?

F. Random Questions


  1. Does he know how to do his laundry?
  2. Has he ever been awake for 24 hours straight? What was he doing?
  3. Does he prefer cats or dogs?
  4. What is his favorite color?
  5. Does he prefer store-bought gifts, gift cards, or handmade presents?
  6. Would he rather do laundry or dishes?
  7. What is his favorite sports team? Who is his favorite sportsperson?
  8. What kind of music does he listen to?
  9. What kind of music does he loathe?
  10. Does he prefer reality television, sports, or news?
  11. Has he ever had surgery?
  12. Has he ever broken any bones? If yes, which one/ones?
  13. Would he rather watch a movie at home or in the theater? With friends or alone?
  14. Would he rather watch a horror movie or a comedy? Or a romantic sob fest?
  15. Does he believe in ghosts? Has he seen any?
  16. Is he organized or messy?
  17. Does he curse a lot?
  18. Does he like watching documentaries? Which is his favorite one?
  19. What is his least favorite household chore?
  20. What would he want his superpower to be if he was a superhero?
  21. What is the name of his favorite book?
  22. Has he ever dyed his hair a funky color? If yes, what color did he opt for?


  1. Has he ever been arrested? If yes, for what?
  2. Does he have any phobias? Is he afraid of insects?
  3. Did he vote in the last election?
  4. What is his dream car? What color does he want it to be?
  5. If he could learn a new language, what would it be?
  6. Does he want kids in the future? If so, how many?
  7. Does he still watch cartoons? If yes, which ones?
  8. Does he know how to swim? Where did he learn to do it?
  9. Does he have any birthmarks?
  10. Does he have any tattoos or piercings? If yes, what and where?
  11. Has he ever been to a bachelor party? What was the naughtiest thing he did there?
  12. Does he still have his wisdom teeth? If not, at what age did he get them removed?

Remember, it doesn’t matter if you can’t answer most of these questions! The important thing is it will allow you to start a conversation and get to know a lot more about him.

Having a heart-to-heart conversation will not just make your bond stronger but will also help you understand each other better. Also, you will get closer to his family and friends because you will get to know more about them and, eventually, build better relationships with them.

A few questions about childhood, family, preferences, likes, and dislikes can reveal a lot about your partner’s personality and give you a sneak peek into their life. Whether you have been together for decades and exhausted all topics of conversation or are still in the initial phases of getting acquainted with each other’s lives, we are sure the above list will have something new for you. It will help determine how well you know your partner and unravel new and exciting stories about them. So, why wait? Get the hot seat ready!

Frequently Asked Questions

What should couples know about each other?

Couples who wish to create a long-lasting relationship should know if they are emotionally, spiritually, sexually, physically, and ideologically compatible. They should also know that if they were to live together, will they be able to adjust to each other’s lifestyles and schedules.

How do I connect with my partner on a deeper level?

Knowing about each other’s personal histories and vulnerabilities, accepting each other despite that, and being willing to grow together will make you deeply connect with your partner.

What makes a man feel connected to a woman?

Men in our societies are used to not verbalizing their vulnerable thoughts and feelings. Women who can bring this out in them and show them love and appreciation by offering words of comfort, encouragement, and love make them feel connected to them.

How do you know if you have a real connection with someone?

When you know someone deeply, even the ugliest parts of them, and do not feel the urge to run, and they feel safe with you too, it is a significant sign of a real connection.

What triggers emotional attraction in a man?

Men wish to appear reliable, trustable, and dependable to those they care about. When someone openly trusts them, it can trigger an emotional response. If they are already physically attracted to this person, their emotional attraction will be stronger.

Key Takeaways

  • Whether yours is a new relationship or one that has survived the test of time, you always want to know more about your partner.
  • These questions can open up new conversations and help you understand each other better.
  • You will also get to know his family and friends better and develop deeper bonds with them.
  • Take turns in answering these questions – and be prepared to be surprised!


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Being together doesn't mean knowing everything about each other.

Many people live side by side for years, but cannot answer elementary questions (about their favorite color, for example). nine0005

Let's see how you get on with this question...

So, what do you know about your partner? Check only those items that you really know. The more honestly you answer, the better the

Size of the shoes
Size of the outerwear
Zodiac sign
per year of the phone
Place of birth
Favorite food
Favorite song
Favorite film
Names Parents
Blood Group
The name of the former (-e)
school, in which the partner studied
Favorite (speech is held. about sports)
What annoys him
What he loves
What kind of perfume does he use
How does he take care of himself
Where do you come from
Eye color
Favorite brands
Dream Profession
When the last time cried
Favorite color
for what allergies
Profiles in social networks
Name of domestic animal
The most important event in life
Family, Personents and Person

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Alas, you hardly know your partner! nine0021

You don't seem to know much about your loved one. There can be many reasons. It can be assumed that you have recently met or are afraid to treacherously break into his personal space. We still advise you to take an interest in some points, it will not be superfluous;)

You are not very familiar with your loved one!

You seem to have only the most important information. And it seems to be enough for you. You do not see the point in bothering with the size of shoes or your favorite perfume, but in vain. A loved one should feel that you are interested in him;)

You know your loved one quite well!

Apparently, you've been together for quite some time. Or you are one of those people who knows how to show a keen interest in relation to a partner. Either way, you know everything you need to know. With only one "but": you haven't tried to dive deep into the inner world, but it can be interesting ;)

You know your loved one very well!

Apparently, you either have been together for a very long time, or adore each other. Anyway, you know absolutely everything about your partner. You can easily go shopping instead of him, while buying everything that he himself would buy, from groceries to clothes. But most importantly: you know his dreams and goals, in which you fully support him. Bravo! nine0005

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Quiz "How well does your couple know each other" | SoftTeco Blog

SoftTeco Team continues to share interesting activities for February 14th!

Do you think you know your significant other well? It's time to check it out! Take the 40 question test and find out how close you are ;)

How test 9 works0021

You will need four sheets of paper and two pens. You will take the test in turn. One asks a question aloud, both silently write down the answer, without looking at each other's papers. For example, a guy asks a girl: "What am I most afraid of?" She writes down her answer: "Heights. " In the meantime, you write down your correct version: "Giant Spiders". And so you report on all twenty-five questions. Then turn the papers over and set aside.

Take the next two pieces of paper and follow the same procedure, but with the girl as the defendant. The girl asks: "What am I most afraid of?" You write down your answer, and the girl writes down hers, the correct one. And so on for all questions. nine0005

When you have finished asking each other, turn over the papers and compare the results (but first, of course, be horrified by the answers ;)). Count the number of exact matches. Accurate in semantic meaning, and not in the form of a statement. For each correct answer - 1 point.

  1. Where was I born?
  2. What is my mother's maiden name?
  3. How old is my mother?
  4. What was my childhood name? Did I have a nickname? nine0144
  5. What pets did I have when I was younger?
  6. Name my most embarrassing childhood memory
  7. What musical instruments did I learn to play?
  8. Name one of my childhood hobbies? What did I collect?
  9. Did I have chickenpox?
  10. In which institute, school did I study?
  11. What subject did I dislike the most at the institute/school?
  12. What was the name of my best friend / childhood best friend? nine0144
  13. Name my first job.
  14. What is my favorite spectator sport?
  15. What sport do I enjoy doing the most?
  16. What would I like most for dessert?
  17. Which soft drink do I prefer?
  18. Name my favorite restaurant, favorite cafe.
  19. What do I like best on pizza?
  20. Which actress/actor do I dislike the most? nine0144
  21. Which one do you like best?
  22. Breakfast, lunch, dinner - what do I like best?
  23. Name my favorite movie/series.
  24. Which ad causes me the most irritation?
  25. Name my favorite singer/singer or band.
  26. My favorite holiday? And the least favorite?
  27. What is my favorite color?
  28. What is my favorite headdress to wear?
  29. nine0143 What do I like to read for recreation?
  30. What social network do I stick to the most?
  31. Give me my passport number.
  32. What is my shoe size?
  33. What is the name of my boss?
  34. What is my work phone number?
  35. Have I ever had broken bones?
  36. Am I allergic to anything?
  37. What is my blood type?
  38. How tall am I? nine0144
  39. What gift would I like best?
  40. What am I most afraid of? Continue the phrase "You hate it when I.
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