Questions therapist ask patients
Therapy Questions Every Therapist Should Be Asking
Healing conversations are an art form in peril of being lost to our busy lives.
The ultimate goal of talk therapy is to enable the process of psychological and emotional healing along the continuum from the problematic toward a sense of greater mental wellbeing.
Although we often come to therapy with a problem, we also come as people who want to be heard and understood, feel like we matter, wish to learn self-compassion, and want to find partnership in helping us heal and see ourselves and our life situation in a different light.
I would rather have questions that can’t be answered than answers that can’t be questioned.
Richard Feynman
Progress in a therapeutic relationship cannot be made unless the client feels safe to speak their mind, and it is on the practitioner to create that climate of openness and transparency.
The process also often requires the clinician’s willingness to work diligently to help clients understand what they want, the patience to help them learn to own all aspects of themselves, including contradictory feelings, and the ability to create a safe space to allow for transformation to occur.
Most of what happens in talk therapy is accomplished through the skillful use of questions, but only second to a lot of active listening.
This article surveys different approaches to asking therapeutic questions meant for both practitioners and their clients and gives examples of how the quality of questions we ask can improve our lives. For more common therapy questions, see our related post: Classic Therapy Questions Therapists Tend to Ask.
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This Article Contains:
- 7 Questions Designed for the First Therapy Session
- Therapy Intake Questions to Ask Patients
- 15 Useful Therapy Questions to Ask Yourself
- 20 Couples Therapy Questions Designed to Improve Relationships
- 30 Family Therapy Assessment Questions
- The Family Therapy Questions Game
- Therapeutic Questions for Youth
- 15 Therapeutic Questions for Group Therapy Discussions
- A Take-Home Message
- References
7 Questions Designed for the First Therapy Session
The first therapy session must focus on relationship building and creating rapport, which are necessary to establish an effective foundation for a practitioner–client relationship, often referred to as the therapeutic alliance. The outcomes of therapy are heavily dependent on the quality of this relationship (Lambert & Barley, 2001).
Ideally, the first therapy session should be a form of positive inception so the practitioner can set the stage for future interactions. Carl Rogers (1961) used to say that the therapist must create an environment where everyone can be themselves.
Courage doesn’t happen when you have all the answers. It happens when you are ready to face the questions you have been avoiding your whole life.
Shannon L. Alder
The very first question in therapy is usually about the presenting problem or the chief complaint for which the client comes to therapy, often followed by an exploration of the client’s past experience with therapy, if any, and their expectations of future outcomes of therapy.
1. What brings you here today?
For clients who need encouragement to open up, it may be helpful to remark on their bravery in seeking therapy.
For those who are at the other extreme and go into a lengthy and detailed explanation of their issues, perhaps having been in therapy before, it is best to listen empathically first before complimenting them on how well they appear to know themselves and how they have thought a lot about what they would like to talk about in therapy.
2. Have you ever seen a counselor before?
For those who are in therapy for the first time, observing how comfortable and confident they are in talking about the challenges in their life can help set the stage for further disclosure.
It may be helpful to set some expectation of what is going to happen in the therapeutic process by explaining how asking questions is at the core of the process and reassuring the client that they should feel free to interrupt at any time and to steer the conversation to where they need it to go.
If the client has seen a counselor before, it can prove very valuable to inquire further about their previous experience in therapy by asking about frequency, duration, and issues discussed during their previous engagements, as well as one thing they remember most that a former counselor told them.
An important aspect for gauging clients’ engagement in the process of therapy is asking them about what went right or didn’t turn out the way they would have liked in their previous therapeutic engagement, as this can point to where they place the sense of responsibility for their situation.
Inquiring if the client achieved the results they sought and if they have been successful in maintaining them outside of the therapeutic relationship can also provide valuable insight into their motivation for change.
3. What do you expect from the counseling process?
Establishing a mutual agreement and setting expectations for the engagement is crucial to making progress. Clients’ goals and preferences for the format and level of interaction need to be taken into consideration.
Some clients like to vent and have the counselor listen; others want a high level of interaction and a spirited back-and-forth. It is also important to inquire how the client learns best and if they like to receive homework.
Other examples of questions that can point to the tone and flow of future communications can include the following:
- How many meetings do you think it will take to achieve your goals?
- How might you undermine achieving your own goals?
- How do you feel about using good advice to grow from?
- How will we know when we have been successful in achieving your goals for therapy?
Therapy Intake Questions to Ask Patients
Levy et al. (2018) analyzed records from healthcare providers and found that:
- 45.7% of adults avoided telling their providers that they disagreed with their care recommendations.
- 81.8% of adults withheld information because they didn’t want to be lectured or judged.
Many aspects of clients’ lives can influence their engagement and progress in therapy.
Indeed, questions about preexisting medical conditions, current and past treatments, medications, and family history are essential to the effective assessment of needs and the successful provision of therapeutic treatment. Therefore, having a clear picture of these details is a critical part of the initial intake process.
In order to gather this information securely and efficiently, therapists are increasingly drawing on digital technologies. For instance, using a blended care platform such as Quenza (pictured here), therapists can design and distribute standardized sets of intake materials, such as forms and agreements, that clients can complete on their own devices and at a time that suits them.
The benefits of providing intake forms digitally is that they can facilitate better documentation and record keeping for practitioners. Additionally, and unlike paper forms, they can be programmed to ensure no critical questions are accidentally missed.
It is important to note that while most therapists do not prescribe medication, many often partner with other medical professionals by making recommendations, particularly in instances when clients have been referred for therapy.
An intake form is attached and can be a useful guide for some of the issues that may require further exploration.
15 Useful Therapy Questions to Ask Yourself
We get into thinking ruts and routines and often function on autopilot without giving much consideration to the way we go about our day or spend our time and energy.
We can break this mindless cycle by asking meaningful questions of ourselves and reflecting deeply on our thoughts, emotions, and behavior. Many self-help therapy books have popularized a way of doing just that.
One such approach can be found in vastly popular notebooks that provide inspirational therapy quotes or reflective writing prompts that get our cognitive wheels spinning.
The most important questions in life can never be answered by anyone except oneself.
John Fowles, The Magus
Another important form of self-inquiry is to ask yourself questions that we can’t answer honestly in the presence of anyone else, probing and burning questions that we can often only answer for ourselves. They may require some reflection, examination of values, and perhaps writing, if only to organize our thoughts.
Here is a list of important questions we should revisit periodically:
- Assessing our life satisfaction – Tools like the Wheel of Life (accessible via the linked post) or one of the many Happiness Assessments are a great place to start.
- Exploring meaning in our lives – Our masterclass in Meaning and Valued Living is a great place to start.
- Defining our values – value exploration exercises
- Finding character strengths – VIA Strengths Assessment
- Visualizing goals – SMART goal setting, tracking how we invest our time with experience sampling method or Miracle Question (included below)
- Cultivating gratitude – Three good things exercise
- Practicing forgiveness – Empty chair technique (included below)
- Making bucket lists
Other useful questions are those that we can use to motivate ourselves. For example, appreciative inquiry questions focus on strengths and the propelling power our past successes can have on self-efficacy and motivation toward goal pursuit.
Here are a few examples of questions and prompts based on appreciative inquiry:
- Think back through your career. Locate a moment that was a high point, when you felt most productive and engaged. Describe how you felt and what made the situation possible.
- Without being humble, describe what you value most about yourself and your work.
- Describe your three concrete wishes for your future.
- Describe the most energizing moment, a real “high” from your professional life. What made it happen?
- How do you stay professionally affirmed, renewed, enthusiastic, and inspired?
Sometimes, self-therapy can feel like chasing our tail, particularly for those who already live in their heads a bit too much and may feel a bit stuck.
The most important questions to ask ourselves at this point are those that allow us to evaluate whether we should be reaching for help and if our situation warrants considering therapy.
- Have I struggled to be myself lately?
- Has daily life felt harder lately?
- Do I have a confidante who I can trust to be impartial?
- Is there a big choice in my life I have been struggling with?
- Is my worry increasing, and are my thoughts less logical?
- Have I lost interest in things I used to love lately?
- Have friends been avoiding me or saying they have been worried about me?
- Am I just not bouncing back from something?
- Do I have a habit that I keep secret from others that causes me ongoing shame and life problems?
- Do I spend most of my time feeling worthless compared to others?
20 Couples Therapy Questions Designed to Improve Relationships
Dr. John Gottman, an expert marriage therapist who has observed couples for over 40 years, tells us that we have a very high chance for miscommunication in close relationships (Gottman & Silver, 2015).
How do we cope with those unfavorable odds? Through acceptance, the practice of active listening, and the realization that relational conflict is an opportunity for growth.
Lack of acceptance is often an important component of relationship gridlock, as it causes both people to feel criticized or rejected (Gottman & Silver, 2015). There are always two points of view, both valid and right, from within each perception.
The need to be right prevents us from actively listening to each other. Communicating fundamental acceptance instead of rejection of the other person’s personality is therefore basic to all effective problem solving.
Active listening requires practice and comes down to moving from self-informed certainty to curiosity about the other person. It helps to adopt an “and stance,” where both stories are valid, the world is complex, both partners can get angry, both contribute to the situation, and both are doing their best.
Couples can improve their odds of having a productive talk by (Gottman & Silver, 2015):
- Finding things in common (Gottman and Silver recommend having good Love Maps of each other)
- Getting to know each other’s flexible and inflexible areas for negotiations
- Offering to help meet the core needs of another person
- If gridlock seems unavoidable, figuring out if we need a temporary compromise
What often happens in couples therapy is an equivalent of the two people getting to know each other in a different way, improving communications, and learning that conflict can be an opportunity for growth.
Some of the most common questions explored in couples therapy include:
- Why choose today?
- How did you decide to come to therapy?
- What brought you together in the first place?
- How does your relationship affect your levels of joy?
- What do you wish your partner would do more?
- How do you cultivate trust in your relationship?
- Describe your level of satisfaction with intimacy in your relationship.
- How would you rate your communication skills: negative, neutral, or positive?
- What positive relationship rules do you follow?
- In the recent past, what did you do when your partner disappointed you?
- How much can you recall about what your partner did last week?
- How would you describe your other relationships, like those with family and friends?
- What family conflicts have you been embroiled in recently?
- What relationship have you been in that you judged to be a failure?
- Who do you call upon when your heart is hurting?
- What is your most significant vulnerability or Achilles heel in relationships?
- What is your relationship forecast for both now and in the future?
- What counseling questions do you hope aren’t asked?
30 Family Therapy Assessment Questions
Some of the most important relationships in our lives can be both a source of happiness and the greatest struggle at the same time. The closest people in our lives influence in no small degree who we become as a person and shape our view of the world around us in significant ways we often underestimate.
Some approaches to family therapy employ systemic interpretations; for example, depression may be viewed as a symptom of a problem in the larger family.
When a family seeks counseling, the questions focus on the relationship’s dynamics, everyone’s met and unmet needs, and goals for the relationships. Assessing these factors, while it may seem complicated at first, is nevertheless worth the time.
Dysfunctional communication patterns within the family can be identified and corrected through teaching family members how to listen, ask questions, and respond non-defensively.
The genogram is one such tool used in family therapy. It’s mostly a family tree that provides a visual representation of three to four generations and explores how patterns or themes within families influence their current behavior and identifies whether relationships in the family have been close, distant, or ridden with conflicts.
It asks about values, beliefs, traditions, characteristics, and habits of family members, including health issues, alcohol and drug use, physical and mental health, violence, crime and trouble with the law, employment, and education. See Simple Guide to Genograms.
Some of the questions about relationships between family members include:
- Who are you closest to?
- What is/was your relationship like with… ?
- How often do you see… ?
- Where does … live now?
- Is there anyone here that you really don’t get along with?
- Is there anyone else who is very close in the family? Or who really don’t get along?
When exploring patterns and themes, good questions are:
- Who are you most like?
- What is … like? Who else is like them?
- Did anyone else leave home early?
- Is anyone else interested in art/science/etc.?
The following questions may also help explore the family background and family dynamics:
- Who is important to you in your life? Why are these particular people important?
- Who provides the most support in your life?
- How have members of your family reacted to the problems that you are currently experiencing?
- Are members of your extended family aware of what you have been experiencing?
- What was it like growing up in your family?
- Perhaps you could talk about some of the memories, both good and not so good.
- What is it like for you right now living in your family?
- How do you think your family might describe you? What qualities or strengths might they say you have?
- Are there members of your extended family who you feel close to or feel that you have something in common with?
- Did you feel safe in your family?
- How does your family handle disagreements?
- Is it okay to express your emotions in your family? To feel happy, sad, frustrated, angry, content, etc.?
- Tell me about your different family members and how they express their emotions.
- Were there times when you were worried about any of your family members? Why were you worried? How were these concerns handled?
- What qualities do you bring to your family that are special or unique?
- Were there any special activities that you did together?
- Did your family mix with other families?
- What other information would you like me to know about your family that will be helpful during our time together?
The Family Therapy Questions Game
One of the most effective ways to address family dynamics, particularly when it involves children, is by playing games. It removes the formality and allows for interaction to unfold in a nonthreatening way that often brings out the best in all participants.
While it is fun for the children, it also allows the adults to regress for a moment and get down to the level of being playful and spontaneous. In the end, we find out that we don’t know as much as we thought we did about the most important people in our lives.
The family conversation starters below can be used in a family therapy session as well as at home. They can and should be personalized in a way that is age appropriate and has a specific goal in mind: to bring family members together, help them communicate effectively, express their emotions, or move toward constructive problem solving.
Another great activity known as ‘What will they say?‘ encourages family members to guess what another family member will say in response to a question (Lowenstein, 2010).
It allows family members not only to get to know each other better, but also to develop skills in asking each other questions, understanding that there are things that are similar between family members and things that are different. Finally, it helps make the point that family members, especially parents, may not know as much about each other as they think they do.
Create at least 20 questions, such as:
- What is your favorite color?
- What is your favorite dessert?
- Who do you think gets angry the most in the family?
- Who cries the most in the family?
- Who laughs the most in the family?
- Who watches TV the most in the family?
- Who gives the most support to you?
- Who gives Mom/Dad the most support?
- What would the family member on your left like to get for their birthday?
- Who is the best at following the rules?
- Who sets the most rules?
To use these games effectively, it helps to make sure the questions connect to a family goal. The game can move reasonably quickly, giving everyone a turn and ending the session on a high note. Finally, many existing games, especially games and activities the family is already familiar with, can be adapted to provide an opportunity for a meaningful conversation.
Therapeutic Questions for Youth
There is no time more ridden with unanswered questions and throbbing with urgency as in our youth.
As teens grapple with discovering their identities and setting directions for their lives, it is an excellent opportunity to set standards for a self-reflective and inquisitive mind that is open to honest discussions and not afraid to ask questions.
As the saying goes, if we ask good questions, we get better answers. Below is a list of questions most frequently used in therapy with pre-teens to young adults and that anyone might find interesting.
- What is the best compliment you have received?
- In your opinion, what is the best song ever written?
- If you could know one thing about the future, what would it be?
- What is something you feel nervous about right now?
- What is your happiest memory?
- What is something that you did that you are proud of?
- If someone’s underwear were showing, would you tell them?
- I get mad when…
- What calms you down when you get angry or upset?
- What is your favorite animal and why?
- My favorite sound is…
- What is your favorite green thing?
- If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go and why?
- If your house was burning down, what one item would you grab and why?
- Name two anger management techniques.
- Name two positive values.
- Name two ways you can show self-control in the school setting.
- What would be the title of your autobiography?
- Do you think people talk differently online than they do in person? Why?
- What is one item you can’t live without?
- What would you do if you were hungry and a lunchbox was left open and unattended?
- What is better, giving your money or giving your time?
- If you could add, change, or cancel one rule in your school, what would it be?
- What does “habit” mean, and why is it hard to change?
- Who do you trust the most and why?
- Where do you feel the safest and why?
- If you could change one rule that your family has, what would it be and why?
- What is one word you would use to describe your family and why?
- How do you think others view you and why?
- If you could travel back in time to years ago and visit your younger self, what advice would you give yourself?
- What five words best describe you?
- If you could make one rule that everyone in the world had to follow, what would it be and why?
- What does respect mean to you? Give an example.
- What do you like the most about yourself?
- If you could give one gift to every child in the world, what would it be and why?
- What do you think is the most important job in the world? Why?
- Tell us about a time when you felt sad. What helped get you through it?
- What is the first symptom you notice when you feel mad?
- Give two examples of acts of kindness.
- Who is someone you consider a real-life hero and why?
- Where do you see yourself in 10 years?
- Who do you wish you had a better relationship with, and what would make it better?
- Share a time where you sought attention in an appropriate way. And in a negative way?
- Choose one person in this room and compliment them.
- Give two examples of communication with a teacher who accuses you of something you didn’t do.
- Talk about a time when you witnessed someone being teased. What effect did the teasing have on that person?
One assessment tool that is particularly useful in work with young people with complex needs is the ecomap. It is a visual representation of current family relationships and also community and social networks where clients are encouraged to identify whether their relationships with their peers, school, social clubs, professionals, are strong, weak, or stressful. See these templates.
15 Therapeutic Questions for Group Therapy Discussions
Group therapy serves two distinct goals. While it addresses exploration of issues very much in the same way that individual therapy does, it also serves the purpose of finding ourselves in the environment where we feel less isolated from other people because many of those in the room share similar struggles.
Just as in individual therapy, clients often enact the same tendencies they bring to all their other relationships, and the client interaction within a group can often be a good reflection of how they show up in the relationships with other people in their lives (Yalom, 1983).
While the therapist is trained in delivering structure for the discussion and guiding the questions, the biggest benefit lies in the exchange between participants. Leaders within the group are usually appointed and tasked with looking for commonalities among members and encouraging everyone to be supportive of each other.
Most group therapies are done in a round-robin discussion format. Rules of conduct are established and adhered to, roles assigned for leaders of the group, and the room set up usually in a circle to encourage collaboration and everyone having a voice. Questions used in group therapy often focus on very much the same themes as individual therapy and include the reasons for being there and the expectations for the future.
- Let’s start by spending a few minutes talking about the benefits of group therapy and what positive psychology groups are about.
- Let’s go around and have each member tell us what you expect to get out of the group
- Where else might you have been at this moment if you hadn’t come to this group session today?
- What might you have chosen to do?
- Is it your own decision to come here, or did someone else encourage you to do so?
- How do you feel about coming here each week?
- What do you like best about this session?
- Is there something you don’t enjoy about this group session?
- Are you particularly looking forward to anything?
Depending on the purpose of the group, be it anger management, bereavement, substance abuse, etc. , the content and the topics of discussion may vary. Although in a typical session, several topics and questions are provided, group leaders need not ask all questions or address all topics; instead, questions and topics should be selected as they relate to what is happening in the group. Some general questions could include:
- What brought each of you into the group?
- Tell us two or three words that best describe you.
- Now, thinking about those words, how do they relate to why you are here?
- What is your favorite thing about yourself, something that makes you feel positive and proud to be you?
- Is there something new that has happened in your life recently?
Homework assignments and progress logs can be used between sessions, and educational material and handouts may be distributed. Many sessions start with reviews of progress and end with a recap of the activities.
A Take-Home Message
The value of deep, probing questions need not be reserved for the therapy session. There is no reason why we can’t have more of these healing conversations in our lives, but it is both an art and science and requires some practice. We can all get better at asking questions we want answers to, and applying the therapeutic approach to the process of self-discovery can prove a worthwhile endeavor.
The scientist is not a person who gives the right answers, he’s one who asks the right questions.
Claude Levi-Strauss
What questions do you think are important to ask, in therapy or not?
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4 Scales to Measure Satisfaction with Life (SWLS)
Reflecting on our sense of happiness in different key areas of life can be difficult, especially if our life is seemingly all going well.
Sometimes feelings of unhappiness or dissatisfaction just seem to find us, and it’s up to us to take the time to explore why this might be.
How you do that will depend on a number of different things, but if you’re struggling to get to grips with it, there are plenty of psychology tools and resources to help.
One of those tools is the Satisfaction With Life Scale (SWLS), and in this article, we’re going to take a closer look at what this is and what it can do for you.
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This Article Contains:
- The Satisfaction With Life Scale
- What Does the Questionnaire Measure Exactly?
- How Does the Scoring Work?
- A Look at the Reliability and Validity of the Test
- About Ed Diener and the Authors
- The Wheel of Life by PositivePsychology.com
- Student’s Life Satisfaction Scale (SLSS)
- The Multidimensional Student’s Life Satisfaction Scale (MSLSS)
- A Take-Home Message
- References
The Satisfaction With Life Scale
The Satisfaction With Life Scale (SWLS) was first created by researchers Diener, Emmons, Larsen, and Griffin (1985) and published in an article in the Journal of Personality Assessment.
The scale was developed as a way to assess an individual’s cognitive judgment of their satisfaction with their life as a whole. The SWLS is a very simple, short questionnaire made up of only five statements.
Participants completing the questionnaire are asked to judge how they feel about each of the statements using a seven-point scoring system, with 1 being “strongly disagree” and 7 being “strongly agree.”
Below, I’ve outlined what these statements are:
- In most ways, my life is close to my ideal.
- The conditions of my life are excellent.
- I am satisfied with my life.
- So far, I have gotten the important things I want in life.
- If I could live my life over, I would change almost nothing.
Once you’ve assigned a score from 1 to 7 to each of the statements, you tally up your final score for an indication of how satisfied you are overall with life.
As you can see, the SWLS won’t take up a lot of your time to complete! But it can be a really useful instrument in supporting you to reflect on your life, overall satisfaction, and in beginning to think about areas you might need to spend a bit more time exploring.
You can download a full copy of the SWLS, including how to tally and score.
What Does the Questionnaire Measure Exactly?
When it comes to a sense of subjective wellbeing, researchers have asserted that it consists of two main components: the emotional component and the cognitive component (Diener, 1984; Veenhoven, 1984).
The cognitive component has been more closely conceptualized with life satisfaction (Andrews & Withey, 1976), yet despite this, had not previously received much attention for research. Diener et al. (1985) sought to address this and through developing the SWLS, they created a strong tool in the measurement of the cognitive components they felt reflected a subjective sense of wellbeing and life satisfaction.
The SWLS is not designed to help you understand satisfaction in any one specific domain of life, such as your job or relationships; instead, it has been developed to help you get a sense of your satisfaction with your life as a whole.
Although the questionnaire doesn’t measure individual components, it can be an excellent starting point, encouraging deeper thought and exploration of the specific areas of life that may be causing you a sense of dissatisfaction.
How Does the Scoring Work?
The scoring for the SWLS works quite simply, by adding up the total of the numbers you score against each of the statements. So, remembering that 1 = strongly disagree and 7 = strongly agree, the higher your score, the higher your sense of life satisfaction as a whole.
As a guide, your total score means:
- 31–35 = Extremely satisfied
- 26–30 = Satisfied
- 21–25 = Slightly satisfied
- 20 = Neutral
- 15–19 = Slightly dissatisfied
- 10–14 = Dissatisfied
- 5–9 = Extremely dissatisfied
Pavot and Diener (2013) created a more in-depth description of what your score means for your sense of life satisfaction. Very briefly, we’ve written up what they had to say, but it’s worth accessing the original documents.
- 31–35 Extremely satisfied
If you score this high on the SWLS, it means you have a strong love of your life and feel that things are going really well for you. This does not mean to say that you feel your life is perfect, but you are content with how things are and/or feel any challenges are temporary and can be managed.
A high score does not indicate that you are complacent about your sense of satisfaction, and it is likely you understand that challenge is a pathway to growth and greater satisfaction.
- 26–30 Satisfied
If you score in this range, you likely feel that most things in your life are going really well, but there may be one or two key areas you wish to change. You understand that your life is not perfect and respect that any challenges are also an area for further growth and exploration.
- 21–25 Slightly satisfied
If you score in this margin, you’re in good company. The researchers assert that this is where the majority of people score themselves. This score means you are generally satisfied, on an average day-to-day basis; however, there are areas you’d really like to improve.
Rather than there being one or two things that you feel would give you greater satisfaction, you might feel that small improvements across all domains of your life would lead to a higher sense of life satisfaction.
- 20 Neutral
A score of 20 – bang in the middle of the scale – means you’re likely pretty neutral about your sense of satisfaction about your life. You might not give too much thought to what does or doesn’t need improving, and you’re quite content where you are.
- 15–19 Slightly dissatisfied
A score in this range might mean that you tend to feel dissatisfied more than satisfied on a day-to-day basis, and there are several significant areas for improvement. It might also indicate that you’re generally content, but there is one area of life where you feel deeply unsatisfied, which is creating a lower score.
A score in this margin requires further thought and reflection on where improvements need to be made to increase your sense of satisfaction.
- 10–14 Dissatisfied
A dissatisfied score tends to mean you’re feeling substantially dissatisfied about your current circumstances. This might be deep dissatisfaction across all areas of life or that two or three areas are far worse than the others.
It’s worth reflecting to see if your dissatisfaction is due to a recent event or situation, which may be temporary, or if this is a chronic experience because you are not living the life you truly want.
- 5–9 Extremely dissatisfied
As you may have guessed, a score at the very low end of the scale means that you are extremely dissatisfied with your current life circumstances. Again, if this score is due to a recent hard blow in life, such as bereavement, then things may get better over time with the right support.
However, a score this low tends to be an indication of dissatisfaction across multiple areas of life and is a good starting point to begin reflecting on why that might be.
A Look at the Reliability and Validity of the Test
The SWLS is one of the most widely used measurements for life satisfaction. The shortness and ease of being able to administer the scale to achieve foundation results is key to this, but how reliable does that actually make it?
In developing the scale, Diener et al. (1985) tested it widely and reported that it does have good psychometric properties, as well as a high test–retest coefficient (meaning participants who completed the scale more than once demonstrated the same results consistently).
Further research has confirmed this reliability against other measures of life satisfaction (Pavot et al., 1991, Pavot & Diener, 2008) as well as other measures for happiness (Lyubomirsky & Lepper, 1999). It has also correlated well with scales measuring the meaning of life (Steger et al., 2006) and scales measuring hope (Bailey & Synder, 2007).
Several other studies have also sought to use the scale across different cultural groups to test its validity, with positive results. Galankis et al. (2017) used the scale across a sample of 1,797 Greek natives and found their results in line with the original researcher’s studies, as well as other studies exploring cross-cultural uses for the SWLS.
The only part of the scale that has been questioned in the research is the use of the fifth statement, as researchers believe it has a weaker association with life satisfaction and instead causes participants to reflect on the desire to change rather than their current sense of life satisfaction (Pavot & Diener, 1993).
About Ed Diener and the Authors
Lead researcher for the SWLS, professor Ed Diener, was sometimes referred to by his nickname ‘Dr. Happiness,’ owing to his astonishing body of research and academic contributions to the study of happiness and wellbeing.
He was a professor of psychology at the University of Virginia and University of Utah, as well as a senior scientist with the Gallup Organization. He published over 350 academic articles and books and was also the editor of three scientific journals.
As well as happiness and life satisfaction, Diener studied the factors that influence these two areas, including financial health, family upbringing, personality, relationships, and work. He studied these topics across 166 different nations and explored some of the cultural components behind individual happiness.
The other researchers and authors of the SWLS include:
- Robert A. Emmons: A global leading expert and researcher on gratitude. He is currently a professor of psychology for the University of California and the founding editor-in-chief for The Journal of Positive Psychology. Emmons has also authored several books, including The Little Book of Gratitude.
- Randy J. Larsen: A highly regarded expert and academic in the field of positive psychology, Larsen is the William R. Stuckenberg Professor of Human Values and Moral Development, as well as the chair of the psychology department with Washington University. His research has focused on emotions, specifically exploring how we experience emotions differently as individuals.
Where Can You Find the SWLS?
The SWLS is widely available for free online, and while there are a few slight variations, each has the same outcome or measurement at its heart.
One of the best places to find the scale and its scoring is on the Ed Diener Lab website.
The Wheel of Life by PositivePsychology.com
While the SWLS can offer you an indication of your life satisfaction on a more overall scale, there are other tools and resources that can help you to further explore your sense of satisfaction in specific domain areas of your life.
One such tool is the wheel of life (Whitworth et al., 1998).
Once you have your score from the SWLS, you can then begin to reflect more fully on where you might like to make changes to build a greater sense of life satisfaction.
This tool will help you do that, as it requires that you identify the different life domains that are important to you – such as career, family, and relationships – and to then give each of these individual domains a rating from 1 to 10, with 1 being “not at all satisfied” and 10 being “completely satisfied. ”
PositivePsychology.com has put together a free ready-to-use resource with a Wheel of Life containing 10 key domains for life satisfaction.
These are:
- Money & finance
- Career & work
- Health & fitness
- Fun & recreation
- Environment
- Community
- Family & friends
- Partner & love
- Growth & learning
- Spirituality
The wheel is a fantastic resource from the SWLS, as not only does it encourage you to think more deeply about where you might be dissatisfied with life, it also creates a great visual representation.
Once you have your scores for each of the 10 domains, you can reflect on where you have given the lowest scores, why these are low scores, and what you might be able to do to start making positive changes and improve your sense of life satisfaction.
Ask yourself:
- Why does this domain need attention?
- What would it take to raise your satisfaction with one score in this domain?
- What can you do to raise your satisfaction in this domain?
Student’s Life Satisfaction Scale (SLSS)
The Student’s Life Satisfaction Scale (SLSS) is relatively similar to the SWLS, except it was purposefully designed to be used with children and young people aged 8–18 years old (Huebner, 1991).
It contains seven statements and asks young people to give each statement a score from 1 to 6, with 1 being “strongly disagree” and 6 being “strongly agree.”
The exception with the SLSS is that the last two questions are reverse scored (so 1 becomes “strongly agree” and 6 becomes “strongly disagree”).
There are a few different variants, but the statements are along the following lines:
- My life is going well.
- My life is just right.
- I would like to change many things in my life.
- I wish I had a different kind of life.
- I have a good life.
- I have what I want in life.
- My life is better than most kids.
As with the SWLS, when each statement has been assigned a score, a summary total is calculated to provide a numerical guide to the student’s sense of life satisfaction.
The Multidimensional Student’s Life Satisfaction Scale (MSLSS)
Following on from the SLSS, Huebner (1994) went on to create the Multidimensional Student’s Life Satisfaction Scale (MSLSS). The MSLSS is a longer scale assessment for measuring students’ satisfaction with life.
It contains 40 items/statements and can be used either with individuals or in a group setting.
Participants are asked to rate their response to the statements using the following numerical grading scale:
1 = Never
2 = Sometimes
3 = Often
4 = Almost always
The MSLSS was developed in response to a growing interest in promoting positive psychological wellbeing among young people and students (Sarason, 1997). With its use, Huebner hoped to:
- Create an individualized profile of a child’s life satisfaction across specific domains
- Provide an assessment of general life satisfaction
- Demonstrate acceptable and reliable psychometric properties
- Show the meaningfulness of the five specific domains it covers: family, friends, school, living environment, and self
- Provide a tool that can be used effectively with a wide range of young people, across different ages
Below, I have provided a brief outline of the types of statements that it includes:
- Family:
- I enjoy being at home with my family.
- My family gets along well together.
- Friends:
- My friends are nice to me.
- My friends are great.
- School:
- School is interesting
- I learn a lot at school.
- Living environment:
- I like where I live.
- I like my neighbors.
- Self:
- I am fun to be around.
- I like myself.
To score the MSLSS, you tally up the total score for each specific domain. A higher score indicates a higher level of life satisfaction – similar to the SWLS.
You can also compare domains by tallying the individual scores and then dividing the score by the number of statements in that specific section, to create a mean score.
You can find out more about the MSLSS and get a copy of the full 40 statements and scoring instructions.
A Take-Home Message
I hadn’t come across the SWLS before researching and writing this article, and I have found it a great tool to use personally. Its ease and accessibility mean everyone can benefit from the foundational insights it might offer you about how you feel about your current life situation.
If there’s one thing I’d like you to take away from this article, it’s that the SWLS and the wheel of life are just the beginning. Use them as resources to help your thought processes and be sure to reflect on your results. We are all in control of our own life satisfaction; if yours isn’t quite where you’d like it to be, you have the ability to change that.
What did you think of the SWLS, and has it helped you? I’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments.
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how to prepare and how to behave? The main tasks of the therapist
A good doctor must be very tactful. The ability to talk to patients is the main skill you will need to develop.
Steps
Part 1
Basic Strategies-
Before you say something, think about what exactly you want to say. When you know exactly what to say, think about the best way to express yourself before the patient enters your office. nine0003
- You don't have to write down everything you say, but if you have a general idea of what to say, it will be easier for you to remember all the necessary details. It will also give you the opportunity to think about how best to express yourself.
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Listen carefully. Ask patients questions about their problems. Pay close attention to the reactions of patients and respond to them in the same way.
- Pay attention to both verbal and nonverbal responses. nine0017
- Repeat the patient's answers. This will help you understand the situation better while you reassure your patients that her or his problems are solvable.
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Consider the needs of the patient as a whole. A patient is more than just a medical case. You must look at him as a person with his own unique fears, beliefs and circumstances.
- Respect all of your patient's beliefs, even if you do not agree with them. nine0017
- Encourage patients to ask questions.
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Speak to the patient in an accessible language. If possible, avoid medical terminology, do not speak professional language with patients. Speak slowly and clearly to avoid unnecessary confusion.
- Divide important information about a condition or treatment into small pieces. Make sure the patient understands one part before moving on to the next.
- Provide technical information only when asked. Too much complex information can make many patients feel discouraged. nine0017
- Some say that reading comprehension is stuck at the 6th grade level. Try replacing the words you would use to describe the situation to another doctor with words that a sixth grader would understand.
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Base your discussions on past experiences. When describing the meaning of specific actions, try to use words that were understood by your previous patients.
- If the patient has recently been discharged, explain that neglect of treatment may result in readmission. nine0017
- If a family member or friend of the patient has the same illness, talk about good and bad ways of caring for a loved one.
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Explain everything carefully and accurately to the patient. The information you provide about his illness, condition, and treatment must be complete and accurate.
- Explain the diagnosis in plain language.
- Describe the course of treatment and expected outcome. If there are alternative methods of treatment, explain their essence too. nine0017
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Make sure you are understood. After you have said everything the patient needs to know, ask him to repeat what you said. This will help you make sure the patient understands you.
- Correct any misunderstandings immediately.
- You may also provide sources of additional information if the patient is interested in learning more.
Part 2
Meeting new patients-
Introduce yourself. When you first meet with a patient, you should introduce yourself and explain that, as a doctor, your main task is to take care of the patient in the best possible way.
- Let the patient know that you are sensitive to their concerns and beliefs and will try to take them into account when choosing a treatment.
- Reassure the patient that he can discuss everything without fear of judgment or ridicule.
- Present yourself as an ally of the patient. This helps to establish a good relationship between doctor and patient. nine0017
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Break the ice with a short conversation. A short conversation creates a relaxed, friendly atmosphere in which your patient will feel more comfortable. You can also accomplish this by ending the conversation on a light-hearted note.
- A short conversation can be useful when you first meet a patient and if you need to communicate with him later.
- Distracted topics of conversation can be the weather, the economy, the latest medical news, or current events. nine0017
- If you think that you will establish a long-term professional relationship with the patient, you can also move on to personal topics. Tell about your family and ask about the patient's family. Discuss your patient's career, education, likes and dislikes.
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Double-view the patient's medical history. You should have your patient's medical history on the table in advance, in a conversation you can clarify doubtful points.
- Ask for clarification of any items in the medical history that you do not understand.
- Review the medical history of your patient's family members and find out if they have any family members with diseases related to the diagnosis.
- Before prescribing any medications, ask if the patient is allergic to them.
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Ask about the patient's values and ideas. Ask if the patient has any beliefs that you should take into account at the outset. Regardless of the answer, you must assess the patient's values and goals as you work. nine0003
- Ask questions to make sure the patient believes you. When working with terminally ill patients, ask what is worth living for? From the answer, you will understand what the patient is ready for in order to prolong life.
- Keep asking questions until you have a complete understanding of the patient's point of view.
Part 3
Use of non-verbal communicationsPart 4
Discussing difficult issues- nine0002 Discuss difficult topics before a crisis hits. You must discuss some difficult questions that may arise once a diagnosis is made or if there is concern that the condition may worsen.
- This can be anything from radical treatments to lifelong patient care.
- The ideal place to discuss complex issues is your office, not the hospital. Patients tend to make wise decisions in a relaxed environment. nine0017
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Spend time discussing important decisions. Some issues may require immediate resolution, but patients usually have several days or weeks to think.
- Insist on the importance of the decision, but give the patient as much time as possible to think.
- People often regret decisions made in haste. Try to minimize your regrets and the regrets of your patients. nine0018
Rehabilitation after a stroke is always necessary for everyone. Now in Russia there are various possibilities for undergoing such rehabilitation treatment: within the framework of compulsory medical insurance, under a voluntary insurance policy, or in a private rehabilitation center. Each of these methods can be quite effective, and each has its own characteristics. Let's talk a little about how rehabilitation under the compulsory medical insurance policy differs from the stroke recovery program at the ICR. nine0003
History rehabilitation of our patient, a young woman Yuliya, who survived a stroke and complications after it, were evaluated at the All-Russian level - at the competition "Best clinical case-2018” this case took the second place. Command The Interdisciplinary Rehabilitation Center helped Yulia return to independent life from a state close to vegetative.
Sometimes as a result of illness or injury, the person can no longer control their arm, has trouble walking, or forced to use a wheelchair. This is a difficult situation and physical, and from the psychological side, and at first it is not clear: well, how to live without the hand that fed me? How can you get used to not being able to walk? nine0003
How to avoid mistakes if you have a stroke? This disease spares no one: if you think that it only affects the elderly, you are mistaken. A blow can also occur with an active, young, able-bodied person. In this article, we list the main mistakes that patients and their relatives make after a stroke.
Interview
Denis Dyatlov graduated from medical school with a degree in psychotherapy, but has been working as an ergotherapist for several years now. This conversation with Denis is about what occupational therapy is, how this area of medicine intersects with psychology and psychotherapy, and whether it is possible to return a person with the consequences of a serious illness to an independent life. nine0003
The therapist is a generalist doctor whose competence includes a wide range of tasks. The science of therapy is a field that focuses on the study of diseases of the internal organs. It studies the causes of diseases, their diagnosis, treatment and prevention. The activity of the therapist covers diseases of the respiratory, cardiovascular, digestive, musculoskeletal, urinary, endocrine and hematopoietic systems.
Reference! In medicine, the profession of a therapist is in great demand, this doctor examines the patient, establishes a preliminary diagnosis, and, if necessary, refers the patient to highly specialized specialists. nine0201What diseases does the therapist treat
In terms of specific diseases for which the patient should consult a general practitioner, they are as follows:
- colds;
- diseases of the bronchopulmonary system;
- pathologies of the heart and blood vessels;
- diseases related to the digestive tract;
- renal pathologies;
- problems with the spine and joints;
- neurological diseases;
nine0010 violations in metabolic processes;- blood diseases.
The activity of a therapist is limited to prescribing conservative treatment of diseases.
General tasks of the therapist
The therapist's tasks include:
- Patient reception, history taking, initial examination.
- Early diagnosis of pathologies based on patient complaints and examination results.
- Consultation of the patient, during which the doctor explains the causes of the identified disease. nine0017
- A qualified specialist also acts as a psychotherapist, he calms the patient and provides him with information about the disease in the right amount.
- Prescribing conservative therapy, physiotherapy, as well as other therapeutic measures, adhering to the scope of their competence.
- Referral to laboratory, instrumental and hardware research.
- When a complex course of pathology is detected, the therapist refers the patient to a specialist for a more detailed study. nine0017
- The choice of the optimal treatment regimen, while taking into account the recommendations of specialists in a narrow focus.
- Making a decision about the need for hospitalization of the patient.
- Identification and assessment of the risk of chronic pathology and the appointment of adequate measures to prevent it.
- Consultation on the prevention of complications and relapses of diseases.
- Monitoring the condition of patients with chronic forms of the disease.
- Creation of a complex scheme for examining a patient during a medical examination or a professional examination. nine0017
- Examining the patient before vaccination, as well as deciding on the need and possibility of vaccination.
Indications for a doctor's visit
An indication for a visit to a therapist is a sharp deterioration in health. Seek medical attention at:
- chronic fatigue, regardless of occupation;
- discomfort or pain in the internal organs - nausea, heaviness in the stomach, constant thirst or hunger, increased heart rate for no apparent reason, etc. ; nine0017
- deterioration of visual ability, the appearance of a white veil before the eyes, dizziness;
- fainting and other signs that indicate problems in the functioning of the nervous system;
- attention disorder, memory impairment, insomnia, weakness, apathy;
- pallor of the skin, loss of appetite;
- sudden unreasonable weight loss;
- temperature increase;
- severe headaches;
- hematemesis or bloody stools; nine0017
- speech disorders, paralysis of limbs.
Pregnant women need to see a physician to monitor blood sugar and hemoglobin levels, to measure blood pressure.
For prevention, it is also necessary to visit a therapist for people who have a hereditary predisposition to certain diseases, in the presence of chronic pathologies, as well as for those who have crossed the 40-year mark.
How is the visit
An examination by a general practitioner begins with a questioning of the patient about complaints, the presence of chronic diseases, lifestyle, and family history. After that, he proceeds to examine the patient, in some cases, the doctor may ask to undress to the waist. On examination, the doctor evaluates:
- physique;
- condition of the skin;
- mucous membranes;
- condition of the skeletal system;
- muscular system;
- condition of the joints;
- volume of subcutaneous fat.
Then the doctor proceeds to other clinical methods:
- Palpation - palpation of various parts of the body in order to assess their density, pain and other structural units.
nine0010 Percussion - tapping. By the nature of the sound, the doctor makes a conclusion about the presence of some pathological processes. For example, a dull percussive sound above the lung surface indicates inflammation, and a drum sound when tapping the abdomen may be a sign of intestinal distension.- Auscultation - listening with a stethoscope for lung breathing, heart murmurs, or blood flow through large blood arteries.
Preparing for visit
First you need to contact the reception of the medical institution and find out the schedule of the therapist's appointment. Then it is worth preparing all the available results of medical research. These are x-rays, and a cardiogram, and the results of a blood test, and other documents. It is advisable to break them down by date so that the doctor can see the picture of the studies in dynamics.
The day before the visit to the doctor, you should avoid taking alcoholic products and not taking medicines that can lubricate the clinical manifestations of the disease. The exception is drugs prescribed by a doctor. Before the visit, it is recommended to take a shower, this condition is not mandatory, but rather ethical. nine0003
No specific preparation is required for the examination by the therapist, the only thing to do is to prepare a list of questions that the patient plans to ask the doctor so as not to forget anything important.
In case of a sharp and severe deterioration in the state of health, the doctor can be called to the house, if necessary, the therapist can organize the hospitalization of the patient.
List of questions to ask the therapist
To begin with, you should clearly set yourself the goal of a visit to the doctor. Having a clear idea of what you are going to a therapist for, it will be easier for you to build a conversation with him. This will allow you to make the most efficient use of the doctor's time. nine0003
Sometimes you shouldn't go to an appointment alone. Perhaps you will be calmer if there is a person you trust next to you. He will be able to help during a conversation with a doctor, and will also remember the information (or even take notes) given by a specialist in more detail.
As for the list of questions to ask the therapist, here is a sample list:
- What is the cause of the condition?
- In addition to the obvious and probable causes, what other reasons could there be for the symptoms observed? nine0017
- What tests and studies are needed to confirm or refute the diagnosis?
- How exactly does he name the diagnosed disease?
- What will the course of the disease look like in the future and what is the prognosis?
- Is it possible that the disease can pass on to family members?
- Is there any specific help needed to treat an illness at home?
- Are there any contraindications for this or that examination and how it can affect the body? nine0017
- If there are concomitant diseases, it is necessary to report them, and find out how to combine treatment, and whether there are any contraindications for taking certain medications.
- Are there dietary, lifestyle or other restrictions? What are they?
- What are the analogues of the prescribed drug, and is it possible to replace the prescribed drug with an analogue?
- Are there printed materials or websites where you can learn more about the identified disease? nine0017
- When prescribing a drug, write down the exact dosing schedule and dosage of the drug, and ask about possible side effects.
- Which doctor should I contact if I feel worse?
Important! If in a conversation with a doctor the patient is not clear, he should ask for clarification.The doctor will also ask the patient questions, to which it is better to prepare answers in advance so as not to get confused in the doctor's office:
- When did the complaints first appear?
- Do symptoms recur intermittently or are they persistent?
- How much discomfort do the manifestations of the disease cause?
- How much do symptoms get worse as the disease progresses?
- Did the next of kin have similar symptoms?
Conclusion
Translated from Greek, "therapy" means "medical care". However, in addition to treating patients, the therapist plays an important social role. This doctor provides various certificates - sick leave certificates, health certificates, referrals for spa treatment, and so on. nine0003
The difficulty of working as a therapist lies in the fact that this doctor is the first contact person for the patient. The patient gets to other specialists after the therapist, so it is this doctor who takes the brunt of patients dissatisfied with their lives, as well as the so-called “chronic complainers”, and, if possible, protects narrow specialists from them. It is not worth postponing a visit to a therapist, any disease can be cured more effectively and quickly in the initial stages. By letting the disease take its course, you can miss the time when the disease could be dealt with with the help of conservative methods. nine0003
– How to talk to a doctor correctly.
– What questions to ask a patient at a doctor's appointment.
HOW TO SPEAK WITH A DOCTOR CORRECTLY
The doctor-patient relationship is a business partnership. You must work together, so be prepared to do your part. Below are 10 things that can prevent you from gaining health.
1. Talking on a mobile phone - In the doctor's office, you should only talk about your health. Other conversations can wait. Turn off your phone. nine0003
2. Lie - If you are gay, say so. If you drink a lot of alcohol in the evening, your doctor should be aware of this. If you are having sex without condoms, this should also be reported to the doctor. He will not judge you.
3. Wrong description of pain - Does it tingle or burn? Suddenly or permanently? Accurate answers will help the doctor make the correct diagnosis. You must specify the location of the pain, the intensity, what causes it, and how long it lasts. It is best to start keeping a diary a week before the appointment, describing pain and other symptoms. Also use this time to formulate questions you want to ask the doctor. nine0003
4. Notification of not all reasons for your visit - If the ear hurts, the knee shoots and the stye popped out on the eye, tell about it right away. Then the doctor will be able to plan your appointment more effectively.
5. No formulated expectations - If you have specific expectations from a doctor's visit, such as getting rid of a stye in your eye or giving antibiotics for a sore ear, say so. The doctor can explain how realistic your hopes are, and you won't be disappointed in the end. nine0003
6. Biased medication information - Ideally, patients should bring a list of medications that they actually take, not those that they think they should take or that they think the doctor would like to prescribe. If you are taking dietary supplements, it's best to bring the package as they don't have a common standard and the doctor will want to know the ingredients.
7. Unspoken questions and problems - If the question has matured in your head, ask it, even if it seems to you that the doctor is in a hurry. If you suffer from headaches, it could even be a brain tumor, despite the fact that loved ones may accuse you of hypochondria. nine0003
8. No history or imaging - Doctors always advise to bring all medical records, even if they are from other clinics. This will help present an objective picture of your health.
9. Silent disagreement with the doctor - If your doctor thinks you need to take an antidepressant and you absolutely don't want to, it's better to say so right away than throw the prescription out the door. If your doctor suggests medications you can't afford, say so. Doctors can't read your mind, so you have to communicate. If the treatment plan suggested by the doctor does not resonate with the intuitive wisdom of your inner healer, speak up, rather than ignore what is being suggested to you. nine0003
10. Failure to fulfill appointments - If you follow all the tips above, you should end up with a treatment program that makes sense to you and that you are able to complete. Then it is imperative that you do what you agreed to. And if you are not doing something, again tell the doctor about it so that he does not think that the treatment he prescribed was ineffective. He just needs to know.
QUESTIONS TO ASK A PATIENT AT THE DOCTOR'S RECEPTION nine0003
Doctors say that they most often encounter silent patients at the reception. Their bewilderment increases after, when it turns out that their patient is interested in recommendations on the Internet and asks to explain why this or that appointment was made.
1. If you have questions, ask. It is very important that you understand the causes and nature of your disease, figure out what studies and analyzes need to be done in order to make the correct diagnosis. If you do not understand something - do not hesitate to ask an extra question. nine0003
2. Be sure to tell the doctor about all the details of the illness. Don't forget to mention any allergic reactions or complications after using medications. If you take any medications, dietary supplements, follow a special diet, also tell your doctor about it. Remember that members of your family may have diseases similar to yours. Even the most seemingly insignificant details can be very important for the appointment of effective treatment.
3. Train yourself to keep a history of the disease. Remember, or better yet, write down the details of the course of your disease, record changes in your state and sensations after taking medications, during diagnosis or treatment procedures. Take into account all pain, dizziness, discomfort, itching, numbness, redness, etc., even if they seem unrelated to your illness. Do not be lazy to write down the symptoms, because a person’s memory can seriously deteriorate during an illness. nine0003
4. Invite loved ones to talk with your doctor. If your illness is not a secret, the presence of relatives or friends when talking with the doctor will help minimize the risk of misunderstanding between the patient and the doctor. If your condition does not allow you to personally consult a doctor, delegate a loved one to the consultation.
5. Make sure you get the treatment that's right for you. Your name and surname must be written on the appointment sheet for medical or diagnostic procedures. nine0003
6. Gather as much information as possible about the upcoming operation. If you need surgery, find out from the surgeon all the details of the surgery, possible risks and complications during and after the operation. Ask the surgeon to mark the area of your body that will be in the “operation zone” with a marker. But before you ask a doctor about this, listen to yourself - whether this information will harm you.
7. Find out all the details of the recovery process before leaving the hospital. Ask your doctor if you need to continue treatment at home, when to come for an examination, how to get advice if complications arise. nine0003
8. Know the medicines you are taking. Make sure you know the names of the medications you are taking, how they work, and when you take them. Write down the names of medicines and save prescriptions (or instructions). Make sure you are aware of the complications or side effects of your medications.
The site wishes you good health!What questions should I ask the doctor at the consultation? — Into-Sana
Patient Advice
Often, when we leave the doctor's office, we remember that we forgot to ask a series of questions. And after some time, everything that was clear at the reception becomes incomprehensible. To avoid such situations, we have tried to describe the questions, the answers to which may be important for the patient. The active participation of the patient in the treatment process, his awareness allows the doctor to provide the maximum effect. nine0003
Undoubtedly, the coverage of such issues at the reception is, first of all, the doctor's task. But we know from our own experience that effective feedback between the doctor and the patient allows you to concentrate on issues that are extremely important for both parties, and significantly reduces the risk of the “broken phone” effect.
General advice:
- Before you visit your doctor, list the questions you would like answered. It is advisable to write down these questions on paper and take it with you to the consultation so as not to forget anything. nine0017
- At the consultation, be careful, do not hesitate to ask the doctor clarifying questions. Knowing the situation will help you and your doctor deal with the problem as effectively as possible.
- Monitor receipt of all appointments and recommendations in writing. At the same time, make sure that everything is clear to you, and you can read everything. Make additional explanatory notes for yourself in the document.
- Ask your doctor how you can ask questions if they come up later in the examination or treatment.