My anxiety won t let me sleep


What is it, Causes, Symptoms & Treatment

Overview

What is sleep anxiety?

Sleep anxiety is fear or worry about going to sleep. You may be apprehensive about not falling asleep or not being able to stay asleep. Some people also have a distinct phobia, or fear, about sleep called somniphobia. They may think something bad will happen to them while they sleep, or that they shouldn’t sleep because they need to stay alert and watchful.

Sleep and psychiatric disorders, such as anxiety, often go hand in hand. If you have an anxiety disorder, you may find it hard to fall asleep or stay asleep. Similarly, if you have a sleep disorder, you might feel anxious or fearful before bed because you’re afraid you won’t get the rest you need. One condition usually makes the other worse, so it can feel like a never-ending cycle.

Who gets sleep anxiety?

Sleep anxiety can affect adults, teens and children. You may be more likely to develop anxiety at night if you have a sleep disorder such as:

  • Insomnia.
  • Narcolepsy.
  • Restless legs syndrome (RLS).
  • Sleep apnea.
  • Sleepwalking.

People with the following mental health disorders may also develop nighttime anxiety:

  • Anxiety disorders.
  • Bipolar disorder.
  • Depression.
  • Drug addictions or alcoholism.
  • Panic disorder.
  • Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).
  • Schizophrenia.

How common is sleep anxiety?

Anxiety is the most common mental health disorder in the U.S., affecting about 40 million people. Research suggests that most people with mental health disorders such as anxiety also have some form of sleep disruption.

Symptoms and Causes

What causes sleep anxiety?

Anxiety is a natural part of being human. We’re meant to feel afraid or worried in dangerous situations. Stress and anxiety trigger our bodies to release hormones that help us react quickly to escape harm. But if you have chronic anxiety, you might feel stress or worry all the time. You may feel fearful of everyday situations like driving to work or even falling asleep.

Chronically high levels of these hormones, especially before sleep, can make it hard for your body to relax. You may have difficulty falling asleep. If you do fall asleep, you may wake up during the night with stressful or worrisome thoughts and not be able to fall asleep again.

The combination of a anxiety and insomnia can also be caused by a condition where there isn’t enough thyroid hormone in your bloodstream and your metabolism slows down (hypothyroidism).

Research suggests that anxiety can affect rapid eye movement (REM) sleep. This is the phase of sleep when you tend to have vivid dreams. If you have anxiety, the dreams may be disturbing or turn into nightmares that wake you.

Just as anxiety can affect sleep, sleep can affect anxiety. Sleep anxiety is a common characteristic of insomnia, wherein the individual begins to experience anxiety during the day and evening about poor sleep, which may help cause another night of bad sleep.

What are the symptoms of sleep anxiety?

When you can’t sleep due to anxiety, you may experience behavioral changes, including:

  • Feelings of being overwhelmed.
  • Inability to concentrate.
  • Irritability.
  • Nervousness.
  • Restlessness.
  • Sense of impending danger or doom.

Physical effects of anxiety before bed may include:

  • Digestive problems.
  • Fast heart rate.
  • Rapid breathing.
  • Sweating.
  • Tense muscles.
  • Trembling.

Some people also have nocturnal panic attacks. A panic attack is a sudden, intense burst of extreme fear. Nocturnal panic attacks only happen at night, and often wake you from sleep.

Diagnosis and Tests

How is sleep anxiety diagnosed?

Your healthcare provider performs a physical exam, reviews your medical history and evaluates your symptoms. They may ask you questions like:

  • Do you eat or drink anything before bed?
  • Does your anxiety always occur before bed?
  • How long does it take you to fall asleep?
  • How often do you wake up during the night?
  • What activities do you do before bed?

What tests help confirm a sleep anxiety diagnosis?

In some cases, your provider may do a sleep study to find out if you have a sleep disorder. Also called polysomnography, a sleep study is a test where you stay overnight in a sleep lab. Your healthcare provider evaluates how your body works during sleep by checking your:

  • Blood oxygen levels.
  • Body positioning.
  • Breathing.
  • Electrical activity in your brain.
  • Eye movements.
  • Heart rates and rhythms.
  • Leg movements.
  • Sleep stages.
  • Snoring or other noises you make during sleep.

Management and Treatment

How is sleep anxiety treated?

There are a variety of ways to manage sleep anxiety, including:

  • Cognitive behavior therapy (CBT).
  • Healthy sleep habits (sleep hygiene).
  • Medication.

How does cognitive behavioral therapy treat sleep anxiety?

CBT is a form of psychotherapy, or talk therapy. It teaches you how to change your behavior by changing the way you think. It’s a common treatment for people with anxiety. A special form of CBT called cognitive behavior therapy for insomnia (CBTI) focuses on helping people who have insomnia. This therapy can take anywhere from six to 12 weeks to produce results.

During CBT or CBTI, you may learn to:

  • Avoid behaviors or environmental factors that trigger your anxiety or make sleeping difficult.
  • Better understand how sleep and anxiety affect your brain and the rest of your body.
  • Change negative or inaccurate thinking about bedtime or sleep.

Your therapist may teach you how to sleep with anxiety by using biofeedback. Biofeedback trains you to manage your body’s functions. You learn to relax your muscles, regulate your breathing, lower your heart rate and focus your attention. Your therapist might use special sensors to measure these bodily functions, or they may give you exercises, such as deep breathing and meditation, to do at home.

How can healthier sleep habits treat sleep anxiety?

Sleep habits, or sleep hygiene, are your routines around bedtime that can affect your sleep. Your healthcare provider may ask you to keep a sleep diary for several weeks. This is a daily log of your sleep habits. It can help identify things that might make it harder for you to fall asleep or stay asleep.

Some common ways to improve your sleep hygiene include:

  • Avoid drinking lots of fluids before bed, especially alcohol.
  • Do relaxing activities before bed, such as meditation or listening to soft, peaceful music.
  • Don’t consume caffeine in the late afternoon or evening.
  • Don’t go to bed unless you feel sleepy.
  • Go to bed and wake up at the same time each day.
  • If you don’t fall asleep within 20 minutes, get out of bed.
  • Make sure your bedroom is comfortable, quiet and softly lit.
  • Only use your bed for sleep and sex. For example, avoid watching television or doing work in bed.
  • Set a goal of getting at least seven hours of sleep every night.
  • Stop using electronic devices at least 30 minutes before bedtime.
  • Try not to eat right before bedtime. If you’re hungry, have a light snack and not a big meal.

How can medication treat sleep anxiety?

Your healthcare provider may recommend medication to treat anxiety or other mental health disorders. Medication can also help improve the symptoms of sleep-related disorders such as restless legs syndrome or insomnia.

But some medications might actually increase your anxiety or make sleeping harder when you first start taking them. If you experience these side effects, talk to your healthcare provider. Many over-the-counter sleep aids can also be habit-forming. Don’t start any medication for anxiety or sleep without your healthcare provider’s supervision.

Prevention

How can I prevent sleep anxiety?

You may be able to reduce your risk of sleep anxiety by:

  • Eating a healthy diet.
  • Exercising regularly.
  • Practicing good sleep hygiene.
  • Taking medications for mental health disorders or sleep disorders as prescribed by your healthcare provider.

Outlook / Prognosis

What’s the prognosis (outlook) for people with sleep anxiety?

Most people can successfully manage their sleep anxiety with the right treatments. But remember that some treatments, such as medication or CBT, can take time to be effective. Don’t stop treatment prematurely if you think it isn’t working.

Are there long-term complications of sleep anxiety?

Prolonged anxiety or lack of sleep can affect your body in many ways. Sleep anxiety puts you at a higher risk for the following long-term complications:

  • Diabetes.
  • Heart attack.
  • Heart disease.
  • Heart failure.
  • High blood pressure.
  • Arrhythmia (irregular heartbeat).
  • Obesity.
  • Stroke.

Living With

How can I make living with sleep anxiety easier?

Anxiety or sleep problems can affect every aspect of your life, from your performance at work to your interactions with others. It may help to talk about your sleep anxiety with a therapist, co-workers, friends or loved ones. Support groups can also connect you to a community of people dealing with similar experiences.

A note from Cleveland Clinic

Sleep anxiety is a feeling of fear or stress about falling asleep or staying asleep. Sleep problems and mental health disorders such as anxiety are closely intertwined. One can often make the other worse, so it can feel like a never-ending cycle. But anxiety and sleep problems are both treatable. Talk to your healthcare provider about your symptoms and work together to build the right treatment plan. Common treatments include cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), good sleep hygiene and medication.

What is it, Causes, Symptoms & Treatment

Overview

What is sleep anxiety?

Sleep anxiety is fear or worry about going to sleep. You may be apprehensive about not falling asleep or not being able to stay asleep. Some people also have a distinct phobia, or fear, about sleep called somniphobia. They may think something bad will happen to them while they sleep, or that they shouldn’t sleep because they need to stay alert and watchful.

Sleep and psychiatric disorders, such as anxiety, often go hand in hand. If you have an anxiety disorder, you may find it hard to fall asleep or stay asleep. Similarly, if you have a sleep disorder, you might feel anxious or fearful before bed because you’re afraid you won’t get the rest you need. One condition usually makes the other worse, so it can feel like a never-ending cycle.

Who gets sleep anxiety?

Sleep anxiety can affect adults, teens and children. You may be more likely to develop anxiety at night if you have a sleep disorder such as:

  • Insomnia.
  • Narcolepsy.
  • Restless legs syndrome (RLS).
  • Sleep apnea.
  • Sleepwalking.

People with the following mental health disorders may also develop nighttime anxiety:

  • Anxiety disorders.
  • Bipolar disorder.
  • Depression.
  • Drug addictions or alcoholism.
  • Panic disorder.
  • Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).
  • Schizophrenia.

How common is sleep anxiety?

Anxiety is the most common mental health disorder in the U.S., affecting about 40 million people. Research suggests that most people with mental health disorders such as anxiety also have some form of sleep disruption.

Symptoms and Causes

What causes sleep anxiety?

Anxiety is a natural part of being human. We’re meant to feel afraid or worried in dangerous situations. Stress and anxiety trigger our bodies to release hormones that help us react quickly to escape harm. But if you have chronic anxiety, you might feel stress or worry all the time. You may feel fearful of everyday situations like driving to work or even falling asleep.

Chronically high levels of these hormones, especially before sleep, can make it hard for your body to relax. You may have difficulty falling asleep. If you do fall asleep, you may wake up during the night with stressful or worrisome thoughts and not be able to fall asleep again.

The combination of a anxiety and insomnia can also be caused by a condition where there isn’t enough thyroid hormone in your bloodstream and your metabolism slows down (hypothyroidism).

Research suggests that anxiety can affect rapid eye movement (REM) sleep. This is the phase of sleep when you tend to have vivid dreams. If you have anxiety, the dreams may be disturbing or turn into nightmares that wake you.

Just as anxiety can affect sleep, sleep can affect anxiety. Sleep anxiety is a common characteristic of insomnia, wherein the individual begins to experience anxiety during the day and evening about poor sleep, which may help cause another night of bad sleep.

What are the symptoms of sleep anxiety?

When you can’t sleep due to anxiety, you may experience behavioral changes, including:

  • Feelings of being overwhelmed.
  • Inability to concentrate.
  • Irritability.
  • Nervousness.
  • Restlessness.
  • Sense of impending danger or doom.

Physical effects of anxiety before bed may include:

  • Digestive problems.
  • Fast heart rate.
  • Rapid breathing.
  • Sweating.
  • Tense muscles.
  • Trembling.

Some people also have nocturnal panic attacks. A panic attack is a sudden, intense burst of extreme fear. Nocturnal panic attacks only happen at night, and often wake you from sleep.

Diagnosis and Tests

How is sleep anxiety diagnosed?

Your healthcare provider performs a physical exam, reviews your medical history and evaluates your symptoms. They may ask you questions like:

  • Do you eat or drink anything before bed?
  • Does your anxiety always occur before bed?
  • How long does it take you to fall asleep?
  • How often do you wake up during the night?
  • What activities do you do before bed?

What tests help confirm a sleep anxiety diagnosis?

In some cases, your provider may do a sleep study to find out if you have a sleep disorder. Also called polysomnography, a sleep study is a test where you stay overnight in a sleep lab. Your healthcare provider evaluates how your body works during sleep by checking your:

  • Blood oxygen levels.
  • Body positioning.
  • Breathing.
  • Electrical activity in your brain.
  • Eye movements.
  • Heart rates and rhythms.
  • Leg movements.
  • Sleep stages.
  • Snoring or other noises you make during sleep.

Management and Treatment

How is sleep anxiety treated?

There are a variety of ways to manage sleep anxiety, including:

  • Cognitive behavior therapy (CBT).
  • Healthy sleep habits (sleep hygiene).
  • Medication.

How does cognitive behavioral therapy treat sleep anxiety?

CBT is a form of psychotherapy, or talk therapy. It teaches you how to change your behavior by changing the way you think. It’s a common treatment for people with anxiety. A special form of CBT called cognitive behavior therapy for insomnia (CBTI) focuses on helping people who have insomnia. This therapy can take anywhere from six to 12 weeks to produce results.

During CBT or CBTI, you may learn to:

  • Avoid behaviors or environmental factors that trigger your anxiety or make sleeping difficult.
  • Better understand how sleep and anxiety affect your brain and the rest of your body.
  • Change negative or inaccurate thinking about bedtime or sleep.

Your therapist may teach you how to sleep with anxiety by using biofeedback. Biofeedback trains you to manage your body’s functions. You learn to relax your muscles, regulate your breathing, lower your heart rate and focus your attention. Your therapist might use special sensors to measure these bodily functions, or they may give you exercises, such as deep breathing and meditation, to do at home.

How can healthier sleep habits treat sleep anxiety?

Sleep habits, or sleep hygiene, are your routines around bedtime that can affect your sleep. Your healthcare provider may ask you to keep a sleep diary for several weeks. This is a daily log of your sleep habits. It can help identify things that might make it harder for you to fall asleep or stay asleep.

Some common ways to improve your sleep hygiene include:

  • Avoid drinking lots of fluids before bed, especially alcohol.
  • Do relaxing activities before bed, such as meditation or listening to soft, peaceful music.
  • Don’t consume caffeine in the late afternoon or evening.
  • Don’t go to bed unless you feel sleepy.
  • Go to bed and wake up at the same time each day.
  • If you don’t fall asleep within 20 minutes, get out of bed.
  • Make sure your bedroom is comfortable, quiet and softly lit.
  • Only use your bed for sleep and sex. For example, avoid watching television or doing work in bed.
  • Set a goal of getting at least seven hours of sleep every night.
  • Stop using electronic devices at least 30 minutes before bedtime.
  • Try not to eat right before bedtime. If you’re hungry, have a light snack and not a big meal.

How can medication treat sleep anxiety?

Your healthcare provider may recommend medication to treat anxiety or other mental health disorders. Medication can also help improve the symptoms of sleep-related disorders such as restless legs syndrome or insomnia.

But some medications might actually increase your anxiety or make sleeping harder when you first start taking them. If you experience these side effects, talk to your healthcare provider. Many over-the-counter sleep aids can also be habit-forming. Don’t start any medication for anxiety or sleep without your healthcare provider’s supervision.

Prevention

How can I prevent sleep anxiety?

You may be able to reduce your risk of sleep anxiety by:

  • Eating a healthy diet.
  • Exercising regularly.
  • Practicing good sleep hygiene.
  • Taking medications for mental health disorders or sleep disorders as prescribed by your healthcare provider.

Outlook / Prognosis

What’s the prognosis (outlook) for people with sleep anxiety?

Most people can successfully manage their sleep anxiety with the right treatments. But remember that some treatments, such as medication or CBT, can take time to be effective. Don’t stop treatment prematurely if you think it isn’t working.

Are there long-term complications of sleep anxiety?

Prolonged anxiety or lack of sleep can affect your body in many ways. Sleep anxiety puts you at a higher risk for the following long-term complications:

  • Diabetes.
  • Heart attack.
  • Heart disease.
  • Heart failure.
  • High blood pressure.
  • Arrhythmia (irregular heartbeat).
  • Obesity.
  • Stroke.

Living With

How can I make living with sleep anxiety easier?

Anxiety or sleep problems can affect every aspect of your life, from your performance at work to your interactions with others. It may help to talk about your sleep anxiety with a therapist, co-workers, friends or loved ones. Support groups can also connect you to a community of people dealing with similar experiences.

A note from Cleveland Clinic

Sleep anxiety is a feeling of fear or stress about falling asleep or staying asleep. Sleep problems and mental health disorders such as anxiety are closely intertwined. One can often make the other worse, so it can feel like a never-ending cycle. But anxiety and sleep problems are both treatable. Talk to your healthcare provider about your symptoms and work together to build the right treatment plan. Common treatments include cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), good sleep hygiene and medication.

Can't sleep due to anxiety - what should I do? Somnologist Alexander Melnikov

Heavy thoughts make it difficult to fall asleep, and if you succeed, you wake up in the middle of the night. What to do in such cases, Pravmir was told by the somnologist Alexander Melnikov.

Alexander Melnikov

How to prepare for sleep so as not to twist disturbing thoughts in your head?

Stress is the main enemy of sleep and is always the main cause of acute insomnia. nine0003

Without exaggeration, millions of people are now in a state of acute stress. And no psychological techniques, no, even the strictest, observance of sleep hygiene can relieve this stress. The pre-sleep relaxation techniques that we always recommend will not remove stress and the anxiety associated with it - well-founded, in contrast to pathological anxiety - will not be removed.

Therefore, first of all, I will repeat the recommendations on limiting the influence of stress that psychologists give. nine0003

First of all - to limit the influence of the media, to reduce exposure to the news 15-20 minutes a day.

Avoid watching TV news and Internet sites just before bed, especially if they disseminate information that is unacceptable to you.

Find time during the day for quiet, distracting activities that are not related to the current situation, for physical training and friendly communication.

Try to focus on what pleases you. But don't act passive either: passivity creates a feeling of helplessness. If possible and necessary - try to occupy yourself. nine0003

Woke up in the middle of the night and can't sleep. What to do?

First of all, you need to know that awakenings, including quite long ones, are part of normal sleep. Of these awakenings, if they are not too frequent, one should not create a problem that can grow with excessive attention to it. Attention and anxiety can lead to real insomnia.

If you have not left the state of inertia of sleep, then after waking up you can calmly relax and gradually (perhaps not very quickly) fall into sleep. nine0003

If you feel stress, obsessive disturbing thoughts appear, and sleep has completely left you - it is better to get out of bed and out of the bedroom, outside them to do some calm and not too exciting activity that is not associated with bright light, until occurrence of drowsiness. For example, listen to soothing music.

Is it worth running or exercising before going to bed to fall exhausted?

No, not at all. Between physical training and sleep, a period of relaxation is required. nine0003

In general, only people of the evening type, pronounced “owls”, can train in the evening. For the rest, it is advisable to postpone training for a time no closer than 5-6 hours before going to bed.

Alcohol as a relaxing agent - is it a method?

Alcohol promotes sleep initiation in much the same way as other tranquilizers by activating neuronal receptors of the GABAergic system - the sleep system in the brain. Just like other anti-anxiety drugs, it can significantly disrupt the structure of sleep. nine0003

This is a substance with a very high addiction potential, so we strongly discourage its long-term use as a sleep aid.

At the same time, occasional, infrequent use as a means of first aid in emergency situations may be justified.

Can taking valerian, motherwort or afobazole help at least to some extent?

These substances only affect sleep through a placebo effect.

Honey, cheese, turkey contribute to better sleep?

No, there are no specific sleep products.

Don't go to bed hungry. Eat what you like, but in small quantities.

What are the best foods to avoid before bed?

Any foods in large quantities should be avoided as they make the stomach work too hard and this can interfere with sleep. Naturally, this primarily applies to those products that you endure worse individually. It is recommended to eat a hearty dinner no later than 3-4 hours before going to bed. nine0003

Does an eye patch improve sleep?

The dressing protects from light - it has no other function. If your bedroom or the place where you are going to sleep is not kept dark, a bandage may be helpful.

If you haven't slept all night, should you go to bed during the day or wait until evening?

Sleep soon after a completely sleepless night is needed. 24 hours without sleep is enough stress, and adding another 15-16 hours of being awake doubles that stress. But this does not mean that you need to sleep completely during the day: 2-3 hours of sleep should be enough to endure until the evening, fall asleep on time and not disturb the circadian rhythms of sleep and wakefulness even more. nine0003

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Insomnia, anxiety and lack of sleep. Therapist of the Central Medical Unit Yulia Ramazanova told how to cope with sleep disorders

Insomnia, anxiety and lack of sleep. Yulia Ramazanova, a therapist at the Central Medical Unit, told how to cope with sleep disturbance

Stress, anxiety and insomnia are what accompanies the busy life of a modern person. Insomnia, or simply insomnia, is a serious pathological condition of the body that does not allow a person to gain strength, energy and simply relax. How to achieve harmony with yourself and sleep? This will be told by the general practitioner of polyclinic No. 2 of the Central Clinical Medical and Sanitary Unit named after the Honored Doctor of Russia V. A. Egorova Yulia Ramazanova. nine0003

- How much sleep does a person need to be healthy and energetic?

Sleep is our physiological need, and the amount of sleep depends on age. Babies sleep 17-18 hours. Older children sleep 10-12 hours. And it should be 10-12 hours of uninterrupted sleep. Teenagers sleep less - up to 10 hours. Middle-aged people already need 7-8 hours of sleep, sometimes up to 9, and older people need even less.

- What time is better to fall asleep and wake up? nine0096

It is better to go to bed earlier, in the first half of the night, optimally before 23.00, this is due to the production of the sleep hormone melatonin. And waking up, respectively, is better at five or six in the morning. Then the person will be more cheerful.

- Is systemic insomnia normal? That is, in a certain period of time a person cannot sleep, and then sleep is restored by itself.

Normal is episodic insomnia, situational, when we changed the time zone or we had a stressful situation, or an important meeting, and we worry and worry. If insomnia is systemic, it is a sign of a disease, either of a somatic nature, or of the endocrine system. And often the cause of insomnia is an anxiety or depressive disorder. nine0003

- How do you know when to see a doctor?

In general, there are several types of violations. These are difficulty falling asleep, frequent awakenings at night and reduced need for sleep when a person wakes up earlier, even before the alarm clock. If such violations occur within one or two weeks, help should be sought, because there may be a violation behind this.

- Are there any methods for healthy sleep?

Sleep hygiene itself is one of the techniques for healthy sleep. That is, before going to bed, hiking in the fresh air, a warm shower or bath are recommended, there are people who love aromatherapy. It is recommended to listen to relaxation music - either classical or jazz, preferably quiet. You can read a light book that will not force the brain to work actively. Also, don't go to bed hungry. It is better to have dinner three hours before bedtime. You can drink soothing mint tea.

Room temperature recommended between 20 and 24 degrees. Although there are people who are comfortable sleeping at 18-19degrees. And in general, before going to bed, we should slow down the rhythm of our lives, do everything much more slowly.

- Basically, insomnia is associated with anxiety, which does not allow you to fall asleep. What are the symptoms of systemic anxiety?

An extreme manifestation of systemic anxiety is a panic attack, when a person has a heartbeat, anxiety, fear of upcoming events or meetings, fear of being in an unknown place with unknown people. For a person, this is really scary, he is lost, does not know what to do. nine0003

- What should be done in such cases to get rid of this condition? Is there some kind of magic pill?

If there is anxiety, we can manage it ourselves. First of all, relax and, again, breathe deeply. Deep breathing signals that our body produces less adrenaline. When this anxiety arises, we can imagine a "button" - on/off - and instruct ourselves to send a signal to our adrenal glands to stop releasing adrenaline. Also, people should understand that this condition is not life-threatening, it is short-term, passes, it is episodic - and translate all their negative thoughts into a positive direction. I am a healthy person, I will get through this. If a person has fears, you should definitely undergo a preventive examination, if these are complaints about the work of the heart - shortness of breath, palpitations - contact a therapist or cardiologist. If there is a feeling of tremor in the body, a lump in the throat, you should also contact a therapist, endocrinologist or neurologist. nine0003

- Antidepressants? Can you prescribe these drugs to yourself?

Self-treatment is definitely not worth it. Antidepressants should be prescribed by a doctor who can correctly select the required dosage and duration of administration.


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