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When a Man Acts Like a Child
My niece is taller than me. As a junior in high school, it is striking to see a girl who is 6’4″. She has always been tall. She was so tall as a child, her mom had to travel with her birth certificate to sporting events.
When she was four or five, I had to continually remind myself that she was only 4 or 5. She was so tall that she looked far older than she actually was. If I didn’t remind myself, I would be confused why she was acting so immature. She wasn’t acting immature; she was acting her actual age and not what she looked like. (See: Leadership–Learning to Take a Punch)
As a leader, there are times in which someone who looks like an adult does not act their age.
On occasion, a man acts like a child.
We see it:
- at home when a husband refuses to live by his vows and acts like he is 18
- at work when someone doesn’t get his way and yells and screams like child
- at the ball field when a coach loses perspective at a child’s game and rants at an umpire
It can happen to any of us in a situation. We can lose our bearings, forget our surroundings, and act like a child.
It happens to others more regularly, they don’t get their way and struggle to respond like an adult.
It happens to some in all situations because they lack the emotional ability to see how their actions influence others. As a three year-old cannot fully understand how their tantrum makes their mom feel, some people do not have the capability to see the pain they inflict on others.
As a leader, it is vital to understand that sometimes a man will act like a child. It might disappoint us, but it shouldn’t surprise us. And we should know how to handle it.
Two Responses to Childish Behavior
Good leaders respond to childish behavior in two key ways:
1. They refuse to respond like a child. The temptation when someone acts like a child is to begin acting like them. They yell so you yell back. They make petty accusations so you respond in kind. It’s a tempting response, but it’s not a good one. Whether in parenting or leadership, when someone acts like a child, the person in charge must continue to act like an adult. When leaders respond like children, everyone suffers.
2. They refuse to be moved by the child. A second temptation when someone acts like a child is to allow them to get their way. Like a parent who caves to their child’s tantrum, many bosses or leaders cave to the childish behavior of others. They do so to the detriment of organizations and communities. The last person who needs to be setting the direction for a group is the person not mature enough to act like an adult.
Good leaders see childish behavior and compassionately reject the behavior. Sometimes they ignore it. Sometimes they have to confront it and call it what it is. But they never are manipulated by it. (See: I Know Who Is In Charge of Your Family)
What Childish Behavior Looks Like
One difficulty with childish behavior is that the person acting immaturely either doesn’t realize it or claims they aren’t doing it. This causes the leader to question themselves. Often, the childish person will make petty accusations which puts the leader on the defensive. The leader can be spending so much time refuting false claims that they don’t feel capable of calling out the immature actions of others.
But make no mistake, childish behavior is predictable.
A man acts like a child when:
- He doesn’t get his way and throws a tantrum because of it.
- He can’t argue an issue without questioning the character of others.
- He attacks anyone who disagrees with him.
- He blows an issue out of proportion and allows it to color every other issue.
- He makes everything about him and what he wants.
- He makes unsubstantiated accusations which can’t be verified.
- He responds in a way that is not proportional with the issue.
The Challenge for a Leader
To someone who doesn’t lead, dealing with childish behavior sounds easy. An outsider says, “Call out the behavior and move on.” It sounds easy, but it’s not. In part, it is difficult because others always join in the behavior. While one person is acting like a child, others begin to mimic the behavior. In some situations, a good leader can feel like the only adult in the room. Leadership is often very isolating. Yet they must continue to lead. (See: 7 Leadership Lessons from Gus Malzahn)
They have to avoid the temptations of also acting like a child or caving to the childish behavior. They must choose the right direction, make the right decisions, and do what is best for all involved.
Make no mistake, every leader will face childish behavior far more regularly than they can imagine. It is one of the great challenges of leadership, because only a true leader can handle it properly.
Why men behave like children: the reason for infantile behavior
If you think that your boyfriend behaves too infantile, it's time for you to find out why men act like children from time to time and what do they have in common?
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Men are grown children. Their manner of behavior throughout life practically does not change. They grow up, acquire masculinity, build a career, earn money, create families, but remain children at heart.
Only the age and the toys they play change.
Jokes and tomfoolery are in their blood, regardless of what position they hold and what social status they have. Think back to elementary school. Pigtails, bows, a skirt, a backpack over your shoulders... But after a couple of minutes you are disheveled and disheveled. It's all their fault, boys. The school battle of the sexes sometimes ended not only with a ruined haircut, but also with a fight with shoe bags, followed by locking the weaker sex in the toilet.
Many years have passed since then, you have become a real lady. But your classmate Vasya, it seems, remained in a happy childhood.
My good friend is one guy who never grows up. He studies, works, provides for himself. Sometimes you can even have a serious talk with him. But as soon as we get together in one company, a small child climbs out of it. Imagine the situation: an adult guy takes a girl in his arms (no, this is not a romantic comedy, the girl did not break her heel and did not even faint).
More precisely, not by hand. He throws her over his shoulder and starts running, trying to scare her with what he is about to drop. By the way, such a guy always has a couple of friends who are always ready to support him. Take the girl by the arms and legs and start rocking her from side to side on the count of one, two, three? Easily! This whole epic usually ends with a friendly laugh, or, if the guys really went too far, with apologies and pleas for mercy: they say, it was funny! If you think this is something from the realm of fantasy, you are very mistaken. Fantasy, however, like romance, has nothing to do with this.
What makes a man "change clothes" from an adult into a real child? The reasons may be different.
- Search for emotional release. He works in a large company and holds a serious position. In ordinary life, he is not in the mood for jokes: meetings, meetings, business trips... But we all sometimes want to relax.
So he "breaks away" in the company of people close to him. Don't judge him for this little weakness, and let him be himself from time to time. - A way to get attention. Perhaps he never learned to express his feelings in words, so it still seems to him that if he pulls your pigtail, you will immediately guess that he is madly in love with you ...
- Defense reaction. He just wants to appear cheerful and carefree. In general, he believes that the best defense is an attack. It is better for him to be the first to make a joke on you than to become the object of your sharp joke.
- He did not play enough in childhood. If a man had a difficult childhood, he may feel the need to "catch up".
- Desire just to have fun. He's just bored. Therefore, he wants to have fun, and at the same time to have fun with you. And he cannot always understand why you are not funny.
It's good when such a game "in childhood" remains a game. There is nothing wrong with occasionally fooling around at a picnic with friends.
It is much worse if a man wears a “baby mask” all the time: at home, at work, at important meetings... It will not be easy for such a person to build relationships, and you hardly want to be the “mother” of an adult guy. The main thing is to be able to adjust your demeanor to different situations and not forget to “change clothes”.
Polina Kuznetsova understood male psychology
In the meantime, a study by the international network "Training Center SEKS.RF" refuted the stereotype about the infantilism of men in the representation of women. So, more than half of the fair sex consider their partner a mature and independent person. But, despite this, 48% of women are sure that it is necessary to take care of a man like a small child.
According to Ekaterina Lyubimova, a leading Russian sex coach and founder of the international network Training Center SEX.RF, often women themselves push men to get stuck in childhood, provoking regression and helping to develop their internal complexes and psychological instability, which throws a man away to earlier, less mature and adequate patterns of behavior.
They just seem to him to guarantee the greatest protection and security. “Girls often do not understand that by building an adult-child relationship model paired with a man who has some problems with psychological maturation, they do not “compensate” his behavior, but exacerbate it. A man who has realized that he does not need to be responsible for the relationship, since there is an "adult" in the couple, will more and more get used to this model of behavior, which can lead to irreversible mental processes. In addition, infantilism affects not only the psychological climate, but also the sexual side of relationships. The more infantile a man is, the less he will take responsibility for the sexual life in a couple and the satisfaction of his partner, which means that the woman herself will have to make a lot of efforts to maintain the relationship.
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Swedish journalist Elin Jonsson called Russian men irresponsible weaklings. In her opinion, representatives of the stronger sex in the country often shift their responsibilities to women and give up too easily in case of any life failures.
Of course, one should not blame all Russian men for such behavior.
However, the problem of male infantilism in our society is indeed quite acute.
So why are our men sometimes reluctant to take responsibility? And is it possible to build a serious relationship with them?
Powerless
According to a Swedish journalist, most Russian men simply sit on their wives' necks.
“While a woman rolls up her sleeves and takes on some dirty work to support her family, a man sits at home, feels sorry for himself and drinks,” writes Elin Jonsson.
According to the journalist, too many Russian women “equalize pity and love” and stay with their husbands solely because there will be no one to take care of them.
How many women really endure the drunkenness of their husbands, work hard at two jobs to provide for their families, and at the same time do not get divorced! “He will completely disappear without me,” they explain their reluctance to leave their husband.
My friend's husband is a good cook, and his hands grow from where they should.
But domestic problems seem excessively boring to him. Much more fun to clap in the evening with friends for a beer or spend half an evening playing computer shooters.
He pays attention to children only if one of them violates his personal peace. For example, the son listens to music loudly or the daughter came home too late. Then he begins to teach children that it is necessary, first of all, to think not about themselves, but about others. But for some reason, these lectures do not make any impression on children.
And my former classmate believes that she actually has two children - a son and a husband. And the latter, in her opinion, pulls on the title of the youngest child. All our exhortations that she spoiled her husband herself and put her on her neck have no effect
- Come on, almost all of our men are like that, - a classmate justifies herself and cites her other girlfriends, who also carry infantile husbands on their hump, as an example.
The problem of male infantilism is indeed becoming a real scourge of modern society. A good half of enviable suitors, who give the impression of completely independent and determined men, in fact turn out to be dependent, mentally lazy and infantile people. They can be talented and smart, charming and courteous, able to beautifully look after a woman, demonstrate taste and an excellent sense of humor. They often turn out to be pleasant conversationalists and diligent performers. But such men strive to shift the need to make responsible decisions onto other people's shoulders.
Therefore, in family life, all household and financial problems, as a rule, have to be carried by their wives.
In the matter of raising children, one cannot hope for such a husband either. Of course, there are exceptions, but most often such men perceive their own child as a competitor and are almost completely eliminated from his upbringing. Is it worth saying that a son with such a dad has every chance to grow up to be the same infantile and sissy? After all, since childhood, he has been assimilating a certain model of the family, and in adulthood it is already difficult for him to imagine that relationships can develop in a different way.
Mom's record
The Swedish journalist sees the explanation for this in the fact that Russian men are "crippled" by the country's history.
“Most people believe that it was the difficult history of Russia that made the Russian man weak. Women should have taken responsibility,” says Elin Jonsson.
According to experts, certain social attitudes that prevented Russian men from growing up really existed in our society.
- Adulthood, generally speaking, was not welcomed, - says Alexander Tkhostov, Professor, Doctor of Psychology, Head of the Department of Neuro- and Pathopsychology of the Faculty of Psychology, Moscow State University, - when society did not allow a man to realize himself for a very long time. It did not allow normal male behavior. Well, who was the man? Almost no one, he could not provide for his family, he had no status.
But the main reasons for the infantile behavior of men, for the most part, lie in the wrong upbringing.
Parents, instead of gradually entrusting the child with responsibility for himself and for his actions (this is especially important at the age of 8 to 12), prefer to decide everything for their beloved child. They just feel more comfortable that way. Many authoritarian mothers, in an effort to subjugate the child, deliberately suppress it, preventing it from growing up.
As a result of just such an attitude, a grown-up child will also demand from those around him.
- "Mama's sons" can grow up with authoritarian dads, - says psychotherapist Igor Nefyodov. - There are such fathers who are confident in their own coolness, and with all their might inspire their son that he will never reach his father's heights. They do not allow the child to self-identify, to do something together, they never support their son. As a result, the boy gets used to feeling like he can't do anything. And with this feeling, he enters adulthood.
Infantilism is born from trifles - from the lessons that parents finish for their son, from the dishes that they do not trust to clean the baby himself - in case he breaks it, from the buttons that fasten for him, because he does it too slowly.
But at the heart of these little things is the main thing - the inability of parents to trust their children.
As a result, individuals grow up who not only do not know how to take care of someone else, but also strive to make everyone else take care of themselves.
In addition, often women, trying to bind their beloved man to themselves, play on his weaknesses, carefully pretending to be caring mothers.
As a result, a man gets used to receiving more than giving, and begins to take it for granted. The woman, tired of portraying a squirrel in a wheel, begins to resent. And the poor husband cannot understand - what happened? After all, more recently, the relationship "mom-son" suited both.
However, any psychotherapist will say that such a model of family relations works to destroy them. Therefore, it is better from the very beginning in no case to allow such a distribution of roles.
Rules for Growing Up
1. Give up the habit of always lending your fragile shoulder.
Give your spouse the opportunity to do something on their own, even if he stubbornly asks for your help. In the end, sooner or later, he will still find his tie, which he lost in the bowels of your Khrushchev.
2. Never take it upon yourself to solve his problems and fulfill his duties. Resist the temptation to step in and help when you think your husband is doing something wrong. And if you start to help, do not take the initiative, do not emphasize his mistakes.
3. Praise the man for what he does for you. Show that you believe in his strength, thank him for the slightest manifestation of initiative, and delight in taking care of you.
4. Try to make your spouse feel responsible for what is happening. Start small. For example, if he forgot about your request to buy bread, do not take off and do not rush to the nearest supermarket. So dinner will pass without bread. Just don't nag your husband all evening for his forgetfulness.
Encourage even the smallest successes of your husband on the way to independence.
