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annamichexox
A
Dating pool of real life babies #fyp #notmytype #imgood #foryou
46 Likes, TikTok video from A (@annamichexox): "Dating pool of real life babies #fyp #notmytype #imgood #foryou". Me when grown men act like babies original sound - Josh Ruben.
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original sound - Josh Ruben
vegahuh.clipsdaily
VegaHUH.ClipsDaily
#mystrangeaddiction #twitchclips #xyzbca #vegahuh #fypシ #fyp
TikTok video from VegaHUH.ClipsDaily (@vegahuh.clipsdaily): "#mystrangeaddiction #twitchclips #xyzbca #vegahuh #fypシ #fyp". Twitch - VegaHUH | this grown man acts like a BABY 🍼 original sound - VegaHUH.ClipsDaily.
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original sound - VegaHUH.ClipsDaily
theukz
UK Finest🇬🇧
Like for part 2😂 #fyp #britain #ukcomedy #uk #students #baby #uksbest #foryou #17
16.3K Likes, 1K Comments. TikTok video from UK Finest🇬🇧 (@theukz): "Like for part 2😂 #fyp #britain #ukcomedy #uk #students #baby #uksbest #foryou #17". Part 1. | Grown man dresses as a baby😂. original sound - UK Finest🇬🇧.
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bigbrothertitansparody
BigbrotherTITANS_PARODYACCOUNT
#blueaivabbtitans #blueaivabbtitan #bbtitansblueaiva #marvinbbtitans #marvinbbtitan #bbtitansmarvin #blaqboibbtitans #bbtitansblaqboi #blaqboibbtitans #bbtitanshousemates #bbtitansliveupdates #bbtitansnews #bbtitan1 #bbtitans #bbtitansvideos #bbtitansupdates
355 Likes, TikTok video from BigbrotherTITANS_PARODYACCOUNT (@bigbrothertitansparody): "#blueaivabbtitans #blueaivabbtitan #bbtitansblueaiva #marvinbbtitans #marvinbbtitan #bbtitansmarvin #blaqboibbtitans #bbtitansblaqboi #blaqboibbtitans #bbtitanshousemates #bbtitansliveupdates #bbtitansnews #bbtitan1 #bbtitans #bbtitansvideos #bbtitansupdates". Incase y’all missed it here’s the video of MARVIN & BLAQBOI confronting BLUE AIVA for playing with their feelings😂😂 | The way she’s just casually sitting on that chair laughing😭while this 2 grown men are acting like babies💀 Big Brother Naija - BB Nigeria.
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Big Brother Naija - BB Nigeria
uelturner10
Uel Turner
#fyp #foryou #christian #foryoupage #duet #trending #viral
2K Likes, 198 Comments. TikTok video from Uel Turner (@uelturner10): "#fyp #foryou #christian #foryoupage #duet #trending #viral". A grown man who Identifies as a baby. | YOU CAN'T MAKE THIS UP. Love You So - The King Khan & BBQ Show.
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Love You So - The King Khan & BBQ Show
mr_catty1
Catty
#stitch with @Wo v2 a grown man acting like a baby
53 Likes, TikTok video from Catty (@mr_catty1): "#stitch with @Wo v2 a grown man acting like a baby". Judging by your pfp you looked like 23 years old who hates Christmas grown tf up 💀 original sound - Catty.
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sgmustwatchla
🇸🇬SG Must Watch La!
Old man acting like baby... watch till end...Follow/Like/Share!
2K Likes, 103 Comments. TikTok video from 🇸🇬SG Must Watch La! (@sgmustwatchla): "Old man acting like baby... watch till end...Follow/Like/Share!". @SgMustWatchLa | Follow for more! original sound - 🇸🇬SG Must Watch La!.
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lorkanye
Ye✪
#duet with @zaneholmestiktok enjoy your life long as u happy🙏🏽 #fyp #explorepage #positive vibes
1.8K Likes, 32 Comments. TikTok video from Ye✪ (@lorkanye): "#duet with @zaneholmestiktok enjoy your life long as u happy🙏🏽 #fyp #explorepage #positive vibes". original sound - Zane.
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gilvisser
Gil Visser
#duet with @rick212les nothing worse than a grown man acting like a baby. too old for tiktok. #fyp
25 Likes, TikTok video from Gil Visser (@gilvisser): "#duet with @rick212les nothing worse than a grown man acting like a baby. too old for tiktok. #fyp". original sound - #WatermelonKing 🍉👑.
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drosecapalot
d-rose 505
#duet with @zaneholmestiktok #foryou #drosecapalot #fyp
167 Likes, TikTok video from d-rose 505 (@drosecapalot): "#duet with @zaneholmestiktok #foryou #drosecapalot #fyp". original sound - Zane.
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When a Man Acts Like a Child
My niece is taller than me. As a junior in high school, it is striking to see a girl who is 6’4″. She has always been tall. She was so tall as a child, her mom had to travel with her birth certificate to sporting events.
When she was four or five, I had to continually remind myself that she was only 4 or 5. She was so tall that she looked far older than she actually was. If I didn’t remind myself, I would be confused why she was acting so immature. She wasn’t acting immature; she was acting her actual age and not what she looked like. (See: Leadership–Learning to Take a Punch)
As a leader, there are times in which someone who looks like an adult does not act their age. On occasion, a man acts like a child.
We see it:
- at home when a husband refuses to live by his vows and acts like he is 18
- at work when someone doesn’t get his way and yells and screams like child
- at the ball field when a coach loses perspective at a child’s game and rants at an umpire
It can happen to any of us in a situation. We can lose our bearings, forget our surroundings, and act like a child.
It happens to others more regularly, they don’t get their way and struggle to respond like an adult.
It happens to some in all situations because they lack the emotional ability to see how their actions influence others. As a three year-old cannot fully understand how their tantrum makes their mom feel, some people do not have the capability to see the pain they inflict on others.
As a leader, it is vital to understand that sometimes a man will act like a child. It might disappoint us, but it shouldn’t surprise us. And we should know how to handle it.
Two Responses to Childish Behavior
Good leaders respond to childish behavior in two key ways:
1. They refuse to respond like a child. The temptation when someone acts like a child is to begin acting like them. They yell so you yell back. They make petty accusations so you respond in kind. It’s a tempting response, but it’s not a good one. Whether in parenting or leadership, when someone acts like a child, the person in charge must continue to act like an adult. When leaders respond like children, everyone suffers.
2. They refuse to be moved by the child. A second temptation when someone acts like a child is to allow them to get their way. Like a parent who caves to their child’s tantrum, many bosses or leaders cave to the childish behavior of others. They do so to the detriment of organizations and communities. The last person who needs to be setting the direction for a group is the person not mature enough to act like an adult. Good leaders see childish behavior and compassionately reject the behavior. Sometimes they ignore it. Sometimes they have to confront it and call it what it is. But they never are manipulated by it. (See: I Know Who Is In Charge of Your Family)
What Childish Behavior Looks Like
One difficulty with childish behavior is that the person acting immaturely either doesn’t realize it or claims they aren’t doing it. This causes the leader to question themselves. Often, the childish person will make petty accusations which puts the leader on the defensive. The leader can be spending so much time refuting false claims that they don’t feel capable of calling out the immature actions of others.
But make no mistake, childish behavior is predictable.
A man acts like a child when:
- He doesn’t get his way and throws a tantrum because of it.
- He can’t argue an issue without questioning the character of others.
- He attacks anyone who disagrees with him.
- He blows an issue out of proportion and allows it to color every other issue.
- He makes everything about him and what he wants.
- He makes unsubstantiated accusations which can’t be verified.
- He responds in a way that is not proportional with the issue.
The Challenge for a Leader
To someone who doesn’t lead, dealing with childish behavior sounds easy. An outsider says, “Call out the behavior and move on. ” It sounds easy, but it’s not. In part, it is difficult because others always join in the behavior. While one person is acting like a child, others begin to mimic the behavior. In some situations, a good leader can feel like the only adult in the room. Leadership is often very isolating. Yet they must continue to lead. (See: 7 Leadership Lessons from Gus Malzahn)
They have to avoid the temptations of also acting like a child or caving to the childish behavior. They must choose the right direction, make the right decisions, and do what is best for all involved.
Make no mistake, every leader will face childish behavior far more regularly than they can imagine. It is one of the great challenges of leadership, because only a true leader can handle it properly.
Why men act like children: the reason for childish behavior
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If you think that your boyfriend is acting too childish, it's time for you to find out why men act like children from time to time and what do they have in common?
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Ekaterina Lyubimova
Male psychology
Expert opinion
Infantile man
Training center SEX. RF
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Men are grown children. Their manner of behavior throughout life practically does not change. They grow up, acquire masculinity, build a career, earn money, create families, but remain children at heart. Only the age and the toys they play change.
Jokes and tomfoolery are in their blood, regardless of what position they hold and what social status they have. Think back to elementary school. Pigtails, bows, a skirt, a backpack over your shoulders... But after a couple of minutes you are disheveled and disheveled. It's all their fault, boys. The school battle of the sexes sometimes ended not only with a ruined haircut, but also with a fight with shoe bags, followed by locking the weaker sex in the toilet.
Many years have passed since then, you have become a real lady. But your classmate Vasya, it seems, remained in a happy childhood.
My good friend is one guy who never grows up. He studies, works, provides for himself. Sometimes you can even have a serious talk with him. But as soon as we get together in one company, a small child climbs out of it. Imagine the situation: an adult guy takes a girl in his arms (no, this is not a romantic comedy, the girl did not break her heel and did not even faint). More precisely, not on the hands. He throws her over his shoulder and starts running, trying to scare her with what he is about to drop. By the way, such a guy always has a couple of friends who are always ready to support him. Take the girl by the arms and legs and start rocking her from side to side on the count of one, two, three? Easily! This whole epic usually ends with a friendly laugh, or, if the guys really went too far, with apologies and pleas for mercy: they say, it was funny! If you think this is something from the realm of fantasy, you are very mistaken. Fantasy, however, like romance, has nothing to do with this.
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What makes a man "change clothes" from an adult into a real child? The reasons may be different.
- Search for emotional release. He works in a large company and holds a serious position. In ordinary life, he is not in the mood for jokes: meetings, meetings, business trips... But we all sometimes want to relax. So he "breaks away" in the company of people close to him. Don't judge him for this little weakness, and let him be himself from time to time.
- A way to get attention. Perhaps he never learned how to express his feelings in words, so he still thinks that if he pulls your pigtail, you will immediately guess that he is madly in love with you...
- Defensive reaction. He just wants to appear cheerful and carefree. In general, he believes that the best defense is an attack. It is better for him to be the first to make a joke on you than to become the object of your sharp joke.
- He did not play enough in childhood. If a man had a difficult childhood, he may feel the need to "catch up".
- Just wanting to have fun.
He's just bored. Therefore, he wants to have fun, and at the same time to have fun with you. And he cannot always understand why you are not funny.
It's good when such a game "in childhood" remains a game. There is nothing wrong with occasionally fooling around at a picnic with friends. It is much worse if a man wears a “baby mask” all the time: at home, at work, at important meetings... It will not be easy for such a person to build relationships, and you hardly want to be the “mother” of an adult guy. The main thing is to be able to adjust your demeanor to different situations and not forget to “change clothes”.
Polina Kuznetsova understood male psychology
In the meantime, the study of the international network "Training Center SEKS.RF" refuted the stereotype about the infantilism of men in the minds of women. So, more than half of the fair sex consider their partner a mature and independent person. But, despite this, 48% of women are sure that it is necessary to take care of a man like a small child.
According to Ekaterina Lyubimova, a leading Russian sex coach and founder of the international network Training Center SEX.RF, often women themselves push men to get stuck in childhood, provoking regression and helping to develop their internal complexes and psychological instability, which throws a man away to earlier, less mature and adequate patterns of behavior. They just seem to him to guarantee the greatest protection and security. “Girls often do not understand that by building an adult-child relationship model paired with a man who has some problems with psychological maturation, they do not “compensate” his behavior, but exacerbate it. A man who has realized that he does not need to be responsible for the relationship, since there is an "adult" in the couple, will more and more get used to this model of behavior, which can lead to irreversible mental processes. In addition, infantilism affects not only the psychological climate, but also the sexual side of relationships. The more infantile a man is, the less he will take responsibility for the sexual life in a couple and the satisfaction of his partner, which means that the woman herself will have to make a lot of efforts to maintain the relationship.
When a man is like a child. Psychologist's consultation
Guest: Elena Dauer, psychologist.
A woman cannot educate or re-educate a man unless she is his mother. And even his mother can bring him up only up to 8 years, then the woman is no longer able to influence. Then only life brings him up, and then not always.
When a man behaves like an infantile child, think about it and decide who you are to him: mother or wife. And if you are married, then you do not need to be his mother. If you behave like a mother, he will remain a child, and you will have a child-parent relationship, not a marital relationship. Sometimes such relationships seem attractive to a woman, they have a lot of her power and a strong level of control.
Or it seems to her that without her a man can do nothing. But in such a relationship, a woman will not be able to relax for a minute. The result of such a relationship is the absence of sexual relations.
If an infantile man is nearby, a woman also needs to think about why he is next to her, why she is satisfied with this state of affairs. The answer most often is that she does not trust men in principle, does not believe in her husband as a man, cannot transfer responsibility for the family to him. Take care of yourself, and not control a man, give him more freedom, and most importantly - the freedom to make decisions and take responsibility.
Believe in your man, he can do anything. The only thing he needs from you is not help or control, but faith in him. Unconditional faith that he will cope, immediately or not, does not matter. It'll work out in the end. Believe and with all your appearance always show him that you do not doubt him.
Every man wants to be a man, but when you treat him like a parent, he feels like a child inside and psychologically degrades.
He doesn’t like it, a rebellion is brewing in him, he wants to restore balance and feel like a man, betrayals happen. That is, a man finally finds himself not a mother, but a woman. A woman who believes in him, gives him part of the responsibility, tells him that he can handle it, it's okay, he will succeed. The one who believes that he cannot be relied upon loses to the one who is confident in her man.
Be prepared for the fact that the realization of your role as a mother and the transition to the role of a spouse will be painful for you. But it is better to go through this pain and find happiness. Giving up power is hard, but happiness, believe me, is much more pleasant. On this path, there may be financial losses, and the need to leave, a relationship crisis, but all this helps the growth of a man as a man. The moment you lose him as a child, you gain him as a man.
Elena Dauer also answered the following questions from viewers:
- After the wedding, it turned out that the husband was not at all adapted to an independent life without his parents.
