How much do you love your partner quiz

How Much Do You Like Your Significant Other?

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Most people tend to idealize their significant others, especially in the early stages of a relationship. You may be in love with someone without knowing them very well, and while your heart might be telling you one thing, your head may be screaming the opposite. Sometimes we are blinded by lust and love and can't tell whether we're in love with a person or with our vision of that person.

When you like the personality traits of the person you are in love with, you feel like you've finally found your soul mate; but falling in love makes us vulnerable, and sometimes we stay with someone even if we don't like everything about them.

The butterflies in your stomach, the warm, cozy feeling when you kiss or hug your significant other, and the outstanding passion the two of you share are signs of you being in love, but how much do you like your partner's personality? Do you find their outlook on life inspiring? Do you think they are the right person for you? Are you proud of your significant other? Would you trust them with your pet? Is this a person that might be allowed to peek into the deepest corners of your soul?

Take this quiz to find out how much you like your significant other, and be prepared for a surprising result!

How flawed is your significant other?

Very flawed, but I love them anyway.

They're perfect to me.

They are flawed just like everyone else, but they have many outstanding qualities, too.

They are incredibly flawed, and I don't know how to deal with their flaws.

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Have you ever felt tempted to cheat?

No, only cowards cheat on their partners.

I feel attracted to other people sometimes, but I never act on it.

I'm tempted all the time.

Yes, and I've acted on the temptation.

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If your partner decided to leave you tomorrow, what would hurt you most?

The fact that I wasted precious time on the wrong person.

Knowing that I might never find someone like them again.

Only that I didn't beat them to it.

I would be heartbroken; my whole body would hurt, head to toe.

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When the two of you go out at a bar together, how are you most likely to act?

I look around to see who else is there.

I enjoy a night out with my babe, what else?

I'm usually chill, but I'm sometimes jealous because I catch them looking at other people.

We don't go out much.

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How well does your partner fit into your life?

They fit perfectly -- we're like two peas in a pod.

There have been some adjustments, but they fit pretty well now.

I'm not sure.

They used to fit, but not any more.

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How often do you and your significant other argue?

We haven't had a single fight.

We argue a lot.

We often argue about the same things.

We rarely argue.

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Does your partner get along with your friends?

Yes, they get along great.

My partner doesn't like most of my friends.

Some of my friends disapprove of my partner.

I haven't introduced them to my friends yet.

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Do you feel like the two of you are on the same page when it comes to your relationship and plans for the future?

I'm not sure we even have plans for the future.

Yes, we're definitely on the same page.

It's too early for serious plans, but we're both equally madly in love with each other.

I wish I knew.

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Can you imagine growing old with this person?

Absolutely.

Yes, I want that more than anything.

I'm not sure.

Definitely not.

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Are you sometimes jealous of your partner's relationships with other people?

Yes, and with reason. My partner is beautiful, and people hit on them all the time.

Maybe just a little bit.

Yes, I feel like everyone is more important than I am.

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What do you think about your partner's family?

I don't like them.

I haven't met them.

I think they're OK.

I love their family.

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If your love interest became less physically attractive in any way or lost their job and/or savings, would you still feel the same for them?

Of course I would. I would help them and love them every minute of every day.

Honestly, I don't think so.

I might stick around and help them get through, but I wouldn't feel the same passion.

I'm not sure.

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What do you think about your lover's taste in music?

I think they have excellent taste, although I personally don't like all of their favorites.

I love it, it's so similar to mine.

It's kind of lame.

I don't hate it, but I don't like it either.

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Imagine your sweetheart got a huge promotion and suddenly started earning triple what you are earning. How would you feel?

OMG, I would be thrilled for them.

I would be proud.

I would feel a little insecure.

I'd think whoever promoted them doesn't know them very well.

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Do you feel like your partner always puts you first?

Sadly, no.

Yes, but not always and it bothers me a lot.

Not really.

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How often do you feel proud of your significant other?

All the time.

Whenever they do something amazing.

Not so often.

I've never felt proud of them.

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Have you ever thought about leaving this person?

Never.

It has crossed my mind a few times.

Yes, but I could never do it because i love them so much.

I think about it all the time.

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How long did it take for you to fall in love after the two of you first met?

I fell in love right away.

A couple of weeks.

I fell in love quickly, but fell out of it even quicker.

I'm not sure I've ever been in love with them.

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What does your family think about your relationship and your choice of a partner?

They haven't met yet.

They like my partner.

I'm not sure what they think; they seem neutral.

My family doesn't like my partner at all.

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How do you feel when the two of you are alone?

Comfy, safe and loved.

Bored.

Awkward at times.

I feel more in love than ever.

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What's your first reaction to getting a cute message with heart emoticons from this person?

I can't stop smiling.

I get excited and I feel love-struck.

They never send me cute messages.

I cringe.

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Do you think you could do better in terms of choosing a partner, or is your chosen one "the whole package?"

I could do better.

My partner is everything I've ever wanted.

My partner is OK, but there must be something better out there.

I think my loved one is the right person for me.

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When the two of you are apart, do you think a lot about your partner?

Yes, I think about them all the time.

Frequently, but not all day long.

Not really. I have my own life and I appreciate the time apart.

Only sometimes.

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Do you consider your significant other your best friend?

No, they are my love interest. Best friends are something else.

Yes, of course.

One of several best friends, yes.

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Have they ever made you cry?

Yes, many times.

Not intentionally.

I don't care about them enough for them to even be able to make me cry.

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If you could describe your love interest in two words, what would those words be?

Beautiful and sexy.

Cute and fun.

Loving and caring.

Selfish and self-absorbed.

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Have you ever imagined getting married to this person?

Yes, a lot of times.

Never.

Yes, and I had a bad feeling about it.

Maybe once or twice.

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Is there anyone you like more than you like your significant other?

Maybe.

There's someone else I like a lot.

No, and I don't think there ever will be.

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What was your first impression of your partner when you first met them?

I was instantly drawn to them.

I was struck by how gorgeous they were.

I thought they were attractive, but nothing over the top.

I didn't like them at first.

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Would you say you like your lover as a person?

Yes. I love everything about them.

I don't think I like them very much.

I'm not sure yet.

I think I like everything that matters.

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Medically reviewed by Karin Gepp, PsyD — By Psych Central Staff — Updated on May 24, 2022

Entering a new relationship can be exciting and bring up a bunch of positive emotions. If you’ve recently started dating someone, you may ask yourself: Is it love or just lust?

Lust is mainly sexual or physical, with no desire to bond with the person on a deeper level. Love, in contrast, involves feelings of intimacy, vulnerability, and putting in the effort to build a stronger connection.

Certain signs may help you figure out whether you’re feeling love or lust toward your new partner. This relationship test can help.

This brief questionnaire is designed for anyone who might be wondering whether they’re feeling lust or love for the person they’re now dating.

This love or lust quiz is meant to help you answer questions like:

Am I falling in love?
How do I know if I’m in love?
Is it lust?

This “am I in love quiz” is not meant to tell you if you should stay in your relationship long term or not. But you can use this lust or love quiz to find out how you might be feeling right now toward the person you’re dating.

Depending on your responses to this love test, you can also understand whether you’re in love with your partner or experiencing lust.

Keep in mind that every person approaches dating, love, and their unique love language differently. So be sure to trust your gut and deeply assess your emotions before deciding if you’re willing to commit to this person.

If you always ask yourself this question or you typically experience conflicting emotions in relationships, speaking with a therapist can help you navigate dating in healthier ways.

Instructions

Answer the questions below honestly about the person you have feelings for, and we’ll score the quiz and let you know the likelihood of love.

This online screening is not a diagnostic tool. Only a trained medical professional, like a doctor or mental health professional, can help you determine the next best steps for you.

Ready to start therapy? Our Find a Therapist resource may help.

Last medically reviewed on May 23, 2022

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Quiz: Do I love him

The line between falling in love and love is quite thin and barely perceptible. Therefore, having met a new man or feeling problems with a long-term partner, a woman may begin to doubt: do I love him? The test will tell you if you are experiencing true love or if this is a temporary attraction. What is the name of the feeling you are experiencing right now? How strong is it, resistant to life's difficulties and time?

1. Your man has a bad cold, and you have to hand in an important project at work today. How will you do it?

Try to get time off from work. If it doesn't work out, then hand over the project, and then take off early and buy drugs on the way home.

What job?! Of course, you will stay with your loved one and will court him all day.

You will go to work, but you will write or call all the time and worry about how he is there without you.

Go to work. He's a big boy, he can heal himself.

2. Your former partner invited you to a business meeting and promises you a good job offer. Your current man doesn't like it. He asks you not to go. How will you do it?

Explain that this is a good opportunity and offer to go together so that your man is less nervous.

Go to the meeting, but don't tell the guy about it so as not to upset him.

Don't go because you don't want to do anything that might upset your boyfriend a little.

You will go no matter what. This is a very profitable meeting, and you are not going to lose the chance just because someone is too jealous.

3. Would you like children from him?

Perhaps, but not now.

Yes, you think he will be a good father.

No.

Yes, but if he does not want children, then you will sacrifice your desire and refuse this idea.

4. You had an argument with a work colleague and now you are in a bad mood. Who will you first tell about the problem?

To my man. You always share things like that with him and tell each other about how your day went.

Either a man or a girlfriend - depending on who you see first or who calls first.

A friend or mother, because they understand you best.

Not to my boyfriend. He has enough problems of his own and you don't want to bother him.

5. Do you have secrets from your man?

Yes, you don't talk about certain things so as not to disturb your loved one.

No, you think you have to tell him absolutely everything, even though you let him have his secrets.

Not at all. If you didn’t say something, it means that you simply didn’t remember or there was no right moment.

Yes, everyone has skeletons in their closet.

6. Can you remember how your feelings for him developed from the very first meeting?

At first you tried to get to know him better, but when feelings appeared, you went into these emotions with your head.

You looked at him for a while, trying not to rush things.

Nothing special, just got to know each other or you don't remember.

From the very first sight you felt that this is your man, and fell in love.

7. Who is this man to you?

An ally with whom you would like to overcome the difficulties of life together.

The source of your happiness.

One of the many variants of fate.

Ideal, the best thing that could happen to you.

8. You and your boyfriend have the only day off of the week. You want to go to the cinema to see the premiere of a new melodrama, and he wants to go to the decisive football match. You don't like each other's ideas. Where will you end up going?

You won't go anywhere. If you can't come to an agreement, then it's better to spend time together at home.

Everyone will go where they want, and in the evening, devote time to each other.

Persuade the chosen one to go to the cinema, because you have wanted it for so long, and this is also a premiere!

For a football match. You really want to please your loved one and will do everything to make him feel good with you.

9. He had a bad day and took it out on you. What is your reaction?

You will justify him and try to please him so that he feels better as soon as possible.

Cry or yell back at him because you're offended.

Silently slam the door. You don't have to listen to it.

Let it cool down and then calmly ask what's wrong.

10. He swore he would call you at lunchtime. It's almost evening and still no call. Your thoughts?

You will be very worried. Did something happen to him? Or is he offended by you for something?

Be offended because he didn't keep his promise.

You will think that he just got tired and forgot. Call him yourself.

Well, I didn't call, so I didn't call. You will quickly forget, as you have enough things to do.

11. There is nothing to eat at home, your man is hungry, and you are exhausted after work and do not want to cook dinner. How will you do it?

You're going to cook anyway. Your man should always be fed.

Do something very easy on a quick hand so as not to disappoint your boyfriend.

Do nothing. If he is hungry, he may well cook something for himself.

Offer to order take-out or dine in a cafe.

12. Did you tell your parents about him?

Yes, but not immediately, but when your feelings become more serious.

No, and you haven't thought about doing it yet.

Yes, but rather because you tell them everything.

Yes, you immediately said that you had met the man of your dreams.

13. Imagine that he has made the decision to leave you. How will you react?

It seems to you that life is over and no longer makes sense.

You will have a tantrum and try your best to keep him close to you.

It will be hard for you to come to your senses, but you will thank him for everything that was, and try to move on.

Get upset, but soon forget about it. The sea is still full of fish.

14. Your best friend didn't like your man very much. She hints that it would be better for you to leave. What is your reaction?

Try to convince your friend that she is wrong, list the pluses of your chosen one.

Fight with her because your boyfriend is very nice. And in general, she most likely just sunk into him herself and wants to beat him off.

Gently tell her that this relationship concerns only you and your man, and you will solve your problems yourself.

Seriously think about her words and begin to look more carefully at the acquaintance or move away from him.

15. Can you admit the thought of cheating on your man?

Only if he changes you or hurts you very badly.

No, you think cheating is below your dignity.

If you're in trouble, you'll be happy to try your luck with another guy.

No, you are afraid to even imagine betrayal towards him. He's the very best.

16. What do you think about your man's shortcomings?

You try to accept all the negative traits of a man, because no one is perfect.

You think that he will change for the better as soon as his feelings become more serious or you move on to the next stage of the relationship (cohabitation, marriage or the birth of a child, for example).

You are sure that your man has no minuses and he is always right.

You do not like some of the qualities of your chosen one, because of which you sometimes quarrel, but in general you are optimistic about everything.

17. Your man has bought glasses that he really likes, but obviously doesn't fit. Will you point it out?

Yes. You want to help him look his best.

No. Your man has impeccable taste.

No, you are very afraid of offending him.

Yes, you understand that you will be ashamed next to him in such glasses.

18. Imagine that you don't like his friends. What will you do?

You think that such a situation is impossible by itself, because he chooses the best.

You will say this directly and avoid meeting them.

Say that you don't really like his friends, but he has the right to decide with whom he communicates and with whom he does not.

You will often point out to him that his friends are a bad influence on him, and you wish him the best.

19. You went to the store together to buy you a dress. After inspecting the goods, it turned out that you and your chosen one chose two different options. And each of you is not satisfied with the choice of the other. How will you do it?

Go to another store to find a dress that you both like.

Buy the dress he likes. You want to always be the most beautiful in his eyes.

Buy both to please yourself and him.

Buy the dress you like best. After all, it's up to you to wear it.

20. He forgot about the anniversary of your acquaintance and came home without a present. What do you think?

A little upset, but remind him of the date and offer to decide together how to spend the rest of the evening to celebrate the anniversary.

Take offense. How could you forget such a day?!

Decide that it's your fault, because you didn't remind him, and he's been so busy lately and generally tired.

You are not particularly offended, because, to be honest, you yourself forgot about it.

Love test: does he love me?

Men's thoughts are such a mystery for women. Sometimes it’s very difficult to say with accuracy whether a man is in love, having fun, or he’s just comfortable being around you. Or maybe doubts are not at all in the presence of feelings, but in their form? Sympathy, falling in love or love - what exactly does he experience? This love test will tell you the right answer, give advice for the future and reveal the secret of male logic.

1. How does he perceive your past relationships with other men?

Accepts them calmly.

Reproaches at any opportunity.

He doesn't know.

Jealous, sometimes returns to this topic, asks who is better - he or the former.

2. You met on the weekend, no one has important things to do. There was a conversation between you about something, but the topic suddenly ran out of steam. There was silence. How does he behave?

He is embarrassed, tries to think of another topic.

Looks at you lovingly and smiles.

Ends the meeting quickly and leaves.

Calmly offers to do something together.

3. Does your boyfriend help with household chores?

Yes, he has his own duties, but sometimes he even helps with mine.

No.

We don't live together yet.

Yes, but more often than not he wants to spend time with me rather than help me.

4. Do you personally know his relatives?

Yes, or the date of the official acquaintance has already been set.

It's too early.

No, and he doesn't plan to introduce you to them.

No, but he promises to introduce me.

5. How does your man react to talk about a future together?

Admiringly describes the moments of the forthcoming family life. Glad to be with you.

Avoids conversations, laughs off or speaks a little, superficially, in general phrases.

Is annoyed or even denies a future together.

Interested in your views on financial and everyday issues, openly expresses his own. Builds general plans, soberly looking at current opportunities.

6. How long has your relationship lasted?

More than three years.

From six months to 3 years.

Less than six months or just met.

We have known each other for a long time, but we are not in a relationship.

7. He offers to meet, but you are busy or just not in the mood. How will he act in such a situation?

Be offended or express indifference.

Calmly accept this fact.

Will still try to persuade him to meet.

Will ask if everything is in order, if help is needed.

8. He decides to stay with friends/colleagues after work and come home later. What will he do (provided that you had nothing planned with him)?

Be sure to call / write and warn about the plans.

Will speak about his plans in general terms and only after being asked about them.

Won't say at all. If you call him, he can start snapping, freaking out.

Ask permission to stay with friends. In case of refusal, he will be delayed after work for a very short time or will immediately come home.

9. How does your man show jealousy?

He doesn't care or, on the contrary, he makes a row.

A little nervous, but tries not to show it.

Calmly discusses what is bothering him.

Emotionally says that he is afraid of losing you.

10. You did something wrong with him (for example, being late for a meeting). How does he react to this error?

Is offended, but does not act aggressively, changes the topic of conversation.

Roughly criticizes, gets angry, shouts, can insult.

Discusses the problem, explains what he doesn't like. All without scandals.

Forgives almost immediately or says that everything is fine, but his appearance and tone contradict this a little.

11. Does he often compare you to his ex-girlfriends?

I don't remember him ever comparing me to anyone.

Yes, most of the time I lose in this comparison.

Compares, but in my favor.

We haven't talked about exes yet.

12. How does he behave if you are upset about something?

Heaps compliments, says phrases like “Everything will be fine”.

Listens carefully, asks for details, offers help.

Ignores, withdraws or becomes annoyed.

Saying something like “Don't be sad”, trying to change the subject.

13. How do your quarrels usually go?

Stormy, with screams, insults, tears.

We (almost) never quarrel.

All misunderstandings are either ignored or treated as a joke.

Sometimes there are emotional jumps, but in general you and him try to resolve everything peacefully through conversations.

14. He offers to have sex, but you are sick and therefore refuse. What is his most likely reaction?

Get offended or say something sarcastic.

Will shower you with compliments about how beautiful you look even when you feel unwell. Perhaps it will become unobtrusively pestering.

Will not insist on sex, will take care of your health (goes to the pharmacy for medicines or prepares healthy tea, for example).

Wish you a speedy recovery and will soon be away on business.

15. Your man is on vacation or a day off and you need to visit a gynecologist. You ask your lover to go with you for support. What will he do?

Will go with you and wait outside the office.

Refuses to go, but sends an encouraging text message.

Walk you to the hospital building and then leave.

He will definitely refuse.

16. How often does he talk about his feelings for you?

Very often, almost every hour.

Almost every day.

He talks more about compliments than about his feelings.

Very rarely or does not speak at all.

17. You would like to buy a spinning rod for him, a dress for you and a new vacuum cleaner to replace the old one that broke down. The total money is enough for only one purchase. Where will you spend them?

On his spinning rod.

For your dress.

For vacuum cleaner.

We are not making joint purchases yet.

18. What compliments does he give most often?

Appearance, including facial features, figure, clothing, style in general.

About character and appearance.

Doesn't compliment at all or does it very rarely, as if reluctantly.

About a positive influence on his life (“you make me a better person”, “I am happy to be with you”, etc.

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