Do i still have feelings for him quiz

Are You Falling out of Love?

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Let's talk about the wonderful world of relationships for a moment. Love is like an uphill battle that seems to be flawed at its core. But surrounding that core lie happiness, memories and feelings that can't be explained in words. Many people are fortunate enough to experience true love, but some other people have also had the displeasure of falling out of love.

Unfortunately, falling out of love can happen to anyone, no matter how great the relationship seems. But, most of the time, this is a snowball effect that tends to gain momentum over time. In other words, a person does not simply wake up and realize they're suddenly out of love (for the most part). Instead, these feelings start to develop naturally over time. For example, maybe you hate their soft snores at night, whereas before you thought they were adorable. Or perhaps you have come to realize that you can't stand the way they walk, talk and present themselves to the world. These are all signs of falling out of love, and we're about to go more in-depth with this topic.

So, are you in love or falling way out of love? Let us help you find the answer with this romantic quiz!

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How often do you think about your crush or significant other?

Every minute of the day

A few times a week

Once in a while

Pretty much never

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When you see your partner in person, how do you feel?

Overjoyed

Kind of annoyed

Content

Stressed out

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How often do you two go out on romantic dates?

A few times per week

Once or twice a month

A few times a year

I can't even remember our last date.

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Has it ever crossed your mind to cheat on your SO?

Absolutely not

I've had my temptations.

I've thought about this once or twice.

Yes, all the time

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Where do you see yourself in the next five years?

Happily married

I don't even know.

Single

Dating someone else

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Has your crush or significant other ever made you feel upset or angry?

Yes, but that's how relationships are.

Not exactly

I'm always upset when I'm around them.

I've definitely cried a few times with them.

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How did you initially meet this person?

Blind luck

Blind date

Through a friend or coworker

I can't remember.

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Has your relationship with this person blossomed or decayed over time?

Blossomed

I don't know ... maybe a little bit of both.

Well, it's been rocky.

Decayed

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What do you two usually argue about?

We never argue.

The spotlight is always on them because they do stupid things.

They always seem to point the blame at me for things.

Literally everything

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Do you two ever compliment each other about looks or personality traits?

Absolutely, all the time

Once in a while

Not so much anymore

What's there to compliment?

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How long have you been in a relationship with this person?

Three or more years

Six months or less

About a year

One to two years

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If you had the opportunity to date a celebrity instead of your current crush, would you?

No, that sounds like a nightmare.

Hmm ... can I pick any celebrity?

Probably not

Oh, in a heartbeat

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How do you act around your partner's friends or family members?

Outgoing — I like them all.

I just act like a cooler version of myself.

Quiet, like a wallflower

I don't really hang out with them.

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If you could, what would you change about your relationship?

I wish we could spend more time together.

I wish I had more space.

I wish we would fight less.

Honestly, I wish we would break up already.

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Do you still get those butterfly feelings when you see them in person?

Yup, my stomach always flutters around when I see them.

Sometimes

Not anymore

I don't even know what that is.

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Who is the first person you talk to when you have good news about something?

My significant other

My best friend

My parents

No one, really

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Maybe you once found your SO's mannerisms to be adorable, but now you find them ...

Even cuter

Annoying

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What is your partner's ratio of positive to negative traits?

It's mostly positive.

It's about 40% positive and 60% negative.

It's like 60% positive and 40% negative.

It's 100% negative.

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Have you ever talked to a therapist about your relationship problems?

Nope, never

No, but I want to.

I think I saw a therapist once about this.

That's what I call my "venting session."

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Imagine your life without a partner anymore. How do you feel about that?

Terrified

I don't really feel anything.

Hallelujah!

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When you see a picture of your boo, do you feel like they're an attractive person?

They're even more attractive now.

They used to be, but their looks have gone downhill.

They look about the same as before.

I don't feel as attracted to them anymore.

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If your significant other stopped by to surprise you with a gift, would you feel like this is a blessing or a curse?

Blessing

I'd be kind of "meh" about it.

Major curse

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Have you ever found yourself rolling your eyes when they speak?

No, that seems rude.

Only when they say something absurd

Yup, that's me all right.

I don't notice if I do this.

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What would a breakup with your crush or significant other look like?

Trust me, it would be messy.

Lots of crying, screaming and throwing things

I guess we'll find out one day.

I think it would be pretty civil, actually.

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When you say "I love you" to your partner, what kinds of thoughts go through your mind?

"I really do love you!"

"You make me so mad, but I still mostly love you."

I don't say "I love you" to them.

"I really don't mean that."

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How often do you utter the words "I'm fine" when you're 100% not fine?

I never, ever do this.

Only when I'm really mad

Way too often

Once in a great while

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Do you often show interest in your boo's life and well-being?

Of course I do!

Only if it's actually interesting

Sometimes

Not anymore

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What do your friends and family think about your significant other?

There haven't been any issues so far.

They don't like my SO.

Some like my SO; others don't.

They haven't met each other.

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How would you feel if your SO started snacking on some of the food in your fridge?

Happy. Go help yourself!

Indifferent

Annoyed

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When was the last time you bought your SO a gift?

Yesterday

I can't remember.

Last week

Last month

FINISH QUIZ

You Got:

Am I in Love Quiz

When you have a crush, feelings seem to get magnified by 100. You may have thought they were cute before, but now they’re GORGEOUS. Or maybe their jokes that you use to smile at now leave you in a fit of laughter. Infatuation does that to you, and makes it hard to get a real sense of your feelings. Sometimes you might really be falling for someone and feel like you’re truly in love, and other times, you’re actually just in love with the idea of the person.

So, to help you sort out your true feelings and find out if you’re actually in love, or if it’s simply a big ’ol crush, take this quiz to help you determine what’s really going on.

105 Perfect First Date Questions to Ask Your Crush

If you answered mostly with the first column…

Your feelings are the real deal. It’s not just because they’re cute, or they’re on the soccer team, or have that cool senior thing going for them. You’ve found someone you can trust and with whom you can share personal things that you’ve never felt comfortable sharing with anyone else. They’re the person you go to when you have good news or bad, and you literally don’t know what you’d do without them in your life. Even if you’re not ready to say “I love you” just yet, that kind of intimacy, trust, and deep connection are the foundation for lasting love.

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If you answered mostly with the second column…

Hold tight — it sounds like it might just be a passing crush. It might be that you don’t know them well enough to be sure that your feelings are based on anything real, or if it’s more of a superficial infatuation. When you’ve been crushing on someone forever and then actually start hanging out with them, the excitement of the dream coming true might make you think you’re more into them than you actually are. It’s important to take it day by day! If it doesn’t work out, don’t despair; you can still learn a lot about yourself and the world of relationships from a crush. And, who knows, as time goes by, a deeper relationship might grow.

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Quiz: Do I love him

The line between falling in love and love is quite thin and barely perceptible. Therefore, having met a new man or feeling problems with a long-term partner, a woman may begin to doubt: do I love him? The test will tell you if you are experiencing true love or if this is a temporary attraction. What is the name of the feeling you are experiencing right now? How strong is it, resistant to life's difficulties and time?

1. You and your boyfriend have the only day off of the week. You want to go to the cinema to see the premiere of a new melodrama, and he wants to go to the decisive football match. You don't like each other's ideas. Where will you end up going?

For a football match. You really want to please your loved one and will do everything to make him feel good with you.

Persuade the chosen one to go to the cinema, because you have wanted it for so long, and this is also a premiere!

Everyone will go where they want, and in the evening, devote time to each other.

You won't go anywhere. If you can't come to an agreement, then it's better to spend time together at home.

2. Do you have secrets from your man?

No, you think you have to tell him absolutely everything, even though you let him have his secrets.

Yes, you don't talk about certain things so as not to disturb your loved one.

Yes, everyone has skeletons in their closet.

Not at all. If you didn’t say something, it means that you simply didn’t remember or there was no right moment.

3. Your best friend didn't like your man very much. She hints that it would be better for you to leave. What is your reaction?

Gently tell her that this relationship concerns only you and your man, and you will solve your problems yourself.

Try to convince your friend that she is wrong, list the pluses of your chosen one.

Quarrel with her, because your boyfriend is very good. And in general, she most likely just sunk into him herself and wants to beat him off.

Seriously think about her words and begin to look more carefully at the acquaintance or move away from him.

4. Can you admit the thought of cheating on your man?

If you're in trouble, you'll be happy to try your luck with another guy.

Only if he changes you or hurts you very badly.

No, you think that betrayal is below your dignity.

No, you are afraid to even imagine betrayal towards him. He's the very best.

5. Imagine that he has made the decision to leave you. How will you react?

It will be hard for you to come to your senses, but you will thank him for everything that was, and try to move on.

Get upset, but soon forget about it. The sea is still full of fish.

You feel like life is over and no longer makes sense.

You will have a tantrum, you will try to do your best to keep him close to you.

6. There is nothing to eat at home, your man is hungry, and you are exhausted after work and do not want to cook dinner. How will you do it?

Do something very easy on a quick hand so as not to disappoint your boyfriend.

Do nothing. If he is hungry, he may well cook something for himself.

Go cook anyway. Your man should always be fed.

Offer to order takeaway or dine at a cafe.

7. You went to the store together to buy you a dress. After inspecting the goods, it turned out that you and your chosen one chose two different options. And each of you is not satisfied with the choice of the other. How will you do it?

Buy both to please yourself and him.

Buy the dress he likes. You want to always be the most beautiful in his eyes.

Buy the dress you like best. After all, it's up to you to wear it.

Go to another store to find a dress that both of you will like.

8. Your former partner invited you to a business meeting and promises you a good job offer. Your current man doesn't like it. He asks you not to go. How will you do it?

Explain that this is a good chance and offer to go together so that your man is less nervous.

Go to the meeting, but don't tell the guy about it so as not to upset him.

Don't go because you don't want to do anything that might upset your boyfriend a little.

You will go no matter what. This is a very profitable meeting, and you are not going to lose the chance just because someone is too jealous.

9. Who is this man to you?

An ally with whom you would like to overcome the difficulties of life together.

The source of your happiness.

Ideal, the best thing that could happen to you.

One of the many variants of fate.

10. Did you tell your parents about him?

No, and you haven't thought about doing it yet.

Yes, you immediately said that you had met the man of your dreams.

Yes, but rather because you tell them everything.

Yes, but not immediately, but when your feelings become more serious.

11. He swore he would call you at lunchtime. It's almost evening and still no call. Your thoughts?

You will be very worried. Did something happen to him? Or is he offended by you for something?

Be offended because he didn't keep his promise.

You will think that he just got busy and forgot. Call him yourself.

Well, I didn't call, so I didn't call. You will quickly forget, as you have enough things to do.

12. Would you like children from him?

Yes, you think he will be a good father.

No.

Perhaps, but not now.

Yes, but if he does not want children, then you will sacrifice your desire and refuse this idea.

13. Can you remember how your feelings for him developed from the very first meeting?

You felt from the very first sight that this is your man, and fell in love.

You looked at him for a while, trying not to rush things.

At first you tried to get to know him better, but when feelings appeared, you went into these emotions with your head.

Nothing special, just got to know each other or you don't remember.

14. You had an argument with a work colleague and now you are in a bad mood. Who will you first tell about the problem?

Either a man or a girlfriend, depending on who you see first or who calls first.

To my man. You always share things like that with him and tell each other about how your day went.

Not to my boyfriend. He has enough problems of his own and you don't want to bother him.

A friend or mother, because they understand you best.

15. Your man has bought glasses that he really likes, but obviously doesn't fit. Will you point it out?

No, you are very afraid of offending him.

Yes, you understand that you will be ashamed next to him in such glasses.

No. Your man has impeccable taste.

Yes. You want to help him look his best.

16. Imagine that you don't like his friends. What will you do?

Say that you don't really like his friends, but he has the right to decide with whom he communicates and with whom he does not.

You think that such a situation is impossible by itself, because he chooses the best.

You will often point out to him that his friends are a bad influence on him, and you wish him the best.

Say it straight out and avoid meeting them.

17. Your man has a bad cold, and you have to hand in an important project at work today. How will you do it?

You will go to work, but you will write or call all the time and worry about how he is there without you.

Try to get time off from work. If it doesn't work out, then hand over the project, and then take off early and buy drugs on the way home.

What job?! Of course, you will stay with your loved one and will court him all day.

Go to work. He's a big boy, he can heal himself.

18. He had a bad day and took it out on you. What is your reaction?

Let it cool down and then calmly ask what's wrong.

You will burst into tears or start shouting at him in response, because you are offended.

You will justify him and try to please him so that he feels better as soon as possible.

Silently slam the door. You don't have to listen to it.

19. He forgot about the anniversary of your acquaintance and came home without a present. What do you think?

Think it's your fault, because you didn't remind him, and he's been so busy lately and generally tired.

You are not particularly offended, because, to be honest, you yourself forgot about it.

Take offense. How could you forget such a day?!

A little upset, but remind him of the date and offer to decide together how to spend the rest of the evening to celebrate the anniversary.

20. What do you think about your man's shortcomings?

You think that he will change for the better as soon as his feelings become more serious or you move on to the next stage of the relationship (cohabitation, marriage or the birth of a child, for example).

You are sure that your man has no minuses and he is always right.

You do not like some of the qualities of your chosen one, because of which you sometimes quarrel, but in general you are optimistic about everything.

You try to accept all the negative traits of a man, because no one is perfect.

How to tell if you truly love someone

March 17, 2021

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Blogger Chris Gage has come up with her list of right symptoms and things that are just confusing.

False signs

1. You think about this person all the time. This is a blind infatuation. If you are constantly thinking about someone, you cannot focus on other important things. And this is already a problem. True love fits into life, not captures it.

2. You constantly yearn for your partner or cannot live a single day without him. See above.

3. This person means everything to you. The same.

4. You cannot imagine the future without the object of your feelings. If you try, you can imagine anything. For example, that you moved to Switzerland and graze goats there. But this does not mean that you really need such a turn. And in the phrases “When I think about the future, I always imagine how he / she helps me cope with everything, no matter what happens”, “My future without him / her simply does not make sense”, the object of love can easily be replaced with a new job or your favorite dog.

The problem is that we have turned love into a form of escapism. We measure potential partners by how they fit into our fantasies.

Only this has nothing to do with love. So yes, imagine a partner in your future, but not because he "makes life complete."

5. This person is the one you have always dreamed of. See above.

6. You want your partner to always be there. You have clearly never been in a healthy long-term relationship. Yes, you must want to see your lover or beloved. But not always! Sometimes you need to be alone with yourself, work or do other things. Don't think that you don't love someone just because you want to be alone from time to time.

7. You will do anything to impress your lover. It's even scary. And why are you trying so hard? Loving doesn't mean making a good impression.

8. You are afraid of losing this person. There is no fear of loss in healthy love. This is attachment.

9. You are jealous. And this is again attachment, not mature love.

10. This person is beautiful. This is most likely just flattering to your vanity. And, in general, it is very stupid.

11. He is kind. Well, it's great that your emotional needs are met. But it only says that your partner deserves love. It is not a fact that you are experiencing it for him.

12. You just know. This is the most useless answer ever. Do not repeat such stupid things for others, calling them romantic, because you do not have a normal explanation.

Signs to watch out for

1. Your time with your partner is the best time of the day. Depends on how things are with the rest. Well, if you are satisfied with your life and the partner only makes it even better. It’s bad if you don’t like everything, and communication with him is the only outlet for you - . It's time to get on with your life.

2. You put your partner's interests above everything else. It's good if you really care about his desires and needs and you pay attention to them without destroying yourself. It is bad if you sacrifice your needs or evaluate yourself only by the ability to make your partner happy.

Signs that you like him / her as a person

1. The object of your feelings is not like everyone else. Here he or she is lucky.

2. You like not only his appearance. Congratulations, all is not lost for you.

3. You wish this person happiness. Excellent. It would be nice to wish happiness to most people.

4. With it, you are ready to try something new. Great, you have found someone with whom you are comfortable and pleased.

5. Your partner inspires you to be better. Role models are also inspiring, but you don't like them.

Signs of true love

1. You have decided to love. Love is an action, not a feeling. It is a conscious decision that you make over and over again.

2. You show love. You invest and make efforts. You don't intentionally hurt. You don't retaliate, you don't manipulate, you don't coward. Your partner's needs don't annoy you. You are not trying to take up all of his time. You feel confident without constant beliefs in reciprocity.

You value your partner's point of view. You learn the language in which he expresses love. You make decisions based on their interests and needs. You support. You care and accept care.

3. You show love even when you don't feel like it. It's easy to think that you love when things are going smoothly in a relationship. But much more important is the period when difficulties begin.

You love it when, during disagreements, your goal is to find a compromise, not to pick a winner.
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