Couples intimacy questions

32 Questions for Intimacy That Deepen Your Relationship

Over the years, I’ve come to prefer (and have worked tirelessly to perfect), a laid-back but romantic dinner at home as opposed to a night out. The process is simple, and it starts by setting the mood. You know the drill: dim the lights, put a favorite record on, and prep a mouthwatering meal to roast in the oven. After that? Prepare for presence. To make any night with your partner more meaningful, I’ve curated a list of 32 questions for intimacy that will help guide your conversation and help you both get deep.

While ambiance is key to an intimate evening at home, without enticing conversation, even the most beautiful setting can fall flat. So let go of the stress of the day or the week, and come to the table with intentional questions that’ll help you grow deeper in your relationship.

Because here’s an important PSA to keep in mind: dating your partner can be more than an overpriced dinner or bouquet of flowers. With the right mindset, intention, and questions, setting aside these special moments can deepen your love and bring a fresh and renewed perspective to your relationship.

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Take a look at these questions and jot down your faves. May the conversations they inspire bring you to exciting places with your loved one. Because however you decide to spend your Friday evening, that’s really the goal, isn’t it?

The Best Questions for Intimacy and Connection With Your Partner

  1. What are three qualities about me that you were first attracted to?
  2. What’s a question you’ve always wanted to ask me but never have?
  3. What do you remember from when we were falling in love?
  4. How do you like to be shown love?
  5. How do you like to show love?
  6. What makes you feel the most loved?
  7. Would you like to be famous?
  8. If you could, what would you have changed about your childhood?
  9. What is one thing that you’re afraid to tell anyone else?
  10. What would the perfect day look like to you? How would you spend it?
  11. If we met again for the first time, but with all the knowledge of our relationship up to now, what would you want to say to me?
  12. Share a time you felt embarrassed.
  13. When have you felt the most proud of me?
  14. Who was the last person you cried in front of? Why?
  15. What is your biggest regret?
  16. Out of the five senses, which is the most sensual to you?
  17. What do you think your younger self would think of our relationship?
  18. If you could relive one day together, which would it be?
  19. Is there anything you’re afraid to accomplish that I can help you with?
  20. Is our relationship physical enough for you? What would make it better in your eyes?
  21. How and where do you like to be touched?
  22. Do you have any fantasies you would like fulfilled?
  23. What is the closest you’ve ever felt to me?
  24. What is the best part of our relationship?
  25. My sexiest feature is… ?
  26. What song always makes you think of me?
  27. Is there anything we haven’t tried that you’d like to?
  28. What movie do you think would reflect our relationship?
  29. How and when did you know we’d make it as a couple?
  30. If you didn’t have to work, what would you do with your life?
  31. What is the best way I can make you feel loved?
  32. What’s your favorite memory of us?

Have you and your partner tried asking intentional questions for intimacy and connection? We’d love to hear how it influenced your relationship in the comments.

This post was originally published on February 14, 2022, and has since been updated.

101 Intimate Questions For Couples (Conversations that sizzle)

As your relationship progresses, your conversations with your partner can start to become mundane.

You might find that you only discuss where to go out to eat or the daily annoyances of the workplace.

For parents, the topic of their children can consume almost all of their discussions.

Don’t let your time with your partner focus on shallow, day-to-day topics. You can spark long and stimulating conversations with intimate questions to ask your partner.

The questions we’ve curated here aren’t related to sexual intimacy but rather emotional intimacy.

They can help you learn more about your views, wishes, dreams, best and worst moments, and what you need from each other emotionally.

The following intimacy questions will draw you closer together.

You’ll strengthen your relationship through a much deeper understanding of what makes both of you tick.

Some of the questions might make you feel vulnerable, but that’s the moment when intimacy can blossom.

1. Do you remember the moment that you knew that you loved me?

2. What were you most afraid of as a kid?

3. What’s your biggest fear as an adult?

4. Has anything seriously upset you in recent months?

5. When was the last time I made you feel appreciated?

6. What’s a bad habit I have that bothers you?

7. What activity do you most enjoy doing with me?

8. Do you feel that you tend to be introverted or extroverted?

9. If you could change one big decision in life, what would it be?

10. What’s your favorite memory from our relationship so far?

11. What’s the worst thing that ever happened to you that you haven’t told me about?

12. How can I be a better partner?

13. What do I do right in our relationship?

14. What do I do that makes you feel loved?

15. What do you do when you’re trying to show me your love?

16. When you’re upset, do you want me to talk to you or give you space?

17. How often do you choose to put my needs ahead of yours?

18. If you were in trouble with the law, would you tell me?

19. What was the funniest thing you ever saw me do?

20. What’s a talent that you would like to develop in yourself?

21. Tell me something that you admire about me?

22. What personal accomplishment are you most proud of?

23. Do you have any big regrets from your youth?

24. Has anyone ever broken your heart?

25. What is something that intimidates you?

26. If money were no object, where would you like to go on vacation with me?

27. Is there anything that I helped you learn about yourself?

28. What would be the best thing about growing old with me?

29. What aspect of our relationship makes you the happiest?

30. Tell me something that has changed about your outlook over the past 5 years?

31. Which is most important: financial security or happiness?

32. What is your most important moral value?

33. What would be unforgivable to do in our relationship?

34. Should spouses care about each other more than their children?

35. What book or film had the biggest influence on you?

36. What do you think happens to people after death?

37. Do you think that you possess free will?

38. What are you most grateful for in our relationship?

39. Have you learned any relationship lessons since becoming my partner?

40. Do you ever feel vulnerable around me?

41. What do you think my insecurities are?

42. Were you raised with any beliefs that you now reject?

43. If you could solve one big problem in the world, what would it be?

44. Could you take me off life support if my official medical directive authorized it?

45. Have you learned anything profound from me?

46. Has anyone ever told you that you were inspiring?

47. What should we be trying to achieve together as a couple?

48. Would you feel safe telling me an embarrassing secret from your past?

49. Have I ever done anything to inspire you?

50. What is something that I can do right now to improve your life?

51. Tell me about something bad that happened to you this month?

52. If a fire or flood threatened your home and your loved ones were safe, what material possession would you want to rescue?

53. Tell me something good that happened to you this month?

54. If you could, what life advice would you give your teenage self?

55. Do you view yourself as more of a nurturer or protector?

56. What skill would you like to acquire?

57. Is there anything that you can’t do that you’re embarrassed about?

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58. How have your priorities changed over the last 10 years?

59. Do you think that we should plan an adventure together?

60. Do you ever feel like you can read my mind?

61. Do you have any recurring dreams?

62. What career do you think would be the best fit for you?

63. If you only had a year to live, what would you want to do with your time?

64. What’s the last thing that made you cry?

65. What three words would you use to describe me?

66. What three words would you use to describe yourself?

67. If you could go back in time, what would you want to witness firsthand?

68. What’s the worst insult that anyone ever directed at you?

69. What’s the nicest compliment that you ever received?

70. Tell me something that you think is attractive about my personality?

71. What’s a common behavior among people that you think is rude?

72. Do you think that your personality resists change or is open to it?

73. What’s something romantic that I could do for you?

74. Would you want to know how you were going to die?

75. Do you think that we should go out more or stay home more?

76. Were you nervous when we started our relationship?

77. Does forgiveness make you feel less guilty?

78. How irritated do you get when people mispronounce words?

79. What’s the most important thing that a parent can teach a child?

80. Is there anything I can do to make you feel more special?

81. Would you quit your job and move with me if I got an incredible career opportunity?

82. Am I ever hypocritical?

83. What do you think is the strongest part of our relationship?

84. What do you think is the weakest part of our relationship?

85. Do you like luxury gifts or practical gifts?

86. What are you most sensitive about concerning your appearance?

87. What’s your earliest memory of me?

88. What are three things that we have in common?

89. Do I give you enough alone time or too much?

90. What is something that you worry about but know that you have no control over?

91. Is there anything going on right now that you’d like my advice about?

92. Which is most important in a relationship: true friendship or sexual attraction?

93. What’s something that you have trouble accepting even though you know that it’s true?

94. In what situations would you want me to lie for you?

95. Which do you assign more value to: gut instincts or rational thought?

96. Was there anything in your upbringing that you think messed you up?

97. Do you think that our relationship has helped you increase your emotional skills?

98. What’s something about me that is totally different from yourself but you love anyway?

99. Tell me about a big setback in your life?

100. What’s something that you would never change about yourself?

101. What’s something about me that you hope never changes?

Keep the Conversation Going

You don’t have to ply each other with these intimacy questions all at once. That might be exhausting because many of them delve into your past fears, future aspirations, and most cherished values.

Feelings of vulnerability may make you or your partner shy about answering, but that’s normal. Building a strong bond as a couple comes from recognizing and even appreciating vulnerability.

Many times, people want to portray themselves to their partners as strong and capable. Still, the healthiest relationships come from loving people as complete packages that include their quirks and opinions.

400 questions for couples to get to know each other better

Alien soul - darkness. To get to know each other, you need to either live side by side for several decades, or ask each other about the innermost.

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  • 1 Questions about personal
  • 2 Questions about childhood
  • 3 Questions about hobbies
  • 4 Questions about dreams
  • 5 Questions about sex, "dirty questions"
  • 6
  • Truth and nothing but truth

    Romantic, intimate, humorous questions will help to reveal new facets of character, inflame sexual desire more strongly. After all, a “familiar stranger” is an amazing Cave of Wonders, full of treasures, dark, and sometimes terrible secrets. Asking each other questions, you go on an exploratory expedition of the human soul - what could be more exciting?

    If any of the questions on the following list seem too intrusive or inappropriate, they may not be asked.

    Personal questions

    • Did you have a first love, and who was it?
    • Was there love at school/kindergarten?
    • Did you fall in love with a school teacher?
    • What was the most painful parting with friends/lovers?
    • Did the separation cause you to lose faith in anything?
    • Do you like your name?
    • Do you like my name?
    • What are your favorite names?
    • Do you like your own eye color?
    • What is your favorite place in the house?
    • What is your favorite season? Times of Day?
    • When do you feel more energetic: morning, afternoon, evening?
    • How old were you when your first love came?
    • When did you realize that you were falling in love with me?
    • Realization that you fall in love with me caused what feelings?
    • Do you have a favorite gesture? What is this gesture?
    • Do you believe in God?
    • Which religion attracts you the most?
    • Are you a gambler?
    • How do you feel about gambling?
    • Can you describe your attitude towards role-playing games?
    • Would you like to take part in role play?
    • Has the body ever taken part in role play?
    • Are you interested in online casinos? Would you like to try spinning the wheel of luck?
    • Have you ever won the lottery?
    • Do you have any awards, commendations?
    • Is there anything in your appearance that you strongly dislike?
    • What would you like to change about yourself, or are you satisfied with everything?
    • What is your favorite color?
    • Have you ever had suicidal thoughts?
    • Have any of your relatives committed suicide?
    • Is there a philosopher or politician whose opinion you listen to?
    • Who shaped your views on politics?
    • What does a perfect day look like for you?
    • Do you like your job?
    • What was your first encounter with alcohol?
    • Have you tried any psychotropic substances?
    • What do you like most about your job?
    • What annoys you about your job?
    • Would you like to change jobs?
    • Do you have a favorite perfume? Which?
    • Have you ever been betrayed by friends or relatives?
    • What do you think is the most disgusting act?
    • Are there any conflicts in your past that remain unresolved?
    • Are there people who cause you sincere gratitude?
    • What situation makes you feel truly secure?
    • Is there any relative with whom you are now in a quarrel?
    • Why did you quarrel?
    • How do you feel about jealousy?
    • Have you ever had to forgive someone?
    • Do you consider yourself a jealous person?
    • What makes you jealous?
    • Do you consider yourself a romantic person?
    • What is your most romantic fantasy?
    • Have you ever begged forgiveness from anyone?
    • Have you ever been humiliated?
    • Have you ever secretly read other people's letters, rummaged through your bag?
    • Have you ever had such a feeling of envy that you are now ashamed of?
    • "Terrible secret": have you ever kicked a dog or a cat?
    • Would you like to reconcile with those relatives (friends) with whom you are now in a quarrel?
    • What relationships seem healthy to you?
    • What relationships do you find unhealthy?
    • Do you like tattoos?
    • How do you feel about extravagant manicure?
    • Do you eat everything or are you picky at the table?
    • Do you follow any diet?
    • Are you interested in politics?
    • How do you feel about the Meghan Markle scandals?
    • Do you read the yellow press?
    • How would you feel if I take your phone or laptop?
    • Do you have things that you don't let anyone touch?
    • Would you like to move to another city? In which?
    • What is the funniest New Year's resolution you've ever made to yourself?
    • Have you ever lost a dog or other pet?
    • Have you ever lost things?
    • What was the most ridiculous loss?
    • What was the most regrettable loss?
    • Have you ever received serious injuries, fractures?
    • Do you have a talisman? What is this talisman?
    • Do you have any phobias? What are these phobias?
    • What sound do you find most unpleasant?
    • How do you feel about loud music?
    • Have you ever been in a car accident?
    • Have you ever drowned?
    • How do you feel about blood donation?
    • Have you ever donated blood?
    • Have you had any surgeries?
    • Do you think it's better to age naturally or have plastic surgery to hide your age?
    • Would you like to change your hairstyle? My hairstyle?
    • Have you ever come across valuable finds?
    • What is the most valuable thing you have ever found?
    • What literary hero do you think is closest to your spirit?
    • What do you think: what should you do if you are carrying a large amount of money or a valuable item, such as gold jewelry.
    • What is your favorite anti-stress?
    • Have you ever hit dishes or broken something out of anger?
    • Would you like to change your nationality?
    • What is your favorite nationality?
    • How do you remember new information better: by ear, by reading, or by writing it down?
    • Which website do you visit most often?
    • Which shopping is better: traditional or virtual?
    • When do you think old age begins?
    • What takes up the most of your time?
    • Have you had to get rid of bad habits?
    • Have you ever been arrested?
    • Have you ever stolen any change in supermarkets?
    • How do you feel about stealing in supermarkets?
    • What would you like to steal from the supermarket?
    • What was your longest trip?
    • How do you feel about fame?
    • Do you consider yourself a lucky person?
    • What little things make life better?
    • How many selfies have you taken?
    • Do you believe in magic?
    • Have you ever sexted (ie sent photos of a personal nature to the recipient's cell phone)?
    • Which do you prefer: washing or washing dishes?
    • Do you believe in ghosts?
    • Have you ever met a ghost?
    • What housework annoys you the most?
    • Would you like to drop everything and go to some wilderness?
    • How do you feel about downshifting?
    • Have you ever wanted to become a vegetarian?
    • How do you feel about veganism?
    • Are you ticklish?
    • Do you like going to weddings with friends and relatives?
    • What is your favorite holiday?
    • Do you keep a diary?
    • Do you have wisdom teeth?
    • How do you feel about plastic surgery?
    • How would you feel if your diary was read by a relative or friend?

    Questions about childhood

    • What was your biggest fear as a child?
    • What was your favorite food as a child? What is your favorite dish right now?
    • What was your favorite treat as a child?
    • When you were a child, did you want to change your name? If yes, what would you like to be called?
    • When you were a child, did you want to have a little brother or sister?
    • Did you have a favorite lesson at school?
    • What affectionate name did your parents call you?
    • Have you ever been to a children's summer camp?
    • At what age did you start asking for a potty?
    • What is your best childhood memory?
    • What is your worst childhood memory?
    • How did your parents punish you?
    • Did your parents often punish you?
    • Did your parents cause more fear or love?
    • Have you been sung to lullabies?
    • How many toys did you have?
    • Did you often break toys?
    • Was there a toy that you dreamed of (-la), but the body never bought it?
    • Do you still have children's toys?
    • Do you remember your first A in high school?
    • Did you like your first teacher?
    • Did T often act up at the table?
    • As a child, which parent evoked more love?
    • Did you have a childhood friend that you wanted to follow?
    • At what age did you learn to read and write?
    • Did you often cry (-la) as a child?
    • As a child, which adult did you trust the most?
    • As a child, did you feel the support of relatives, or did they only evaluate and condemn?
    • When you were a child, did you want to be turned into an animal? In which?
    • What superhero did you want to be?
    • What pets did you have? What were their names?
    • Have you ever skipped classes?
    • Did you always tell your parents the truth?
    • Did you have to clean up your school diary?
    • Who was your favorite Star Wars character?
    • What were your favorite cartoons?
    • Were you often put in a corner?
    • Did your parents always punish you fairly?
    • Were you forced to go to the sports section? Music school?
    • Have you ever broken a window with a ball?
    • Was there a fear of the dark in childhood?
    • Have you ever gorged yourself on sweets or other treats to such an extent that your stomach started to hurt?
    • Have you ever stolen raspberries or apples?
    • "Terrible secret": have you ever had to tear off the wings of flies or butterflies?
    • What was the funniest promise you made to your parents?
    • Were you afraid of Babaika? Did they scare you with Babaika?
    • What would you like to be when you grow up?
    • Have you ever climbed trees?
    • Who was your sworn enemy?
    • Who was your best friend?
    • What was your biggest mischief at school?
    • Have you ever wanted to run away from home?
    • What are your earliest memories?
    • Did you do well at school?
    • Were you a good boy (-girl) or a bully?
    • What was the best birthday you had?
    • Did your parents arrange children's parties for you?
    • Did you have a big birthday party?

    Questions about hobbies

    • Do you have a hobby? It would seem that this is a banal question, but many people forget to ask it. But it is very useful and helps to reliably strengthen relationships, especially if for some holiday (for example, Valentine's Day), in addition to traditional gifts, present something related to your favorite hobby.
    • Who is your favorite writer, composer, artist?
    • What is your favorite song, band?
    • What is your favorite book?
    • Do you like comics, if so, which ones?
    • What is your favorite movie, series?
    • Do you like to sing karaoke?
    • Do you write poetry?
    • Do you like theater, circus?
    • Who is your favorite clown?
    • Do you compose anything?
    • Do you collect anything?
    • Would you like to collect anything?
    • Do you like 50 Shades of Grey?
    • Do you like animals? If so, which ones?
    • Have you ever volunteered? How do you feel about volunteer work?
    • What is your favorite computer game?
    • If you had to go on a first date to a restaurant, what would be the best dish for that?
    • Do you have any music or song that is associated with me? What song is this?
    • Which spiritual book do you find most convincing?
    • What brand of car do you like best?
    • Do you speak any foreign language?
    • What foreign language would you like to learn?
    • Would you like to learn the language of the deaf and dumb so that you can have secret conversations?
    • Would you like to learn how to play a musical instrument?
    • What is the best food for the New Year's table?
    • Would you like to go on a long trip with tents?
    • Which phone do you like best?
    • What kind of art do you like best?
    • What is the best breakfast for you?
    • Which country's cuisine do you consider the most delicious? Most tasteless?
    • What dish would you not eat even in fear of starvation?
    • What dish can you eat every day?
    • What fashion do you think is the most ridiculous? The most beautiful?
    • In which online store do you shop the most?
    • What is your favorite sport?
    • Do you like scuba diving?
    • Which team do you support?
    • Can you swim?
    • Do you have a favorite saying?
    • What do you like most about the Internet?
    • Do you have a favorite quote? Which?
    • What do you consider your greatest talent?
    • What do you do to calm down?
    • What in the news excites you the most?
    • Do you like to cook?
    • Can you cook?
    • Are you into cooking?
    • Do you like hunting? Fishing?
    • How many lumps of sugar do you usually put in your coffee?
    • Do you like rainy weather?

    Questions about dreams

    • Do you want children? How many children do you want?
    • In your opinion, what life values ​​should be instilled in children first of all?
    • Would you like to learn how to ride a horse?
    • What unusual food or drink would you like to try?
    • How do you feel about extreme sports?
    • Would you like to bungee jump?
    • Would you like to live in the countryside?
    • How do you see the most unusual holiday?
    • Would you like to visit the mountains?
    • Would you like to climb Everest?
    • Which tropical island would you like to visit?
    • Would you like to celebrate the New Year in Lapland?
    • Would you like to travel to India?
    • Would you like to visit Antarctica?
    • Have you ever wanted to indulge in unbridled revelry?
    • Would you like to see a real Spanish bullfight?
    • Or maybe you would like to run with the bulls through the streets of Pamplona?
    • Do you have a favorite superhero?
    • What were your favorite toys?
    • Do you have any children's toys left?
    • Would you like to attend the premiere of some film or play?
    • What period of history would you like to live in?
    • Would you like to visit the future?
    • What historical secret would you like to know?
    • Would you like to go back to your childhood?
    • At what age would you like to stay permanently?
    • What kind of wedding do you dream of: big or modest?
    • Which of your habits do you think is the strangest?
    • Would you like to live forever?
    • What emoticons do you use most often?
    • Do you have a wishlist?
    • Do you like to recite poetry?
    • Do you like reading aloud?
    • Would you like to go on a real dog hunt?

    Questions about sex, "dirty questions"

    • Do you like blowjobs?
    • What do you think is the sexiest dish?
    • Can you give blowjobs?
    • Have you ever gone skinny-dipping in a river or sea?
    • Would you like to read the Kama Sutra? Try something from the Kama Sutra?
    • Which of the unusual or risky sexual practices do you find most interesting?
    • Do you like sunbathing naked?
    • What sexual practice would you like to try?
    • Would you like to go to a strip club with me?
    • Do you want me to arrange a striptease for you?
    • Do you like taking air baths naked?
    • What cocktail kindles your thirst for sex?
    • Do you remember your first kiss?
    • Do you want us to arrange a day off naked - we will walk around naked all day?
    • Do you want to try prostate massage?
    • Have you ever been sent nude pictures?
    • Have you sent your nude photos to anyone?
    • Do you like French kissing?
    • Do you want to take off my underwear without using my hands?
    • What did you like most about our first kiss?
    • Would you like to tell me about your first sexual experience?
    • How do you feel about shopping for adults?
    • Do you like watching porn?
    • Do you want to watch porn with me?
    • Which porn movie do you find the most unpleasant and which is the most enjoyable?
    • Do you have sex toys?
    • At what age did you become aware of sex?
    • Have you ever watched someone having sex?
    • Would you like to tie me up?
    • How do you feel about playing with handcuffs?
    • Do you want to go to the cinema, sit on the very last row and kiss there in the dark?
    • At what age do you think children should be taught about sex?
    • Have you tried any unusual sexual practices?
    • When did you realize that you wanted to have sex with me?
    • Do you like blindfolded sex?
    • Do you like to have sex early in the morning, before sunrise?
    • Have you ever tried to have sex in the woods, on the beach?
    • Have you ever wanted to have sex in a nightclub bathroom?
    • Would you like to try a new masturbator (vibrator)?
    • What is your favorite condom flavor?
    • Do you like ribbed condoms?
    • What method of contraception do you think is the most reliable and acceptable?
    • When do you like to have sex: in the evening, in the morning or in the afternoon?
    • Would you like to film our sex on a video camera?
    • What is the sexiest fantasy you have?
    • Do you get butterflies in your stomach?
    • Do you often dream that you are having sex?
    • What part of my body do you think is the sexiest?
    • Can you guess which part of your body seems to me the sexiest?
    • Which actor/actress do you think is the sexiest?
    • Do you like having sex in the shower?
    • What color bed linen makes you think about sex?
    • Can you tell me your most erotic dream?
    • How often do you have erotic dreams?
    • Do you remember when you had your first wet dream?
    • At what age did you start menstruating?
    • Do you have painful periods?
    • What little things remind you of me?
    • What is your favorite/least sexual position?
    • What piece of literature or music excites you? Is there such a work?
    • Have you ever drawn sexual graffiti or written obscene graffiti in public toilets?
    • Do you like it when I kiss you right here?
    • Where is your favorite kissing spot?
    • What is the most obscene joke you know?
    • Do you like dirty jokes?
    • How do you see our erotic vacation?
    • Have you ever been caught masturbating?
    • What outfits do you find the most erotic? Are there such outfits?
    • Do you like lacy underwear? Do you find it erotic?
    • Do you like noisy sex with oohs and aahs?
    • Do you want to try silent sex? We will both remain silent.
    • Do you want to try sex in the kitchen?
    • What is your favorite underwear color?
    • can you describe to me the best orgasm you ever had?
    • Have you experienced multiple orgasms?
    • Do you know your erogenous zones?
    • What is your most sensitive area?
    • Do you have any secret sexual desire that I am not yet aware of?
    • Are you turned on by thin or fat people?
    • How do you feel about tantric sex?
    • Do you want to have sex with me while watching porn?
    • What color do you associate our sex with?
    • Do you get tired after sex?
    • What is the longest time you have gone without sex?
    • Does cycling turn you on?
    • Have you ever had sex in a car?
    • Do you like quick sex between times?
    • Would you like to have sex on a plane or train?
    • What is your sexiest memory?
    • Would you like to go to a real sex shop with me?
    • How do you feel about porn literature?
    • Do you want to have a romantic dinner and then have wild sex?
    • Do you want me to read pornographic stories to you?
    • Would you like to have sex in the water?
    • Do you have any sex fetish?
    • Would you like to sexting with me?
    • What is the longest orgasm you have?
    • The shortest orgasm?
    • What method of contraception do you consider the most reliable and safe?
    • Do you think penis size matters?
    • Do you like touching my nipples?
    • Do you want me to lick your nipple?
    • Do you like it when I touch your nipples?
    • Can you describe great sex?
    • Do you have a favorite lubricant?
    • Do you want to be called by some secret sexual nickname during sex?
    • Do you like to call names during sex?
    • Do you like playing with ice during sex?
    • Do you have an appetite after sex?
    • Would you like to try nipple clamps?
    • What do you think is the best food after sex?
    • Do you enjoy having sex after a big meal or on an empty stomach?
    • Do you like being photographed in the nude?
    • Do you like long hugs after sex?
    • How do you feel about anal sex?
    • Do you like to bite?
    • Do you want me to bite you?
    • Do you want soft or hot sex?
    • What part of your body is best to bite on?
    • Be honest: what turns you on the most during sex?
    • Do you want us to exchange sexy photos (sexting)?
    • Do you like being dripped with hot wax from a candle? Want to try?
    • Do you like netaymori?
    • Would you like to try eating sushi off my chest?
    • Will you let me eat sushi off your chest?
    • Would you like to get a good look at my genitals?
    • Do you like it when I crawl on all fours naked?
    • Would you like to try a vibrator?

    Conversation is a real art. It needs to be constantly sharpened. "Home-made blanks" help to revive it, make it more meaningful and interesting.

    The truth and nothing but the truth

    You can know a person all your life, and then be shocked by what he "stranged". It's the same in relationships. It seems that the beloved will no longer present anything new, and his character has already become familiar and predictable. But people tend to change. And even after many years, previously unknown habits or preferences can be found in a partner.

    That is why asking questions is sometimes useful in order to understand with whom you live this life. And for young guys and girls, such an “interrogation” can show compatibility in different areas. The result may surprise: both pleasant and unpleasant. The answers may affect the feelings between the partners, but it is better to know the truth.

    Such a “game” is perfect for the acquaintance stage. After some facts are revealed, you can decide whether to go on a date and start any kind of relationship. Asking questions is a great way to start a conversation, discuss important topics, and test how close you can become to each other.

    For couples who are in long-term relationships and even married, this experiment can be just an excuse to have fun. A man and a woman are already, as a rule, quite close and love each other. Therefore, they can ask anything, without fear that they have climbed too deep into the soul.

    Interlocutors will always have something to tell each other. Some questions never even cross our minds, despite their simplicity and obviousness. For example, probably everyone asked a question about their favorite book. But there was no need to ask about the longest orgasm. And questions like these make getting to know each other even more interesting.

    Such a pastime can be offered to your partner as a desire to have fun, but if he doesn't want to, there's no need to force him. In general, this can be a great help, not only to dilute communication or learn new facts. Intimate life can also become more interesting if fantasies come up in the answers.

    Joint exploration brings each other very close. The conversation can take a very interesting turn. And your relationship can change in one way or another. But if there is love between you, then there is absolutely nothing to fear and fear. Take such an experiment for granted, and do not take even the most tricky questions seriously.

    If you want to play, but have absolutely no idea what to ask, then a selection of the best questions for every taste from this article can help. You can ask them in order or by choosing random ones - those that catch your eye. It is important that both are ready for this and want to have fun, enjoying every minute with your loved one.

    Questions for a guy about sex: intimate questions for a girl

    Asking a guy about sex is one of the most difficult questions in communication. Many girls find it easier to discuss intimate matters with their girlfriends than with the guy they are going to marry. This happens for several reasons:

    1. This is not accepted in her society.
    2. Shyness or shame.
    3. Fear of being misunderstood by one's chosen one.

    But discussing intimate matters or each other's expectations is essential to a healthy relationship. This can save the couple from unpleasant surprises in marriage. Through such an open discussion of intimate issues, trust, openness and feelings of deep intimacy are built between future spouses. For this purpose, a list of questions was specially developed.

    Intimate sex questions collected and updated in 2019year, do not go beyond small talk. Therefore, they do not contain frankly vulgar questions. Rather, it is a new, more trusting form of communication between people in love.

    Questions to a guy about sex that build confidence

    1. Is any kind of intimate relationship acceptable among spouses?
    2. Should spouses be interested in each other's sexual preferences?
    3. Does a wife have the right to refuse her husband that kind of sexual intimacy that is contrary to her conscience or upbringing? Could this be the cause of a breakup or divorce?
    4. Does a husband have the right to insist on a form of sex that is disgusting to his wife?
    5. Is sexual relations a necessary proof of love for a dating couple or not? Should a girl refuse a guy such a proof of her feelings or not? In your opinion, is this correct or not?
    6. Should a girl talk to a guy about intimate topics or ask him questions about sex?
    7. If a girl refuses to have sex with a guy before marriage, what are her chances of continuing the relationship?
    8. Spouses need to negotiate or even make some kind of agreement about marital sexual relations, for example, the frequency or types of sexual relations, caresses?
    9. Is it permissible in a relationship to manipulate each other using sexual relations? (We recommend that you learn more about the manipulation of men and women manipulators in relationships).
    10. What does it mean in intimate relationships to think about your wife, husband?
    11. Can a wife's attitude towards sex affect her husband's feelings towards her?
    12. How far can a couple in love go in intimate caresses?
    13. Does sex or lack of it affect health?
    14. Are experiments allowed in a couple's sexual life or not?
    15. How often should spouses have intimate relationships?

    Intimate questions for a girl

    1. What are you most ashamed of in future intimate relationships with your husband?
    2. Will you let your boyfriend "dissolve" before marriage?
    3. What is your ideal wedding night?
    4. Should a couple watch pornography for a change?
    5. When you find out about the betrayal of your loved one, what will you do: will you take revenge on him in the same way, will you forgive or divorce?
    6. What is your attitude towards oral sex?
    7. Should a man ask his wife about her sexual preferences?
    8. Sex in marriage should be within the limits of some rules or can the boundaries be pushed?
    9. In your opinion, what is the expression of a man's sexuality?
    10. What does being close to a man mean to you?
    11. Is it necessary to find out how many sexual partners each other has had before, or how “rich” the sexual experience is?

    Intimate questions for a guy

    1. Ready to accept the fact that after the birth of children your wife may lose the need for intimate relationships?
    2. What do you like most about me?
    3. Does it matter to you whether your chosen one is a virgin or not?
    4. How quickly should a couple enter into an intimate relationship after meeting: a week, a month or before marriage is it better to abstain?
    5. What should a woman never do?
    6. What will remain in our relationship if we remove only physical attraction and sexual desire?
    7. How often should sex be present for a happy couple?
    8. Do you like kissing or hugging more?
    9. How long should it take before the first sex?
    10. What do you do when faced with intimate harassment from a woman?
    11. What does sex addiction mean? Do men suffer from this or not?
    12. Will having an engagement ring stop you from flirting?
    13. What should a girl/wife do so that a man does not leave her?
    14. Can a couple be happy and satisfied with intimacy without sexual experience?
    15. Have you ever wanted to be intimate with an artist, singer or other celebrity? Why did such a desire arise?

    Advice : questions about sex to a guy, just like intimate questions to a girl, do not need to be asked all at once in one evening. It is much better to learn each other's opinion on these matters gradually.

    Sexual questions for a guy, a girl, which you must definitely ask each other

    1. What should be done so that passion does not disappear in intimate relationships of spouses over time?
    2. Is foreplay before a couple's sexual relationship obligatory or not?
    3. What type of man/woman do you consider the sexiest?
    4. Are there any phrases that men want to hear during sexual relations?
    5. Is it normal for a couple to initiate an intimate relationship with a woman and not a man?
    6. Do you like looking at yourself naked in the mirror?
    7. What excites men in women?
    8. Who should explain intimate questions to children? What will you do if your child turns to you with the question “where do children come from”?
    9. What is your attitude to the fact that spouses bring to public discussion the issues of sex between them?
    10. Can there be love without passion?
    11. Is there a difference between love, sex and romance? How would you define these three things?
    12. Does a wife have the right to leave her husband if he likes to talk about his relationship with his wife to his colleagues at work?
    13. At what age can a girl or is it time to enter into an intimate relationship? What is the decisive factor in this decision: age, position, feelings, views, principles or someone's opinion?
    14. It is obligatory for a girl to answer a guy's question, did she have sexual relations with men before or not? Is it better to leave the guy in the dark, deceive him, or tell him honestly?
    15. If your wife loses attraction and often refuses intimacy, will this affect your attitude towards her?

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    Asking a guy about sex and intimate relationships

    1. Should newlyweds before marriage and intimate relationships have to donate blood for analysis? If your girlfriend asks you about it, will it offend you or not?
    2. How do you feel about holiday romance or workplace romance?
    3. When can women discourage any "hunt" from men?
    4. Would you allow your girlfriend to post naughty pictures of himself on social media?
    5. Why do many men not resist the temptation of a beautiful seductress, especially when there is no wife around?
    6. Do you watch or have you watched pornography?
    7. Can pornography hook a man, be dangerous for him?
    8. Why do many men watch pornography? Do you think there is any harm in watching pornography?
    9. Can pornography affect a marriage?
    10. Can you forgive your wife after learning about her infidelity?
    11. What should be done to avoid cheating in marriage?
    12. Have you ever had a venereal disease?
    13. Ever bought a woman's "love"?
    14. Are my clothes revealing or not?
    15. What is your attitude towards female and male homosexuality?
    16. What is more important for a happy relationship: sex, communication, or the amount of time spent with each other?
    17. Are you a virgin or not?
    18. If a partner puts on weight, will this affect sexual relations?
    19. Why do men take lovers?
    20. What will you do when you find out about your partner's unplanned pregnancy?

    Questions to a girl and a guy on an intimate topic about sex

    1. Is it necessary to adapt to each other in sexual relations or not?
    2. What women's accessories do you find absolutely irresistible?
    3. Should a man count on forgiveness from his wife who found out about his infidelity? (We recommend reading a few tips on how to forgive your husband's infidelity and move on with your life?)
    4. Have you ever sent sexual texts to a girl?
    5. What do you like most about girls?
    6. Does a woman's figure affect a man's sexual desire?
    7. What is your view on abortion? Are there reasons to justify it or are you categorically against it?
    8. What is your attitude towards a woman who artificially feeds her child in order to preserve beautiful breasts for a loved one?
    9. Are you ashamed of your naked body?
    10. Should couples always shower before having sex?
    11. Do you have erotic dreams?
    12. What helps you cope with your sexual desires?
    13. In sex between spouses, what matters most?
    14. What is your idea of ​​an ideal sex life for a couple?
    15. Should spouses use contraceptives?


    Curiosity knows no bounds when it comes to intimate matters, as sexual relations are an important aspect of most marriages.

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