Things to ask in a conversation

166 Conversation Starters For Virtually Any Situation

A good conversation starter can transform an awkward, stilted conversation into an interesting, enjoyable discussion.

That's important in sales, as having several conversation starters up your sleeve will help you form connections with prospects, referrals, and potential partners. In other words, your ability to start a conversation translates to real business.

Take a look at our list of 166 conversation starters and find your favorite one-liner to kick start your next conversation.

Conversation Topics

Conversation Starters to Use at a Conference

Conversation Starters to Use at an Industry Event

Conversation Starters to Use at a Networking Happy Hour

Conversation Starters to Use at a Social Event

Questions to Start a Conversation

General Conversation Starters

What's the most interesting thing you've read lately?
What's a fact about you that's not on the internet?
Do you listen to any podcasts? Which ones?
If you were in charge of the playlist, which song would you play next?
What's the best gift you've ever gotten?
What's your favorite part about living in [city]? Least favorite?
Are there any common misconceptions about your job?
Why did you come tonight?
If you had to sum up this event in three words, which would they be?
Are there any upcoming events you're planning on going to?
What conference — real or imaginary — would you absolutely hate to miss?
If you were giving a presentation, what would the topic be?
Great [shoes/haircut/shirt]! Where'd you get it?
I'm trying to plan my next trip — have you traveled anywhere interesting lately?

What makes a good conversation starter? While there isn't an exact formula, you can tailor your questions for different situations. For instance, the conversation starters you use with your friends will differ from, say, your boss.

Here are the common types of questions:

Open-ended: A broad, open-ended question typically generates a far more engaging answer than a closed, yes-or-no one.
Non-routine: Breaking out of the standard weather and job-related questions will jolt the person you're talking to out of autopilot. You'll also make yourself more memorable.
Professional: Some topics are more suited for your friends and family than strangers or near-strangers. Your questions should never make your conversational partner uncomfortable.
Relevant: If you can, start a conversation about something timely or specific, such as your location, event, industry, jobs, or current interests. The other person will find it easier to contribute.

Conversation Topics

So, you want to start a conversation. But what should you talk about? Here are some topics to kick off a conversation.

Events

If you're attending a conference or event, you can ask questions about the event itself, its location, your industry, the other person's objectives, what they've learned, and more.

Industries

At an industry event, talk about the latest news or technology in your industry. Ask how your industry is evolving, and what changes people are most excited about.

Technology

Is a person using a phone, tablet, or electronic device you're interested in? Ask them about it.

Content

Ask if they recommend any books, blogs, podcasts, or videos. You might find a mutual interest that you can talk about.

Fun Facts

Start conversations about where they work, their favorite food and restaurants in the area, or chat about something they learned recently. Fun facts are ideal for networking events or happy hours.

To start great conversations, borrow from this list of 166 conversation starters.

Conversation Starters to Use at a Conference

Conferences are chock-full of opportunities to ask thought-provoking, relevant, and engaging questions. You can discuss the specific event, its location, your industry, the other person's objectives, what they've learned, and more.

Keith Grehan, an account manager in HubSpot's Dublin office says:

"I approach conference introductions the same way I approach outbound calls, by having a reason to call/initiate the conversation. Ideally, I'd know something about the prospect, their company and the challenge/hot topics in their industry and use that as a jumping off point. If, however, I was at an event and didn't have a chance to complete prior research, I introduce myself and ask, ‘What are you hoping to get from the day?' It's a great place to start."

Which [speaker/panel] are you most excited for?
Which [speaker/panel] did you most enjoy? Which did you find the most useful?
If you could meet one speaker from this event, who would it be?
If you could have your entire company watch a single session from this event, which would it be?
If you were giving a presentation, what would the topic be?
How does this conference compare to others you've attended?
If you were running this conference, what would you do differently?
What did you think of the talk [length, structure, style]?
Have you gone to this conference before? What's changed?
What's the most surprising thing you've learned? (If the conference isn't over, add "so far?")

Why did you decide to attend?
Are you planning on coming back next year?
Are you here with other people? Do you prefer going to conferences solo or with a group?
Are you doing any non-conference activities while you're here? (Alternatively: "Did you fit in any non-conference activities?")
Is this your first time in [city]? What do you think of it?
Are you from the area? (If yes: "Do you have any [food, museum, shopping, music] recommendations?" If no: "Where are you from?")
Do you think the conference could benefit from being a day [shorter, longer]? Why?
I wonder how many people would have attended this conference eight years ago — what do you think?
I wonder how many people will attend this conference in eight years — what do you think?
Do you go to a lot of conferences?
What's the first conference you ever attended?
Would your company ever host a conference? (Or if they're from a large organization: "Does your company host conferences?")
What conference — real or imaginary — would you absolutely hate to miss?
Do you think [industry] needs more conferences? Less?
What's the primary reason you chose to attend [conference name]?
Do you have any plans to explore [city]?
What's your biggest takeaway from [speaker/panel]?
Will you come back to this event next year?
Have you met/seen any of the speakers before?

Conversation Starters to Use at an Industry Event

Attending a highly specific event like a forum comes with some advantages. For one, you usually have a pretty good sense of which roles and interests the other attendees hold. When you're blanking on topics, use this information.

Have you been to any events hosted by [organizer] before?
Why'd you decide to come to this forum?
Is [theme of event] a major professional focus of yours?
Why do you think they chose this specific theme?
By any chance, have you read anything good about [theme of event]?
Do you attend any other forums?
Are there any upcoming events you're planning on going to?
Had you heard of [speaker] before this?
Why do you think they chose [speaker]?
Have you ever organized an event like this? What surprised you about running the scenes?
If you could only remember one fact or insight from this [morning, afternoon, evening], what would it be?
What were your thoughts on [specific point speaker made]?
Do you have any predictions for how the discussion will go? (Or if the event is wrapping up: "Did the discussion meet your expectations?")
You look so familiar! Did you go to [previous event]?
What are your favorite and least favorite things about working in [industry]?
How long have you been in [industry]? Have there been any significant changes since you entered this space?
If you could spend an entire day talking to any expert in our industry, who would it be?
If you were in charge of this forum, and you had an unlimited budget, what would you do differently?
Did you disagree with any of the points made?
Did this event change how you think about [industry] and/or your role in [industry]?
Do you frequently go to these types of events?
How'd you learn about this forum?
I'm in the market for a new [phone, computer, notebook, etc. ], and I noticed you're using an [iPhone 12, Moleskine notebook, etc.] — would you recommend it?
If you had to sum up this event in three words, which would they be?
What new projects do you have lined up?
Which skills in [industry] do you think will be most in demand in the next five years?
Do you listen to any [industry]-specific podcasts?
Where do you like to get your [industry]-related news?

Conversation Starters to Use at a Networking Happy Hour

Socializing with strangers who already express an interest in connecting is always a little easier — or at least, more relaxed — at the end of the day. And, in the case that the majority of attendees are local, you've got a ton of built-in questions about the city, how long they've lived here, what they like to do in the area, and so on at your disposal.

As a general rule, your questions should be a little lighter than the ones you'd use at a conference or speaker event. Happy hours are for mixing work and play, so match your tone accordingly.

Grehan has advice for those preparing for networking happy hours as well. He says:

"At a happy hour, it's important to be more informal. People have had a long day of research and attending seminars, so having someone open with a different topic than the event or what they do for a living can be a breath of fresh air. If anything funny happened or if something didn't go well during the event, a joke about it is a good opener -- nothing brings people together like complaining after a long day!"

What's keeping you busy lately?
Did you come here from work?
What's your favorite part about living in [city]? Least favorite?
What do you think of this venue?
If you could only attend one type of networking function for the rest of your life, would you choose breakfasts or happy hours?
Have you tried any of the food? What's good?
What did you get done today?
Why did you come tonight?
How long have you lived in [city]?
Why did you move to [city]?
Do you think [city] is a place most people move to, or from?
Where did you move to [city] from? What do you miss about your last town — and what were you happy to leave behind?
If you could recommend only one [restaurant, coffee shop, bar] in [city], which one would you choose?

As [day of the week]s go, how was yours? (For example, "Did you have a good Monday, as Mondays go?")
At this time on a typical [day of the week], what would you be doing?
I have a semi-important decision to make, and I'd love your input: Should I have [appetizer #1] or [appetizer #2]?
I just learned "happy hours" were invented in the 1920s on naval ships. To make sea life a little less boring, sailors got daily breaks for wrestling and boxing matches. Do you prefer the modern or original version?
If you could only eat one thing for the rest of your life, what would you choose?
What's the last new skill you learned?
Are there any skills you thought would be crucial to your job that turned out to be unimportant?
Are there any common misconceptions about your job?
I read an article claiming nowadays everyone has a side project (or four). Do you agree? Are you working on anything on the side?
Wow, I see a lot of phones out — the email addiction is real! Do you think your company could survive if your CEO banned internal email?
Do you think you're the only [title] in the room?
If someone was making a movie about your current job, what genre would it be? What would they call it?
I love your [tie/bracelet/shoe/attire]! Where did you get it from?
What would you be doing at this time on a normal day?
It's nice to meet you. How has your day been?
Wow, that drink looks good. What is it?
What a great place for an event, right? Have you ever been here before?

Conversation Starters to Use at a Social Event

You might not think of your friend's BBQ or neighbor's block party as prime networking events — but as the most successful reps know, great sales opportunities can appear in unlikely places.

However, steer away from job, career, or industry-related questions. Since you're at a social event, less serious subjects are far more appropriate (and fun). Building rapport is your primary mission — after the party, you can figure out which new connections might benefit from your product.

If you were in charge of the playlist, which song would you play next?
You look like you could be in [random occupation]. Am I anywhere close?
If there was $200 at stake, would you be willing to prepare the food using only lunch meat, the contents of the freezer, and basic kitchen staples?
Have you tried any of the [appetizers, drinks, sides, etc. ]? Any recommendations?
Do you have a signature drink? (Gesture to their glass.)
Is your [day/night] going like you expected?
Do you prefer hosting events or attending them?
Games at parties: Yay, or nay? Why?
Are you a cat or dog person? Do you have any pets?
If you had to switch outfits with one person here, who would it be?
Do you know most of the people here?
If you could invite anyone to this party and they were guaranteed to show up, who would you ask?
I'm trying to plan my next trip — have you traveled anywhere interesting lately?
What do you think are the top three ingredients for a successful party?
Would you rather only host fancy dinner parties or theme parties for the rest of your life?
Great [shoes/haircut/shirt]! Where'd you get it?
What are you reading?
Are there any Netflix/Hulu/television series you'd recommend?
If you were stuck on a desert island with four items of your choice from this room, what would you bring?
What's the last movie you saw in theaters? Was it worth the trip?
What do you not do? (Smile while you ask to show you're being humorous. )
Have you been to any great restaurants lately?
Where's your favorite vacation spot?
Got any fun plans for the weekend? I need some inspiration so I don't end up on the couch with some Netflix and Ben & Jerry's.
Gryffindor, Ravenclaw, Hufflepuff, or Slytherin?
Did you fulfill your childhood dream?
What's the best gift you've ever gotten? My friend's birthday is coming up and I'd love some ideas.
Are you looking forward to anything in the next few weeks?
Are you looking forward to anything in the next few weeks?
How do you know the host?
Are you keeping up with [sports team/TV show/news] recently?
Have you tried any new restaurants lately?
[For couples] How did you two meet?
Are you having a good time?

Questions to Start a Conversation

Sometimes, a simple introduction is the best way to proceed. But, then what? Open-ended questions are your friend, in these situations. Sales expert, and author of "Networking in the 21st Century," David J.P. Fisher explains his strategy for navigating professional gatherings:

"The most powerful way to start a conversation at industry events is the simplest: introduce yourself! Simply saying, ‘Hi, my name is ______' invites them to respond with their name, and now you have a conversation. It helps to have an open-ended question for follow up after that. Something like, ‘What do you think of the event so far?' or ‘Which has been your favorite session?' works well."

What's the most interesting thing you've read lately?
How many days do you think it takes you to scroll a mile on your phone? One day? One week?
What's a fact about you that's not on the internet?
If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?
Do you have a go-to conversation starter for these types of events? What is it?
Which blogs do you read?
Do you listen to any podcasts? Which ones?
You remind me of a celebrity, but I'm having trouble remembering their name… Whom are you normally compared to?
Did you hear about the trend of dinner party hosts banning small talk? Would you ever try that?
Would you recommend the last documentary you watched? Why or why not?
What's something in your industry you consider underrated?
What are your company's unique traditions?
If you could only [read, watch, listen to] one genre of [books, shows, music] for the rest of your life, which would it be?
On what topic do people always come to you with questions?
If you could spend one month at any period in the past — and you were guaranteed not to suffer any harm or change the course of history -- when would it be?
If you weren't in [X profession], which one would you be in?
Who was your childhood hero?
Do you have a secret talent?
What's the best event freebie you've ever gotten?
If you could publish a book on any subject, what would it be?
Let's say you could invite any three people in [industry, role, organization] to dinner. Who would you ask?
What's the last thing you learned outside of work?
How do you feel about unlimited vacation policies? Do you think they work as intended?
What's one company perk you'd love to have?
Have you taken any professional development courses lately?
If you could be a fly on the wall for a C-suite meeting at any company, which company would it be?
Do you prefer working remotely or in-person — and why?
What's one thing you'd love to be an expert at?
If there were no dress code, how would you dress for work?
Tell me about the best boss you ever had — what made them so great?
What’s the quality that people admire most about you?
What is one non-work related goal that you would like to achieve in the next five years?
Suppose you get to redecorate the conference room — what would you do?

The Ultimate Conversation Starter

Last but not least, the ultimate networking question that you can ask anyone, anywhere, anytime:

What do you love about what you do?

This question gives people the chance to dig into their passions — automatically putting them in a good mood and making them more likely to enjoy your conversation. Plus, it's a fresh twist on an old standby. You'll instantly stand out from the hordes of other people making small talk.

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Even if you’re the most extroverted person out there, chatting it up with new acquaintances doesn’t always happen as naturally as you might think. A good question or topic is key to making connections and starting conversations.

Also, be sure to show genuine interest when listening to responses. It will help the conversation flow and give you ideas for follow up questions once the conversation begins.

Whether you’re at a casual party, a business function or somewhere in between, here are 50 conversation starters that will help get your social gears in motion.

Conversation Topics That Will Work Anywhere

These topics will work everywhere, from the company picnic to your nephew’s birthday party. One tip: If you’re asking someone a question, be sure to have your answer ready to go.

Tell me about yourself. This open-ended conversation starter is perfect because it invites the other person to reveal as much (or as little) about themselves as they want.
What’s been the best part of your day so far? A great way to keep things positive — even if the person has had a terrible day, they’ll be able to find something good to say about it.
What do you do to relax? Almost everyone needs a little more relaxation these days. In addition to helping you get to know the other person better, asking this question may help you find some new tips to unwind.
What book are you reading right now? If they haven’t had time for reading lately, ask them to share the last great book they read or what titles are on their list for the future.
What’s your favorite thing about your hometown? A great follow up question to “Where are you from?” this conversation starter will get the memories flowing and may even give you some great recommendations if you are ever passing through town.
What’s the last thing you bought online that you really loved? Besides helping you get to know the other person, this topic might help you find your next great online purchase.
What would be your perfect weekend? Some people love to spend their weekends unwinding, while others pack tons of plans into those 48 hours. This question is also a good way to find out the other person’s hobbies and what they do for fun.
What’s something (besides your phone) that you take with you everywhere? You may find out about a person’s lucky charm, a sentimental photo or some other meaningful piece of memorabilia.
What’s the last great show you binged? If you both watch television, you’re likely to find something in common with this topic. You might even get a recommendation for your next favorite show.
If you started a business, what kind would it be? Tap into people’s entrepreneurial spirit with this topic, which could lead to more follow-up conversation if the person has a business already or is planning to open one soon.
What’s your favorite season and why? A great alternative to “Wow, it’s ____ outside today,” this topic invites the other person to talk about their preferred temperature, climate, holidays and more.
Have you seen that viral video/meme? An easy way to get the conversation going is to mention a video or meme that’s recently gone viral. Since almost everyone spends at least some amount of time on their phone these days, the other person is likely to have at least heard of it.
What’s your hidden talent? You’re sure to find out some fun facts about people with this question. From juggling to skateboarding to braiding hair, you never know what talents someone may have.

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At a Party

Parties are a great chance to flex your conversational muscles. You’ll likely have varying degrees of familiarity with your fellow party guests, so these conversation tips will help you deepen your connection. Who knows? You may leave the party upgraded from acquaintances to friends.

How do you know the host/hostess? This will help you immediately make a connection with another partygoer since you have at least one friend in common. Finding out how they know the host and sharing stories about your mutual friend will help you feel closer in no time.
Did you come to this party last year? This works great for a birthday party or other annual event.
What are you drinking? Whether it’s alcohol, soda, or just water, this question will likely open up a larger dialogue. Be prepared to follow up with questions like “Is it good?” and “Have you had it before?”
What’s your favorite restaurant around here? Especially relevant if you’re in a different part of town, this question will get the conversation going and potentially give you some great recommendations for the future.
What did you get the birthday girl/guy? If It’s a birthday party and the guests have brought gifts, this question is a sure-fire way to start chatting. You may even find out something new about your friend the host.
Who is your favorite singer/actor/sports personality? Depending on the context of your party, this topic may work well organically (if there’s live music or a sports/game element, for example), and could start a fun debate.
Have you tried _____ (food)? If there’s food at the party, asking fellow partygoers what they think of the spread is a great way to start chatting. If it’s a potluck, ask people what they brought, how they made it, etc.
What’s the best birthday gift you’ve ever received? This one will get the memories going — have fun getting nostalgic thinking about birthdays gone by.

At a Work Event

Conferences, after work happy hours, the break room at lunch — there are so many work-related places where you might find yourself having a conversation with a coworker. Here are a few tips to help you make connections and extend your network.

How long have you worked here? This invites the other person to share a little about their history with the company and is a great chance for you to find out something new.
What’s your favorite part of your job? It can be tempting to complain about work when coworkers get together; keeping the conversation positive will go a long way to uplift your team.
Are you working on any personal passion projects right now? Take a break from shop talk and let the other person tell you about their interests outside the office.
What are you going to do this weekend? Find out someone’s weekend plans and you’ll get to know them on a deeper level. Are they going for a hike or kicking it on the couch? This topic also lends itself well to follow-up questions (Where’s your favorite hiking trail? What show are you binging?).
What did you want to be when you grew up? This is a great topic for workplace events because you can follow up with questions about elements of their career that apply to their childhood dream job.
What would be your dream vacation? Find out how they’d like to use those PTO days (and get some recommendations for future vacations for yourself).
Do you consider yourself organized? Whether they’re obsessed with order or thrive in messy chaos, this topic will help you get to know the person on a deeper level.
How do you measure your success? This open-ended question will help make a more substantial connection. You could follow up by asking who are some of the most successful people they know, and how others can get to that level.

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On a Date

A date — especially a first date — can be the holy grail of awkward chit-chat. Use these tips to keep the conversation flowing.

What’s the last thing that made you laugh out loud? The only thing people love more than laughing is making others laugh. This conversation starter also gives an opening for people to show you a hilarious video or share a memory that you can giggle about together.
What was your first car? Is there anything more nostalgic than a person’s first car? Whether it’s laughably embarrassing or impossibly cool, they’ll almost certainly want to share a story about their first set of wheels.
What person in your life brings you the most joy? A perfect chance to talk about their mom, grandfather or other beloved family member or friend, this topic is sure to lead to more conversation as your date shares stories about the person they love.
Do you have any tattoos? People usually love sharing the stories behind their tattoos. Or if they don’t have any, they’ll probably be happy to explain why.
Do you have any pets? What are their names? Get to know whether they’re a dog or cat person (or reptile or bird!) and find out the meaning behind Fido’s name.
What were you obsessed with when you were a child? Dinosaurs, monster trucks, Barbies — every kid has an obsession and finding out your date’s childhood interests might help you learn more about them as an adult.
What’s your most controversial opinion? People love giving “hot takes. ” Find out your date’s ultimate controversial opinion and be ready to share your own point of view on the topic, doing your best to reach understanding if you don’t agree.
What’s the most annoying habit a person can have? Bond over shared annoyance with this topic (or find out if you have the habit they hate).
What are you going to order? If you’re at a restaurant, bar, coffee shop or anywhere else with a menu, this easy conversation starter is sure to get the other person chatting. Plus you’ll figure out the vibe of the date (i.e. cocktails and apps or a beer and a huge steak).
Where’s the most beautiful place you’ve ever been? This question works well for travelers and homebodies alike. A citizen of the world might tell you about an exotic foreign locale while a less-traveled person might tell you about a particularly special area close to their hometown. Either way, the conversation is sure to flow.

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With Children

If you don’t have children of your own or aren’t around kids often, it can feel daunting to try to chat with them. But the truth is most children love to talk to grownups, especially about a topic that interests them. Bust out these ideas at your next child’s birthday party or sporting event.

What’s your favorite dinosaur? Of course, not every child likes dinosaurs or knows enough about them to have a favorite. But many of them do, and if they don’t, they’ll be happy to tell you something else they do like. Be ready to follow up with “How about planets?” or any other child-friendly topic.
Do you have any brothers or sisters? Family is a favorite topic for most kids since they spend all their time together. This is especially true if they have a new baby in the house and are getting used to their older sibling status. Be sure to follow up with “Are they older or younger?” and “What do you like to do together?”
What show are you watching right now? Kids love to talk about their favorite shows, which they likely watch over and over. Ask why they like that show and what is their favorite episode.
What food would you eat every day if you could? A fun alternative to “what’s your favorite food,” this topic will likely bring some hilarious answers. You can follow up with questions like “What kind of candy?” and “How many bowls of mac and cheese could you eat in one sitting?”
What’s your favorite color? What about your brother’s favorite color? If there’s one thing kids catch onto early, it’s their favorite color. And they likely know the preferred hue for their family and close friends.
What are you going to do for your birthday this year? Don’t worry if their birthday has already passed or they aren’t doing anything big. Kids love to talk about their grandiose birthday plans — even if they will never happen. This topic also lends itself well to follow up questions like “What kind of cake will you have?” and “Who are you going to invite?”
What’s your favorite subject in school? For kids, school is their full-time job. It’s where they spend lots of their time and mental energy, so they should have plenty to talk about. Follow up with questions about why they like that particular subject and which subjects are not on their list.
What’s your favorite animal? Kids have strong opinions about their favorite animals, whether they are real or imaginary. You can keep the conversation going with follow-up questions about favorite animals that are pets, live at the zoo, live in the ocean and more.
What’s your favorite room in your house and why? To kids, home is their playground and safe space, so they will likely love to chat about it. You could ask more questions about their favorite toys, books and things to do outside.
Which TV show or movie would you want to come true in real life? Whether they’d like their favorite cartoon animal to come alive or live in a castle like a movie princess, kids are sure to have lots of opinions on this one.
What’s your favorite song? Get ready to listen to them sing it!

No matter what kind of event you’re attending, these questions and topics are sure to get the conversation going. Happy chatting!

Sarah Pryor is a journalist, wife, mom and Auburn football fan living in Charlotte, N.C.

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Also, be sure to show genuine interest when listening to responses. It will help the conversation flow and give you ideas for follow up questions once the conversation begins.

Whether you’re at a casual party, a business function or somewhere in between, here are 50 conversation starters that will help get your social gears in motion.

Conversation Topics That Will Work Anywhere

These topics will work everywhere, from the company picnic to your nephew’s birthday party. One tip: If you’re asking someone a question, be sure to have your answer ready to go.

Tell me about yourself. This open-ended conversation starter is perfect because it invites the other person to reveal as much (or as little) about themselves as they want.
What’s been the best part of your day so far? A great way to keep things positive — even if the person has had a terrible day, they’ll be able to find something good to say about it.
What do you do to relax? Almost everyone needs a little more relaxation these days. In addition to helping you get to know the other person better, asking this question may help you find some new tips to unwind.
What book are you reading right now? If they haven’t had time for reading lately, ask them to share the last great book they read or what titles are on their list for the future.
What’s your favorite thing about your hometown? A great follow up question to “Where are you from?” this conversation starter will get the memories flowing and may even give you some great recommendations if you are ever passing through town.
What’s the last thing you bought online that you really loved? Besides helping you get to know the other person, this topic might help you find your next great online purchase.
What would be your perfect weekend? Some people love to spend their weekends unwinding, while others pack tons of plans into those 48 hours. This question is also a good way to find out the other person’s hobbies and what they do for fun.
What’s something (besides your phone) that you take with you everywhere? You may find out about a person’s lucky charm, a sentimental photo or some other meaningful piece of memorabilia.
What’s the last great show you binged? If you both watch television, you’re likely to find something in common with this topic. You might even get a recommendation for your next favorite show.
If you started a business, what kind would it be? Tap into people’s entrepreneurial spirit with this topic, which could lead to more follow-up conversation if the person has a business already or is planning to open one soon.
What’s your favorite season and why? A great alternative to “Wow, it’s ____ outside today,” this topic invites the other person to talk about their preferred temperature, climate, holidays and more.
Have you seen that viral video/meme? An easy way to get the conversation going is to mention a video or meme that’s recently gone viral. Since almost everyone spends at least some amount of time on their phone these days, the other person is likely to have at least heard of it.
What’s your hidden talent? You’re sure to find out some fun facts about people with this question. From juggling to skateboarding to braiding hair, you never know what talents someone may have.

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At a Party

How do you know the host/hostess? This will help you immediately make a connection with another partygoer since you have at least one friend in common. Finding out how they know the host and sharing stories about your mutual friend will help you feel closer in no time.
Did you come to this party last year? This works great for a birthday party or other annual event.
What are you drinking? Whether it’s alcohol, soda, or just water, this question will likely open up a larger dialogue. Be prepared to follow up with questions like “Is it good?” and “Have you had it before?”
What’s your favorite restaurant around here? Especially relevant if you’re in a different part of town, this question will get the conversation going and potentially give you some great recommendations for the future.
What did you get the birthday girl/guy? If It’s a birthday party and the guests have brought gifts, this question is a sure-fire way to start chatting. You may even find out something new about your friend the host.
Who is your favorite singer/actor/sports personality? Depending on the context of your party, this topic may work well organically (if there’s live music or a sports/game element, for example), and could start a fun debate.
Have you tried _____ (food)? If there’s food at the party, asking fellow partygoers what they think of the spread is a great way to start chatting. If it’s a potluck, ask people what they brought, how they made it, etc.
What’s the best birthday gift you’ve ever received? This one will get the memories going — have fun getting nostalgic thinking about birthdays gone by.

At a Work Event

How long have you worked here? This invites the other person to share a little about their history with the company and is a great chance for you to find out something new.
What’s your favorite part of your job? It can be tempting to complain about work when coworkers get together; keeping the conversation positive will go a long way to uplift your team.
Are you working on any personal passion projects right now? Take a break from shop talk and let the other person tell you about their interests outside the office.
What are you going to do this weekend? Find out someone’s weekend plans and you’ll get to know them on a deeper level. Are they going for a hike or kicking it on the couch? This topic also lends itself well to follow-up questions (Where’s your favorite hiking trail? What show are you binging?).
What did you want to be when you grew up? This is a great topic for workplace events because you can follow up with questions about elements of their career that apply to their childhood dream job.
What would be your dream vacation? Find out how they’d like to use those PTO days (and get some recommendations for future vacations for yourself).
Do you consider yourself organized? Whether they’re obsessed with order or thrive in messy chaos, this topic will help you get to know the person on a deeper level.
How do you measure your success? This open-ended question will help make a more substantial connection. You could follow up by asking who are some of the most successful people they know, and how others can get to that level.

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On a Date

A date — especially a first date — can be the holy grail of awkward chit-chat. Use these tips to keep the conversation flowing.

What’s the last thing that made you laugh out loud? The only thing people love more than laughing is making others laugh. This conversation starter also gives an opening for people to show you a hilarious video or share a memory that you can giggle about together.
What was your first car? Is there anything more nostalgic than a person’s first car? Whether it’s laughably embarrassing or impossibly cool, they’ll almost certainly want to share a story about their first set of wheels.
What person in your life brings you the most joy? A perfect chance to talk about their mom, grandfather or other beloved family member or friend, this topic is sure to lead to more conversation as your date shares stories about the person they love.
Do you have any tattoos? People usually love sharing the stories behind their tattoos. Or if they don’t have any, they’ll probably be happy to explain why.
Do you have any pets? What are their names? Get to know whether they’re a dog or cat person (or reptile or bird!) and find out the meaning behind Fido’s name.
What were you obsessed with when you were a child? Dinosaurs, monster trucks, Barbies — every kid has an obsession and finding out your date’s childhood interests might help you learn more about them as an adult.
What’s your most controversial opinion? People love giving “hot takes.” Find out your date’s ultimate controversial opinion and be ready to share your own point of view on the topic, doing your best to reach understanding if you don’t agree.
What’s the most annoying habit a person can have? Bond over shared annoyance with this topic (or find out if you have the habit they hate).
What are you going to order? If you’re at a restaurant, bar, coffee shop or anywhere else with a menu, this easy conversation starter is sure to get the other person chatting. Plus you’ll figure out the vibe of the date (i.e. cocktails and apps or a beer and a huge steak).
Where’s the most beautiful place you’ve ever been? This question works well for travelers and homebodies alike. A citizen of the world might tell you about an exotic foreign locale while a less-traveled person might tell you about a particularly special area close to their hometown. Either way, the conversation is sure to flow.

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With Children

What’s your favorite dinosaur? Of course, not every child likes dinosaurs or knows enough about them to have a favorite. But many of them do, and if they don’t, they’ll be happy to tell you something else they do like. Be ready to follow up with “How about planets?” or any other child-friendly topic.
Do you have any brothers or sisters? Family is a favorite topic for most kids since they spend all their time together. This is especially true if they have a new baby in the house and are getting used to their older sibling status. Be sure to follow up with “Are they older or younger?” and “What do you like to do together?”
What show are you watching right now? Kids love to talk about their favorite shows, which they likely watch over and over. Ask why they like that show and what is their favorite episode.
What food would you eat every day if you could? A fun alternative to “what’s your favorite food,” this topic will likely bring some hilarious answers. You can follow up with questions like “What kind of candy?” and “How many bowls of mac and cheese could you eat in one sitting?”
What’s your favorite color? What about your brother’s favorite color? If there’s one thing kids catch onto early, it’s their favorite color. And they likely know the preferred hue for their family and close friends.
What are you going to do for your birthday this year? Don’t worry if their birthday has already passed or they aren’t doing anything big. Kids love to talk about their grandiose birthday plans — even if they will never happen. This topic also lends itself well to follow up questions like “What kind of cake will you have?” and “Who are you going to invite?”
What’s your favorite subject in school? For kids, school is their full-time job. It’s where they spend lots of their time and mental energy, so they should have plenty to talk about. Follow up with questions about why they like that particular subject and which subjects are not on their list.
What’s your favorite animal? Kids have strong opinions about their favorite animals, whether they are real or imaginary. You can keep the conversation going with follow-up questions about favorite animals that are pets, live at the zoo, live in the ocean and more.
What’s your favorite room in your house and why? To kids, home is their playground and safe space, so they will likely love to chat about it. You could ask more questions about their favorite toys, books and things to do outside.
Which TV show or movie would you want to come true in real life? Whether they’d like their favorite cartoon animal to come alive or live in a castle like a movie princess, kids are sure to have lots of opinions on this one.
What’s your favorite song? Get ready to listen to them sing it!

No matter what kind of event you’re attending, these questions and topics are sure to get the conversation going. Happy chatting!

Sarah Pryor is a journalist, wife, mom and Auburn football fan living in Charlotte, N.C.

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We say thousands of words a day and deal with dozens of interlocutors, but some conversations fly out of our heads a second after they end, while others are remembered for a lifetime. If you are tired of idle chatter or want to talk to a new acquaintance, try asking something unusual, for example, what pill would he choose in Neo's place or what would he say to aliens as a representative of all mankind, and you will not only have a great time, but people will also remember as an engaging conversationalist. nine0003

ADME has compiled a large list of questions that will allow you to get away from the usual circle of topics and learn a lot of interesting things about the people around you, even if you have known them for a long time.

If you were permanently banned from your current job, what new career would you choose?
If you had the opportunity to never work again, would you take it?
Did you have dreams that you remember for the rest of your life? nine0012
What kind of person do you admire?
Would you like to be friends with a person like you?
What was the most beautiful place you have ever visited?
If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go?
If you could live anywhere, what would it be?
If the list of 7 wonders of the world had to be rewritten, what would you include?
What exactly should every person experience at least once in their life? nine0012
What is your greatest fear in the world?
Have you had an event in your life when it seemed that everything was bad, and then it turned out that everything was for the best?
Are there films or books that everyone admires, but you can't stand them, and vice versa?
Have you ever cried over a book or a movie? What books and films were they?
If you could be a character in a book or movie, what would it be?
If your life were a movie, what would it be called? nine0012
What is the strangest compliment you have ever been given?
What was the most embarrassing situation you've ever had in your life?
Do you have any "shameful pleasures" that, however, give you a feeling of happiness and fullness of life?
If you could change one thing about your past, what would it be?
If you could change one thing in the world, what would it be?
If you had to eat only one food for the rest of your life, what would it be? nine0006

If you had to live the same day over and over again, which day in your life would you choose?

Would you like to become immortal?

If you had a year to live, how would you spend it?

If you could give advice to yourself at 15, what would it be?

What is your best childhood memory?

If as a child you could put all your favorite things in a time capsule and send them to the future, what items would be there? nine0006

How do you envision your ideal day?

If you could only own 5 things, what would they be?

What is the wisest thought you have ever heard?

If you could learn anything in half an hour, what would you learn?

If you could stay at a certain age forever, what age would you choose?

If you could start your life again at the age of 10, but still retain all your experience and knowledge, would you do it? nine0012
If you could choose an era in which to live, which era would suit you best?

If you could see with your own eyes any event from the past, present or future, which would you choose?

What superpower would you like to have?

If you had to choose only one option, would you like your child to grow up smart or kind?

If you were offered eternal youth and a lot of money on the condition that you will never have love and a family, would you agree? nine0012
Is there some piece of information or theory that you simply believe because there is no evidence for it? Why?

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You are having lunch with someone you respect a lot. Suddenly, he starts telling nasty gossip about your close friend and taunting him, not knowing that he is your friend. What are you going to do?

You have access to JK Rowling's Twitter for one day. What new information about the magical world would you publish? nine0012
You return home from work and see that a clone has taken your place, and your spouse and children have not noticed the substitution. How to prove that their real relative is you?

After a divorce, you find a lottery ticket in the apartment that your ex-spouse bought and win $100,000. Share with your ex?

If you were in Neo's place in The Matrix, would you like to know the truth or remain ignorant?

Imagine that you can become the most beautiful person on the planet, but with every first kiss you will involuntarily hiccup. Agree? nine0006

You will receive $1 million if you hide a bunch of keys so that the entire country's police force cannot find them. Where will you hide them?

You have been invited to take part in an experiment: you must remain alone for a whole month, without communicating with a single person, in a room where there is only a bed, a toilet, water and food. If you don't give up, get $1 million. Do you agree or not?

You found out that your best friend is the same person who robs expensive car drivers on the road, taking money and jewelry, and then gives them to children with cancer for treatment. Will you hand him over to the police? nine0012
Aliens have taken over Earth. You are a representative of earthlings, and in a conversation they say that they plan to eat 10 million people a year. You categorically object: "It's not fair!" The aliens are surprised: “We don’t understand! Humans eat other living beings! We are a more developed race, for us there is no difference between a man and a cow, why can't we eat you? What arguments will you find to convince them?

You are the only surgeon in the hospital. You have just been informed that your relatives died in an accident, the driver was drunk. A minute later, he is brought to the operating room in a serious condition. How will you do it? nine0012
Imagine that you could choose to leave the world as it is, or rid it of wars and conflicts, but the internet would also disappear forever. What do you decide?

Imagine that there is a magic pill that gives the person who takes it beauty, good luck in all matters and a happy fate. But the day after his 35th birthday, this person will die. Would you take such a pill?

The government began to distribute delicious pills to people for free, taking which a person feels that the world is paradise, he himself is happy, and the people around are the best creatures on Earth. The action of the tablets lasts several hours, there are no side effects, they do not affect health and do not cause addiction. The decision whether to use them or not depends only on the person himself. Would you take pills like other people around? nine0012
Your ship has hit an iceberg. The crew and passengers could hardly fit into 2 lifeboats. A storm began, and it became clear that the overloaded boats were about to capsize. To save yourself, you need to push some of the people overboard. You are the captain. How do you do? How do you decide who to donate?

You have been offered to freeze your body for 200 years for free at any time you want. Agree?

Let us assume that life after death exists. What would hell and heaven look like if you invented them? nine0012

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If you were famous, what would you be famous for?

Would you rather have 3 legs or 3 arms?

Would you rather have a cat in the body of a dog or a dog in the body of a cat?

Which would you rather read minds or see through walls?

Would you rather be the richest person in the world or the smartest?

Would you rather be able to speak all the languages of the world or be able to talk to animals? nine0012
What would you prefer: to be able to read other people's minds or to fly?

Would you rather be married to someone who loves you but you don't love him or someone you love unrequitedly?

Would you rather look like a 20 year old but feel like an 80 year old or look like an 80 year old but feel like a 20 year old?

Would you rather be able to erase your memories or those of other people?

What would you prefer: to have unearthly beauty or an unsurpassed sense of humor? nine0012
Would you rather have a photographic memory or an incredibly high IQ?

Which would you prefer: an allergy to chocolate or an allergy to a smartphone?

Would you rather never hear music again or lose the ability to read? What will you choose?

What would you rather not taste or see the world in black and white?

Would you rather be a vampire or a werewolf?

Which would you prefer: a trunk like an elephant or a neck like a giraffe? nine0012
Which is worse: losing sight or hearing?

Imagine that the genes of an embryo during pregnancy can be changed without side effects. Would you allow this to be done to change a child's gender or appearance?

Some people think that keeping animals in zoos is cruel. Even if they have spacious enclosures and plenty of food, this will not replace life in freedom. Do you agree with this or not? Why?

Can Internet piracy (movie and music downloads) be equated with shoplifting? nine0012
Iceland recently passed a law according to which all residents of the country from the age of 18 become organ donors by default (but you can write a refusal). Would you like to have such a law in our country?

Do you think artificial intelligence can destroy humanity in the future?

What common idea could unite people on the planet?

What questions seemed to you the most difficult and interesting, made you think?
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48 questions to help you make awkward conversations easier times
, because you just need to say something? This usually happens when you are forced to wait for something, for example, while waiting for a very slow moving elevator in the company of your own colleagues or casual acquaintances during various events. To make boring conversations like this more interesting, it is worth asking people unexpected questions that make them think, and which cannot be simply answered with “yes” or “no”.

The result is likely to be amazing: you will learn a lot of interesting facts about other people that you would never get out of the usual boring conversation. And, as an added bonus, you will become closer to each other. Sometimes it can be really important!

If you are ready for unconventional actions, look at the list of the most successful questions, which is divided into topics for convenience. nine0003
Of course, not every one of these questions is appropriate to talk to every person in every situation, but, nevertheless, this list provides a fairly wide selection to avoid awkward silence.

Work

1. If you weren't working here, what would you most likely be doing now?
2. How did you become ... (job title)?
3. What surprised you the most about this job?
4. What is the most ridiculous task your boss has ever given you? nine0223 5. Which would be more preferable for you - to work four days a week for 10 hours or five days for 8?
6. If you had guaranteed success in any position, what would you prefer to do?
7. What was your first job? Did you like her?
8. What is the most valuable professional development advice you have ever received? And which was the worst?

Entertainment

9. Are you reading any interesting book now? I'd like to get some advice. And what about the show? nine0223 10. Are there any apps on your phone that you can't live without?
11. If you could only watch one genre of cinema for the rest of your life, which would it be? What about musical preferences?
12. What book that everyone admired did you hate? And vice versa?
13. Do you have any podcast recommendations?
14. What movie have you watched lately that made you cry? How about laughing out loud? nine0223 15. Who would you like to be your partner on the reality show Amazing Race? In our realities, you can ask a similar question about programs like Fort Boyard or The Last Hero.
16. Who is your favorite on Instagram? And vice versa? Oh, you don't have Instagram? Why?

Food

17. If you were told that you could only eat one food for the rest of your life, what would it be?
18. What is the strangest dish you have ever tried in your life? nine0223 19. What habitual food is the most comfortable for you?
20. Is there any food that you will never eat?
21. Advise what you can easily and without problems take with you to work / study as lunch, but it should not be sandwiches.
22. Where can I eat cheaply here?
23. Does your family have any culinary secrets or traditional recipes?
24. What is your favorite restaurant / cafe that is not very well known to a wide range of people? nine0003
Travel

25. Is there a “paradise” place for recreation somewhere nearby?
26. If you could fly anywhere for free, where would you go?
27. What is the coolest road trip you have ever taken?
28. What trip did you take during your last vacation? What were you doing there? What do you remember?
29. What type of vacation do you prefer - active or relaxing somewhere on a cozy beach? nine0223 30. What next trip have you already planned?
31. If you could take a day off or have the opportunity to work remotely, where would you go and what would you do?
32. What is your favorite thing to do on the weekends?

Biography

33. Where did you live before? How is that city different from where you live now?
34. What did you want to be when you grew up as a child?
35. Do you have any hidden talents or unexpected hobbies? nine0223 36. What did you like to do in elementary school (outside the school curriculum)?
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