Physical compatibility test

Quiz: Are You Sexually Compatible?

No matter what dating services and sites might lead us to believe, there is no secret equation that will say whether two people are a sexual match. Sex is too individual, complex, and dynamic to be simplified like that. Recognizing that sexual compatibility can be a serious concern (as well as a passing curiosity), here is a quiz that may give some idea about what makes two partners pair well — and what can lead to disappointment down the road.

1. Was seeing your partner lust at first sight?

a. There was an immediate attraction. (2 points)

b. Not really but she’s become more attractive to me over time. (1 point)

c. I’m still figuring out how attracted I am to her. (0 points)

Physical attraction may fade over time, but having that initial desire is important. “People will make the mistake of thinking, ‘this is a great guy’ or ‘they look great on paper,’ but if there isn’t a basic physical attraction, it’s not going to work,” says Tiger Devore, clinical psychologist and certified sex therapist. For some people, physical attraction is based solely on appearance, but there are harder to explain elements of physical attraction that are powerful too. Consider online dates who match their profile pic exactly but still disappoint the moment they walk through the door.

2. Does she like how you smell?

a. I have no idea. (1 point)

b. Yes, even when I could use a shower. (2 points)

c. She wants me doused in cologne. (0 points)

Some research has suggested that scent may help inform humans’ choices in sexual partners. The theory is that scent can communicate information about immune system genes, facial symmetry, and even dominant behavior. The evidence for all of this, however, is still far from certain.

3. How well do you get along outside the bedroom?

a. Very well. (2 points)

b. We don’t have much in common. (0 point)

c. We don’t have much in common but the sex is great. (2 points)

Sexual compatibility shouldn’t be confused with relationship compatibility. People can have a great time together sexually even if they don’t care for each other’s company beyond that. Liking a person’s personality or having similar interests can be a nice plus, however. “Those things may not play into initial attraction at all, but will play strongly into longer-term attraction, and maintenance of intimacy over time,” says Devore.

4. What goes through you mind when you’re having sex?

a. I’m so lost in the moment I don’t even remember. (2 points)

b. My mind drifts off at random but I remind myself to pay attention. (1 point)

c. Various stresses, like a work problem or worries that the sex isn’t going well. (0 points)

Many people have to work at being present during sex. Preoccupations about jobs, chores, and sexual prowess can get in the way of a good sexual experience for both partners, even if only one of them is preoccupied. People can often sense when their partners are distant during the act, and this can dull otherwise great sexual chemistry. Those partnerships that can talk about these stresses can make progress toward achieving more focused (and then more satisfying) sex.

5. Is she as passionate as you are?

a. Yes. (2 points)

b. Way more. (0 points)

c. Way less. (0 points)

A common mismatch between couples is the how passionate they are sexually. Devore says that many women feel the need to hold back in bed due to pressure to not come off as “slutty.” This can be disappointing and discouraging for guys. “A lot of times those physical demonstrations have a lot to do with a man feeling desired […],” says Devore. “If those things aren’t there, then sexual interest is going to fade very rapidly.” A tricky double-standard worth addressing if it might be the source of problems for you and your partner.

6. How comfortable are you discussing what you like in bed?

a. Yep, we go there. (2 points)

b. I’m terrified of telling her what I want or finding out she wants something I can’t do for her. (0 points)

c. It’s come up a couple times. (1 point)

Nothing benefits a sex life more than understanding it. Each partner should take some time to know what they want sexually and what their partner wants. Most people won’t have a full picture of everything they’d like to try (or avoid), but being open to talking about sex can get couples a very long way toward blissful satisfaction. This can also help people avoid challenging surprises later, such as the discovery of uncommon desires that even a committed loving partner can’t accommodate.

7. How well do you fit together anatomically?

a. She and I agree, we go well together. (2 points)

b. Certain parts could be a little bigger or smaller. (1 point)

c. We’re either uncomfortable or in pain. (0 points)

Size doesn’t really matter as much as most men are lead to believe (but there is one situation that can be a deal breaker: a penis that’s too big. Most women can accommodate a lot down there, but there is the rare situation where parts just don’t work together, and it can become a potentially painful issue. ) “Sometimes a loving couple has to face a breakup if intercourse never becomes easy or comfortable for the female if the man’s penis is too large for her,” says Devore.

8. How often is she in the mood at the same time as you?

a. Some days work out better than others. (1 point)

b. We always want to get busy at the same time. (2 points)

c. Our schedules are a barrier to our sex lives. (0 points)

Foreplay cannot be overlooked. It’s true that some people like it more than others. It’s also true that foreplay can be more than physical. Helping around the house, compliments, or giving a massage all count too. If couples aren’t able to coordinate their foreplay wants and needs, it can become a critical issue. Believe it or not, Devore says problems with foreplay and romance often stem from differences in schedules.

9. What kind of efforts do you put into spicing things up?

a. Valentine’s Day and birthdays are extra special occasions. (1 point)

b. We’re always getting inspiration from movies, TV, and the Internet. (2 points)

c. None, it seems unnecessary. (0 points)

The classic evolution of sexual relationships is that they get routine and stale over time as a result of neglect. “[People] do have to pay attention to their sex life or it tends to become very constricted, and then not very interesting, and then not very often,” says Devore. Like work, kids, and bills, relationships require effort and attention for the best outcomes.


Tally up your answers from all the questions to see where you rank.

13–18 points

A solid match with an impressive level of partnership. Similar desires, thoughtful effort, and some biological luck pay off. But don’t get too cocky. Maintaining this level of compatibility will probably require extra work. “If they want to maintain that level of mutual excitement, they are going to have be good and honest communicators of their various interests and distractions sexually,” says Devore, “and be supportive of mutual experimentation, at least in fantasy (if they have a monogamous agreement).

6–12 points

This level of sexual compatibility is probably where many couples are or will be at some point. “All couples’ sense of attraction to one another waxes and wanes,” says Devore. “Sexual tastes may change over the life term, and they may go through periods of being less compatible.” When sexual compatibility feels like it’s at a low, Devore says people might need to make some moves to spice things up. Unless someone is hiding a major sexual curve ball, there shouldn’t be anything to worry about. Even small pushes to address lackluster sex (try these 10 ways to spice up your sex life) can lead to fantastic improvements.

0–5 points

There are some signs that things could be better. If everything but the sex is great, don’t worry too much. Try to figure out what the problem might be. Stress, being uncomfortable exploring and discussing sex, or simply not giving a sexual relationship some TLC are common issues. If the problem seems too big to handle, a sex therapist might be able to offer some techniques to work through incompatibility or at least provide an objective perspective on the situation. If the incompatibility is more personal or emotional, Devore says a marriage or relationship counselor is more appropriate.

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11 Best Love Compatibility Tests for Couples [2023 Update]

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Curious about how compatible you are with your partner?

Aside from trust, respect, and communication, most experts agree that compatibility is a big factor in achieving a healthy relationship. When you are compatible with the person you are with, you feel so much happier and content.

But how do you measure compatibility? What are the standards?

In this post, we have gathered the most popular and widely used compatibility tests for couples. They have been selected based on the quality of the scientific grounds they use to measure how healthy a relationship is.

So what are these compatibility tests? Let’s get to them!

What You Will Learn

  • 1. 365 Tests Love Compatibility Test
  • 2. Similar Minds' Compatibility Tests
  • 3. Truity: Which Personality Is Your Love Match?
  • 4. The Anatomy of Love: Self-Expansion Quiz for Love
  • 5. Psychologia’s Compatibility Test
  • 6. My Real Personality: Couple Test, Do You Match?
  • 7. All the Tests Couple Compatibility Quiz
  • 8. Gottman Relationship Quiz
  • 9. We Should Try It
  • 10. Nanaya
  • 11. FiveThirtyEight’s Personality Quiz
  • Final Word on These Love & Compatibility Tests for Couples

1. 365 Tests Love Compatibility Test

365 Tests Love Compatibility Test helps you determine what exactly it is you are looking for in a partner. After all, it is easier to look for “the one” if you know what to look for. If you already have a partner, however, it helps you determine whether or not you and your partner are a perfect match in terms of personality.

See more questions here:  365 Tests Love Compatibility Test

The test involves 25 compatibility questions. It only takes around five minutes or less to complete the test and get your results.

Once you’re done, there’s no need to calculate your results, as the site will do that for you. While you’re answering, it has an algorithm that automatically registers your answers and calculates your results thereafter.

This love compatibility test does not give you a personal score as a result. Instead, it shows you the type of personality your potential partner should have to be the best match for your answers.

2. Similar Minds' Compatibility Tests

Similar Minds has two sets of tests to check people’s compatibility.

The first one is a self-reporting test based on the Big Five Model, which only requires the answer of one partner. The other one is a compatibility test where two people each need to answer the set of 60 questions.

Self-Reporting Compatibility Test

via Similar Minds Big-Five Compatibility Test

This test takes around 7-10 minutes to complete. It’s not necessarily a compatibility test for lovers, as you may also check your compatibility with a friend.

Before proceeding to the actual test, you need to provide some basic information about you and your partner or friend. These include you and your partner or friend’s gender, how long you have been together, and how you would rate your relationship with each other (1 being the lowest and 10 being the highest).

You then need to answer 50 questions that will be automatically computed by the site to obtain your results. These results are based on the Big Five Model (openness to experience, conscientiousness, extraversion, agreeableness, and neuroticism).

Relationship Compatibility Test

via Similar Minds Relationship Compatibility Test

As mentioned earlier, two people are required to complete this test (you and your partner). It is a set of 60 questions that is based on a sample test created by the site. This test has been run through over 40,000 couples where assertive mating (like attracts like) has been the observed rule or pattern.

Similar to the first test, the site will ask you certain basic information about yourself. The difference is that there are added questions, such as how you would rate your overall satisfaction with the relationship, how would you rate your sex life with your partner, etc.

Then you can proceed to answer the 60 questions on your own time. Typically it will only take you around five to six minutes to complete the test. Although there are more questions here, it is easier to answer because you only need to think about yourself.

After answering, you will be given your results, your ID, a link where your partner can submit his or her answers, and the link where you and your partner can compare your results. When comparing results, you need to input your ID and your partner’s ID. Hence, make sure to keep that ID number and tell your partner to keep theirs.

3. Truity: Which Personality Is Your Love Match?

Truity’s compatibility test is more of a questionnaire regarding your ideal match. If you are single and looking to find which type of personality is most suitable to your liking, this personality test is for you.

via Truity

For the first two pages, you need to answer the questions based on your idea of a perfect match. What should your ideal mate be like? When you reach the third page, you will be asked about your personality type (e.g., ENTJ, ISTJ, ENFJ, etc.). If you don’t know what your personality type is, you can always select the “I don’t know it” option.

The test takes around two to three minutes, depending on how fast you answer the questions. Upon submitting your results, a prompt will appear asking you to create an account for the site. If you choose to register, you can keep the results of your test. If you opt to just see the results, you will only be given that one time to view your results.

As for the results, there is no need to calculate on your own, as the site automatically computes and generates the results for you. It will not just measure your compatibility with a certain personality type, but also show you the potential downsides if ever you build a relationship with that type. The site will also provide you a list of places where you can likely find people with the personality types you are looking for.

4. The Anatomy of Love: Self-Expansion Quiz for Love

Designed and developed by Dr. Gary Lewandowski, this love compatibility test analyzes your outlook toward self-expansion. As explained by Dr. Lewandowski, being in love is experiencing self-expansion. You feel like a new person.

via The Anatomy of Love 

But more than self-expansion, this test evaluates how good your relationship with your partner is, and how healthy love and romance is that you share. In short, how compatible are you with your partner?

It only takes a minute or two to answer the 10 questions for this test. Once you’re done, the site automatically computes your answers. The results include highly expansive (60 or higher), moderately expansive (45-60), and low connection (45 or less).

5. Psychologia’s Compatibility Test

Psychologia’s Compatibility Test is based on the four temperaments test: sanguine, phlegmatic, choleric, and melancholic. It evaluates you and your partner’s personality types and then explains the result of you and your partner’s combination.

via Psychologia’s Compatibility Test

The test takes around three to four minutes to complete. A table with three columns is presented to you. The first column includes the questions, the second column is where you put your answers, and the third column is where your partner should put his or her answers.

After answering and clicking the results button, you will be shown your personality type. Your main personality type is the one where you got the highest score. Similarly, your partner’s highest score is his or her personality type.

Below the results, you will find the compatibility information. To know how compatible you are with your partner and what the potential is for your relationship, check this information.

6. My Real Personality: Couple Test, Do You Match?

Composed of 15 simple questions, this compatibility test takes only around three to four minutes to accomplish. But you have to be careful and read the questions thoroughly, as they can be confusing.

via My Real Personality

Some of the questions that the site asks are your attitudes and preferences towards food, movies, and other things that you and your partner share together. Upon clicking the answer to the final question, you are automatically given the results.

7. All the Tests Couple Compatibility Quiz

This simple couple compatibility test from All the Tests covers four subjects: activity, intellect, sex, and family. There are six questions asked for each category, but you won’t find them in one single list, as the questions are all mixed up.

via All the Tests

This test is designed for people who want to figure out how compatible they are with their partners and only takes around five minutes to complete. But you need to answer honestly to get the best results.

Speaking of results, just hit the “Test Results” button when you’re done and the site automatically shows your score.

To know if you and your partner are compatible with each other, you both need to have the same or almost the same score.

8. Gottman Relationship Quiz

The creators of the Gottman Relationship Quiz believe that one of the most essential elements of a successful romantic relationship is the friendship between the two partners. This includes knowing your partner’s beliefs, life goals, likes, dislikes, etc. To that end, they created this test that examines how well you know your partner.

via Gottman Relationship Quiz

There are four parts you need to complete in this test: your knowledge about your partner, your romantic relationship, your friendship, and your values. It takes less than 30 seconds to answer each section (especially if you know your partner very well), and it only takes around a minute or two to finish the whole quiz.

When you’re done answering, simply enter your email address in the space provided and you will receive the results straight to your inbox. If you want to receive more information about relationships and love, you can subscribe to their newsletter and you’ll get updated about their new quizzes and tests. Some of their recent releases include: “Do You Trust Your Partner?” and “How Positively Do You View Your Partner?”

Ultimately this quiz is about discovering how well you know your partner. You might be surprised by how much you do or don’t know about them. 

9. We Should Try It

We Should Try It is for the adventurous couple who’d like to check how compatible they are in bed. It is an online sex questionnaire that explores the limitations and boundaries of partners. It aims to strengthen relationships by revealing what both partners are willing to try and achieve during intimate times.

via We Should Try It

Since the questions are sensitive, you can answer this test with full anonymity. There is no need to provide information about you or your partner, and the site ensures that your privacy is preserved. You do not have to register, just click the “Get Started” button and you can immediately answer. When answering, your partner can use the same computer or they can choose to use another.

There are three levels to complete: basics, advanced, and bonus. You and your partner should be able to access these levels for free. If you want more ideas to try or check out, the site offers a “premium question pack.” Whatever you choose, you’ll still be able to get a decent summary of results. Once you and your partner are done answering, you’ll be given a checklist of the things that you both fantasize about.

What is rather unique about this test is that you don’t have to answer everything just so you can move on to the next question. If you feel like a question is too sensitive for you to handle, you can opt not to provide an answer and just go on to the next one. You can even customize the questions and categories by adding your own set of statements or lists.

10. Nanaya

Nanaya believes that love shouldn’t be left to chance; instead, it should be in accordance with the fundamentals of science and philosophy. To this end, the creators of Nanaya created a romantic personality test to come up with scientific-based predictions. Its main goal is to help you take control of your love life by providing helpful tips based on your results.

via Nanaya

Nanaya works by providing you a set of questionnaires that you need to answer, which takes around 5 to 30 minutes, depending on how deeply you think about it. Next, it will calculate your results through its algorithm for about 5 minutes. You will then receive a personalized report via email which will help you predict your future and adjust your thoughts and decisions accordingly.

According to Nanaya, there are 16 unique personality types that you can identify with. These 16 traits belong to four categories: energy, confidence, determination, and lifestyle. Once you have identified which of the 16 traits you possess, it will be easier for you to find your perfect match. This test will help you discover the traits of the people you will be most compatible with.

Technically, Nanaya doesn’t just check if you are compatible with your partner or a certain person—it also shows you how you can build a happier, better life by making the right decisions.

11. FiveThirtyEight’s Personality Quiz

FiveThirtyEight’s Personality Quiz uses the Big Five model as its foundation for checking how compatible you are with your partner. For those who are not familiar with the Big Five, it is a taxonomy in psychology that groups people’s personalities into five different traits. These include your level of extraversion, agreeableness, conscientiousness, negative emotionality, and openness to experience.

via FiveThirtyEight’s Personality Quiz

The creators of the FiveThirtyEight Personality Quiz believe that using the Big Five can help you learn more about why you and your partner (or someone close to you) click. They also aim to assist you in identifying the possible reasons you and your partner disagree on some or several factors. Knowing how your personalities collide and why they collide in that way is key to maintaining a healthy relationship.

This test does not give you exact results regarding your personality traits. For each of the traits, you are only graded on a scale of 0 to 100, in accordance with how strongly you associate yourself with them. In other words, this test will not tell you if you are an introvert or an extrovert. Rather, it will show you how close or far you are from being an extroverted person. The grading works on a spectrum, so it will either indicate that you belong to the extremes or that you are part of the majority (middle ground).

Once you know where you stand in the spectrum and learn which of your personality traits help you stand out from the crowd, you’ll be able to make better judgments and have a clearer perspective when dealing with your partner or any other relationship.

Final Word on These Love & Compatibility Tests for Couples

Finding the love of your life is one thing, but knowing if you are actually compatible with each other is something else entirely. Take one or more of the tests we provided above to check your compatibility level.

If you find that you and your partner are highly compatible, then that’s good news. However, if it’s the other way around, do note that “compatibility” is just one of the factors that affect a relationship. There are other things to consider, as well. Sometimes oil and vinegar mix well together in a relationship. Each different personality covering for the weaknesses of the other.

As long as you and your partner trust and respect each other, and you both put in effort to make the relationship work, you are sure to be on the road to happiness.

Finally, one proven way to improve your happiness and life satisfaction is to focus on goals that truly matter. To get started, check out this FREE printable worksheet and a step-by-step process that will help you set effective SMART goals.

Test for physiological compatibility with a partner.

Test for physiological compatibility with a partner.

Assess your physiological compatibility with your partner

As you know, one of the main criteria for a happy life together is compatibility. At the same time, not only psychological compatibility is important, but also physiological. If there is not always agreement between partners on some issues related to the psychology of communication, then over time you can always find a common language and come to a common opinion.

If the partners are not physiologically compatible, then their life together is practically doomed.

To find out your physiological compatibility with your partner, we invite you to take this test, answering each of the questions "yes" or "no".

There is a key at the end of the test to help you calculate your score and determine your compatibility.

1. My wife (husband) and I have a different rhythm of wakefulness and sleep. One of us is an owl, the other is a pronounced lark.

2. If my husband (wife) is angry about something, then it is not difficult for me to calm my anger with a couple of kind words.

3. My wife and I get along well.

4. It gets on my nerves that we do something at different paces - one is faster and the other is much slower.

5. Sometimes it annoys me that my husband (wife) eats a lot (often).

6. Sometimes conflicts arise because of different eating habits. What one likes, another can't stand.

7. Sometimes it happens that when one of us is sad, the other is happy (and vice versa).

8. My spouse often prevents me from getting a good night's sleep.

9. We have very similar temperaments.

10. Intimate relationships usually have a positive effect on our relationships in general.

11. My wife (husband) suits me well in bed.

12. I know for sure that I suit my partner intimately.

13. The desire to have sex usually occurs with the same frequency.

14. I like to shower (bath), but my husband does not (or vice versa).

15. We resolve all emerging conflicts fairly quickly.

16. My husband (wife) always knows how to calm me down if I'm worried.

17. One of us may lose his temper in an argument, while the other always retains it.

18. In general, we live in harmony.

19. I get pissed off when I do housework while my spouse is resting.

20. I always forgive my wife for various breakdowns.

21. If one of us is upset about something, then the other one cannot be happy about something at that time, and vice versa - when one of us is having fun, then the other one is in a good mood.

22. The time of the year, the weather outside, affect us in much the same way.

23. We are very similar, we have the same feelings and reactions.

24. My husband (wife) often makes different remarks to me: don't shuffle on the floor, don't drum with your fingers, let's hurry up, etc.

Test Key:

Give one point each if you agree with the statements in paragraphs: 2, 3, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 15, 16, 17, 18,20,21, 22 , 23.
Also give yourself one point if you do not agree with the statements given in paragraphs: 1, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 14, 19, 24.
Add up the points received.

From 0 to 8 points.
Your level of physiological compatibility is very low. Often you annoy each other by the fact that one does this, and the other thinks that it should be done differently.

From 9 to 12 points.
In this case, everything is not so hopeless, but it is far from perfect compatibility. Try to be more attentive to each other if you want to save your relationship.

From 13 to 18 points.
Congratulations, you have found yourself a very suitable partner. You understand and feel each other well. Such compatibility may well become a good basis for a happy family life.

From 19 to 24 points.
Very high level of physiological compatibility. As they say - even launch into space - you understand each other literally at a glance, you feel almost the same. As they say: - "Advice and love"!

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You have met a new man and want to know in advance if you have a chance for a happy future with him? Or maybe you're already in a relationship, but are tormented by doubts about your chosen one? This compatibility test will tell you what to expect in your union, what problems may arise and how to overcome them.

1. How does your man behave when you tell him about your problems?

Listens attentively, offers help. He is interested and interested in everything that happens in your life.

Listens, but as if out of politeness or fear of offending you.

Listens and then changes the subject to make you laugh or distract you from sad thoughts.

Ignores, immediately changes the subject or interrupts in annoyance, expresses impatience.

2. How do you feel about his shortcomings?

You think that your man is almost perfect, and his minuses are insignificant.

You see them clearly, but for the time being it is difficult for you to put up with them.

Bear with them, hoping that he will change for you.

See them soberly and fully accept them - no one is perfect.

3. An ex-girlfriend of your man appeared on the horizon, who openly makes it clear that she is not averse to returning the past. What will be his behavior?

Will make every effort to reduce communication with her to nothing, because he has you.

Most likely you won't even know about it, because there is still a low level of trust between you.

Invite her to remain friends, indicating that she is in a relationship.

He openly flirts with her because he is flattered by her attention.

4. Imagine that you are in a theater group. Your team decides to put on a play in which you will have a role. The problem is, your boyfriend's weekly football falls on the same day as the theatrical opening. How is he likely to do it?

Only plays half of his game and then comes to watch the rest of your play.

No problem giving up football to come and support you.

Will not come to you, but promises that he will definitely come to your next performance. Unless, of course, it is scheduled again on the same day with football.

Will go to football, considering it a higher priority.

5. How often do you have heart-to-heart conversations when you calmly discuss the common future, current problems, etc. ?

Quite often, as soon as the occasion arises.

Sometimes, “in the mood”.

You are just starting to get to know each other and build trust in relationships, so there have been no such conversations yet.


6. What do you think: did your man cheat in a past relationship?

Yes, but he is sorry and told you honestly about it.

No, and you are sure of it.

Most likely yes, and more than once.

You don't know this for sure.

7. You were terribly tired after work and did not find the strength to wash the dishes in the evening. Your boyfriend noticed this in the morning. His likely reaction?

Will ignore: will not wash, but will not reproach.

Just wash the dishes and not focus on it.

Likely to wash and talk about it, expecting praise.

He will sarcastically remark this or express his dissatisfaction in another way.

8. Has your man seen you without makeup? What was his reaction?

No, I didn't.

He often sees you without makeup and thinks you are beautiful.

I saw him, he joked about it a couple of times, but without being caustic.

He saw, made it clear that he doesn't like you without make-up.

9. How often does he consult with you or share his anxieties, problems?

Sometimes, if it's something small.

Almost always.

Often, but only if you ask him yourself.


10. Imagine that his mother took a dislike to you because of a mere trifle and now actively encourages her son not to meet with you. How is he likely to behave?

Will listen to her and try to break off relations with you.

Tell her how wonderful you are, hoping to change her opinion of you.

Will rush between the two of you.

Explain to your mother that your relationship is only about the two of you, and ask you not to get involved in it.

11. You were in company together when one of your acquaintances made a caustic or greasy joke about you. How does your boyfriend react?

Will ask the joker not to use it again, but will say it in a half-joking tone, not wanting to spoil relations with him.

Protects you by putting your friend in his place and preventing him from mocking you.

Laughs with the joker, even if you obviously hate to hear it.

Will smile at a joke or change the subject, and when the acquaintance leaves, tell him not to pay attention to stupid humor.

12. You have a severe cold, you feel unwell and you are in dire need of bed rest. How does your boyfriend react when he finds out about this?

As far as possible, takes care of household chores, takes care of you, does everything to make you feel better as soon as possible.

Stays next to you, jokes, cheers you up, but from actions - the maximum can bring some medicines or fruits at your request.

Almost nothing. He just disappears, he is not at all interested in your condition, he is busy with his own affairs.

Periodically cheers you up, asks about your well-being, but everything is only in words.

13. Do you know his parents?

You don't know him well enough to meet his parents.

Yes, but you still feel shackled in their presence, or you are just about to get to know them.

No, and it doesn't look like he's going to introduce you.

Yes, you have a wonderful relationship with his family.

14. Is your boyfriend jealous?

Seems to be jealous, but hides it.

Little or no jealousy because he trusts you.

Very. He often requires you to show your correspondence or forbids you to communicate with someone.

Sometimes he is jealous and expresses it, but in moderation.

15. Did you talk to him about common children? What was his reaction?

He ignores your attempts to start a conversation on this topic or immediately gets angry.

He mentioned several times the prospect of having children together, but superficially. When trying to clarify the details, he often answered something vague or put off the conversation for later.

You think that it is too early for you to start such conversations.

He wants children from you (not necessarily right now) and is not shy about talking about it.

16. You have gained a few extra pounds and are very worried about this. How does your man react?

He says that you are very pretty and it only seems to you that you have gained weight, but in fact, you are still just as slim.

Showers with compliments, says that you are still the most beautiful, despite the extra pounds.

Offers to go to the gym together, run in the morning, go on a diet, or otherwise fix a problem with his support.

Accuses you of whining, gets irritated when you share experiences.

17. You quarreled over something. How is he likely to behave?

Will try to pay off with flowers, gifts or compliments.

Will try to peacefully resolve the conflict, find a compromise.

Leaves but quickly returns to make an attempt at reconciliation.

Will slam the door loudly (or leave you alone on the street) and will not answer calls for a long time.

18. Has it ever happened that a lover on his own, without consulting with you, made a decision in an issue that concerned the two of you?

Yes, he often disregards your opinion.

It happened, but together you try to fix it.

You always try to make such decisions together, discussing everything in detail.

There have never been situations in your life where you had to solve a common problem.

19. Have you ever discussed financial matters with him? For example, who should earn more or how household chores are distributed.


Yes, but you have a serious disagreement.

Yes, but you still have a little disagreement.

Yes, your views agreed.

20. Do you have common interests and hobbies?

You always want to do things together because you have a lot in common.

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