Men signs of attraction

18 body language clues that say he's interested — definitely

You lock eyes with the handsome man sitting across the dimly lit bar, and instantly, 1,000 questions rip roar through your mind — is he single? Does he find me attractive? Is he sitting by himself simply because his date is late?

But when the eye contact continues, you know he's looking for a reason. Whether it's the way your brand new dress hugs every inch of your body, or you've got spaghetti sauce smeared across your face — you have to wonder what he's thinking and figure out how to tell if he's really into you.

It may be easier than you think, though. Surprisingly so, men are pre-programmed to send out physical clues when they're interested in a woman.

Don't believe me? Read this excerpt of Superflirt by Tracey Cox and learn how to decode any guy's body language with ease.

Legend has it that men make the first move, then plead, cajole, wine, dine and basically bribe (via chocolates, flowers and dinner dates) women into their bachelor pads to either a) have their wicked way or b) get down on one knee.

Women — sweet, passive, delicate little flowers that we are — start out strong by defying his attentions, until sheer persistence breaks down our resistance and we agree to... a sherry. Meanwhile, we fill our days by reading romance novels and peering from behind closed curtains, on the watch for knights on big white stallions.

What a load of crap.

Women have always made the first move and orchestrated the pace, flow and direction of romantic relationships.

Masters of intuition and emotional manipulation, adept at body language, able to gauge the emotional temperature of a room quicker than our nipples stiffen in a breeze, you can bet on it that if he's on his way over, armed with courage and a pickup line, you were the one who lured him.

Women choose from no less than 52 moves to show men they're interested. The average man chooses from a maximum of 10 to attract a female.

Good news then — the average female is usually very good at deciphering body language. Just in case you're not, I've included the obvious, along with signals that are more subtle, secretive and (occasionally) downright loony.

1. He'll serve you an eyebrow flash.

If you see someone raise his eyebrows at you, even for a flash of a moment, you may know he likes you before he even knows it himself.Shutterstock / glebTv

When we first see someone we're attracted to, our eyebrows rise and fall. If they like us back, they raise their eyebrows. The whole thing lasts about a fifth of a second and it happens everywhere in the world — to everyone regardless of age, race or class.

Lifting our brows pulls the eyes open and allows more light to reflect off the surface, making them look bright, large and inviting. A flash might be easy to miss but they're so reliable, if you do spot one, you may know someone likes you before they've even registered it themselves.

Deliberately extend it for up to one second and you've drastically upped the chances of him getting the message you're interested.

2. His lips part.

Lips part, nostrils flare. That's a yes. Shutterstock / Dan Kosmayer

If he likes what he sees, his lips will automatically part for a moment when your eyes first lock.

3. His nostrils flare and his face generally "opens."

The raised brows, parted lips, flaring nostrils and wide eyes give the whole face a friendly "open" expression.

4. He'll try to attract your attention.

For some men, this might mean a subtle tie adjustment along with a silent prayer that you'll notice the flash of movement.

Others turn into Bippo the Clown and become so loud and boisterous, they're practically juggling and doing handstands. Any exaggerated movement or gesture usually means he's trying to stand out from the group.

Another giveaway: He'll unconsciously detach from his friends by standing slightly apart, hoping to be seen as an individual.

5. He'll stroke his tie or smooth a lapel.

Hamana-hamana-hamana. Time to smooth the tie. Shutterstock / Kudla

We all know what these preening gestures mean. They're the equivalent of the female lip lick — "I want to look good for you."

6. He'll smooth or mess up his hair.

Which gestures he chooses depends on his hairstyle and what's going to make it look more flattering.

Guys do this involuntarily and more often than you think. Glance back next time you trot off to the restroom and I bet his hands will be on their way to touching his hair.

7. His eyebrows remain slightly raised while you're talking.

A slightly surprised, quizzical expression means he finds you fascinating. Or completely nuts.

Quite frankly, either are preferable to a man who looks at you with a smooth, relaxed brow and eyes.

8. He'll fiddle with his socks and pull them up.

Pulling his socks up means he's preening for you. TODAY

In the old days, men only dressed up on special occasions, and while the suit might have survived months in mothballs, the socks invariably continued to get worn (to death).

Hence, why he spent half the night pulling them up, in an attempt to look the part. It's an extension of preening and it's astonishingly accurate.

If a guy pulls up or adjusts his socks in your presence, it's an almost 100 percent sign he's interested and trying to look his best.

9. Everything is erect.

Ahem. What I mean is he'll stand with all his muscles pulled tight, to show his body off to best advantage. He'll also stand directly in front of you to show full attention and lean forward to get closer.

10. He'll let you see him checking out your body.

Some experts call it "visual voyaging" — his eyes take a little cruise around your body, stopping momentarily at the prettiest ports.

Don't kid yourself: He scanned your body automatically the second he laid eyes on you. The difference here is that he's letting you see him do it.

The message: I'm considering you as a sexual partner.

11. He'll spread his legs while sitting opposite, to give you a crotch display.

He's letting you have a good look at what's on offer. Hopefully, he still has his jeans or pants on at the time.

He'll stand with hands on hips.

A flirting power pose. Are you impressed?Shutterstock / Viorel Sima

This accentuates his physical size and suggests body confidence. It's also a pointing gesture. We point with our hands at our own best sexual assets and also at the parts of our body where we'd most like to be touched.

If he spends the night with his hands on his hips, fingers splayed and pointing downward, he's willing you to look, touch and admire the part he's proudest of. All subconscious, of course. Well, it is in most cases...

12. He'll play with the buttons on his jacket, buttoning and unbuttoning them.

Nervous or flirting? Shutterstock / Champion studio

It's a displacement activity (fiddling) because you've made him a little nervous, plus an unconscious desire to remove his clothes.

The next stage is to push the jacket open and hold it there by putting his hands on his hips. If he takes it off completely, he's imagining his shoes under your bed.

13. He'll touch his face a lot, while looking at you.

If he's interested, he'll stroke his cheek up and down with the back of his fingers, touch his ears or rub his chin.

It's a combination of nervous excitement, preening and autoerotic touching. When we're attracted to someone, our skin (most noticeably our lips and mouth) become increasingly sensitive to touch and other stimulation.

If you smoke, you'll take more drags on your cigarette. If you're drinking, you'll take more sips.

You start touching your own mouth more because your lips are ultra sensitive and it feels good. Plus, it plants the idea in the other person's mind that it could be a good idea to kiss you.

14. He'll start squeezing his glass or can or roll it from side to side, slightly squeezing it as he does so.

When men are interested, they start playing with circular objects. Shutterstock / Creaktiva

When men are sexually interested, they start playing with circular objects. Why? They remind him of your breasts: his body is "leaking" what's happening in his subconscious mind.

15. He'll perch on the edge of his seat to get closer.

And if he crosses his legs, the top leg will point in your direction.

16. He'll guide you by putting his arm on your elbow or in the small of your back.

The arm guide isn't just good manners and a polite way of guiding you through a crowd; he's making sure he knows exactly where you're going by taking you there.

He doesn't want to lose you! It also shows you're being "taken care of" so no other men need volunteer.

17. There'll be lots of accidentally-on-purpose touches.

They're not a coincidence.

18. He'll lend you his coat or sweater.

Few guys would be happy to return from the bar to find their girlfriend's evening dress covered by another guy's jacket.

Never mind if her teeth were chattering from life-threatening hypothermia. He wants it to be his jacket because it's a protective, sexy, ownership gesture.

It says "what's mine is yours," something that's been close to their skin is now close to yours (and vice versa when you give it back). It smelled of him to begin with; it'll smell of you when you return it. Plus, it links you: He has to hang around to get it back.

This story originally published in 2013.

20 Signs of Attraction From a Man

When a man is attracted to you, it might not be clear because the signs might be confusing. The last thing you want is misinterpreting a guy’s intentions for you. Therefore, it is important to know the signs of attraction from a man that shows that he is likely interested in you. 

In this article, we will show you signs of interest from a man and what they most likely mean. These signs will guide you into understanding what the man thinks about you.

To discover if that special guy likes and is attracted to you, check out this book by Emily Hall. This book is titled How to tell if a Guy likes you. It helps you unravel the mystery behind how men love.  

Related Reading: 30 Signs of Attraction: How Do I Know if Someone Is Attracted to Me

20 clear signs of male attraction

Not all men are straightforward when they are attracted to you. Some will try to mask their feelings so you will not find out. However, there are some signs of attraction from a man that can let you know he is drawn to you or has feelings for you.

1. He discloses personal details

One of the signs of male attraction that you should not miss is when a guy begins to tell you personal information about himself.

Generally, men don’t disclose much about themselves until they get a potential partner they can trust. However, when he starts telling you personal things about himself, work, family, and the likes, he gets intimate with you.

2. He is nervous around you

When a man is unusually nervous around you, it might be one of the signs of hidden male attraction. You know that he is not timid, and he is not averse to public gatherings.  

However, when you notice that he acts unsure when he is with you, he might be attracted to you.

One of the reasons why he is nervous is because he doesn’t want to make mistakes when he is with you, so he is being extra careful.

Related Reading: 7 Hacks to Get Rid of Anxiety

3. He tries to spend alone time with you

If you notice that a man prefers to always spend alone time with you, it is one of the signs of attraction from a man. 

Even though he has close friends and family, you will observe that he is always trying to get you alone so he can be with you. Additionally, he will create time to be with you if he has a busy schedule.

4. He is interested in knowing more about you

When a man shows more interest in your personal affairs, it might be one of the subconscious signs of male attraction. Even though the both of you are on talking terms and you discuss general topics, you can tell he is interested in you when he begins to go into the details of your privacy. He is probably doing this because he wants to know if you will be a good fit for him or not.

All guys are not the same, and this is what Kayode Kazeem’s book teaches. His book is titled How to tell if a guy is attracted to you. The book helps you understand the signs that guys give when they like you. 

5. He is pretty protective of you

One of the powerful signs of male attraction is when a man ensures that you are not harmed physically, emotionally, or through any other means. 

This implies that he will come to the rescue when a potential threat could harm you. Also, he will let everyone realize that they will contend with him if they do anything to hurt you.

Related Reading: 20 Signs a Guy Is Protective of You

6. He likes smiling at you

If you have asked questions like if he is attracted to me, you can tell with the way he smiles. Generally, if someone smiles at you often, it could mean that they like you or are attracted to you.  

Therefore, if there’s a man who loves smiling at you, he might be attracted to you. So watch how he smiles at others and compare it to how he smiles at you.

7. He likes to lean closer to you

Another way to observe the signs of attraction from a man is when he prefers to get closer to you. Since his attention is focused on you, he would rather reduce the physical distance between you. If this happens frequently, he might be attracted to you.

At this point, he possibly does not like it when you keep a reasonable physical distance from him. This is one of the common body languages of attraction in males.

8. He mirrors your behavior

One of the strong signs of attraction from a man is when he constantly mirrors your behavior. For instance, if you wink at him, he returns the wink, or if you smile at him, he smiles too. 

Also, if you notice that he follows your lead anytime you do something, it might mean he finds you admirable and is probably attracted to you.

9. He steals glances at you

Another way to know when a man is attracted to you is when he keeps glancing at you. If he stares at you and looks away when your eyes meet, he is probably thinking of how he can take his relationship with you a step further. 

You will notice that your eyes will meet several times, and he will be lost for words on each occasion.

Related Reading: 21 Telltale Signs a Guy Likes You

10. He likes to touch you

If the guy finds every excuse or opportunity to touch you, it might be one of the signs of attraction from a man. You will notice that he likes to touch you for no reason, and he gets satisfied when physical touch is in play.

Not all men have good intentions when they touch you. So, if you notice that he is gentle and not excessive, he might be attracted to you.

Watch this video to learn the 12 types of touches: 

 11. He prefers to walk by your side and not in front or at your back

When a man is attracted to you, one of the signs of physical attraction from a man is he will walk beside you instead of at your front or back. 

The reason is that he likes you and wants the world to know that you’re his world. Additionally, walking by your side allows him to protect you when needed.

12. He sings your praises

Another way to tell if a man is attracted to you is when he is always singing your praises. When you do any little thing, he will heap praise and compliments. He is doing this because he wants you to know that he believes in your capacity, and he wants to be your biggest fan.

13. He wants to get close to your family and friends

One of the strong signs a man is attracted to you is when he wants to get on talking terms with your family and friends.  

You will notice that he will make a mental note to familiarize himself with your family and friends, so it would be easier to win your heart and get their approval.

14. He tells his family and friends about you

When a man is attracted to you, there’s a chance that he will tell those close to him, like his family and friends. 

He wants them to see the person who captured his heart so they can give him all the support and advice he needs.

15. He puts extra care into his physical appearance

If a man begins to put extra care into his looks, it is one of the male body language signs of attraction. 

At this point, he is getting convinced that he might win your heart. Hence, he wants to look the best for you so that you will prefer him to other potential suitors.

16. He acts vulnerable

Generally, men dislike being vulnerable because it affects their pride and ego. If you discover that a man acts vulnerable around you, it is one of the signs of attraction from a man.  

He is letting down his vulnerability because he likes you and wants you to notice that he has feelings for you.

17. He seeks your opinion on critical matters

Men are not used to taking advice from people when they have a difficult decision to make. But, if he likes to hear your opinion when he is at a crossroad, it is one of the signs of attraction from a man. 

It means that he respects you and is attracted to you. Therefore, he is sure you can be trusted to give him the right advice.

18. He has similar interests as you

A man with close interests like you might get attracted to you. Many guys love to have partners with the same interests and values. They believe that it helps to foster better understanding and friendship.

Related Reading: How Important Are Common Interests in a Relationship?

19. He makes an effort to make you laugh

If a man is attracted to you and is intentional about you, he will try to make you laugh. This is one of the first signs of male attraction. Men know that if they make their potential partners laugh, they might be drawn to them.

20. He likes keeping long conversations with you

When a man likes to hold prolonged discussions with you, he is probably attracted to you. He will always want to hear your voice because he likes you, which makes him feel at peace. Such men cannot go a day without hearing your voice.

Tammie Taylor’s book is an eye-opener to understanding the signs men give when attracted to you. The book is titled 12 sure signs he likes you. In this book, you will learn about men’s different behaviors when they like you. 

Final thought

After reading through the signs of attraction from a man, you can now tell if a man is genuinely attracted to you or not. If you are confused about the next step to take when a man is attracted to you, consider seeing a counselor or taking a relationship course for more in-depth insights.

What does a man give himself away if he likes a woman: signs of being in love

1. He takes care of his appearance

Pay attention to whether a man's habits of personal care are changing. Perhaps he began to use perfume more actively, shave more often, went to the barbershop and trimmed his beard, or began to wear shirts instead of the usual sweatshirts. Increased attention to one's own appearance may indicate that a man really wants to please you.

2. He makes tactile contact (lets you into your personal space)

Perhaps he began to touch you more often, as if inadvertently - this, of course, is not about harassment, but about casual contact - you reached for one button together in the elevator or, talking about something, he took your hand. A man in love can more easily let you into his personal space. It will not instinctively move away if you yourself are very close, it will not pull back your hand if you accidentally touched it.

3. He shows care, desire to help

Everything is logical: he cares what happens to you. So, if he is, in principle, not a complete egoist, he will notice himself where you need help, or willingly respond to your requests.

4. He is obviously excited at the meeting

What betrays a man in love? Probably that special thrill that covers him before meeting you. The heart beats more actively, the pulse quickens, the blood rushes to the face. This is a hormonal surge, so his body shows excitement - your date for him is pleasant, but stressful. Precisely because he really wants to make a good impression on you, like in an exam or an interview in a dream company ...

5. He readily responds to a smile and laughs at jokes

If you like to let go of a witticism, a man in love will certainly appreciate your sense of humor. Moreover, he himself will try to bring a smile to your lips - he is very pleased when he succeeds.

6. He is open to contact - online and offline

Of course, like everyone else, he can have many different things to do. He doesn't have time to answer. And sometimes it takes time to enjoy and re-read your message and come up with a decent line. But in the end, he will definitely answer if you are really important to him. And if you became the initiator of the meeting, he will be glad to see you. And if on this day he needs to take his grandmother with her five cats to the country, he will offer the next evening for a date. nine0007

7. He "mirrors" your facial expressions and gestures

Researchers believe that lovers unconsciously copy each other's body language. Masters of negotiations and pick-up artists use this - in order to establish contact, they “mirror” the gestures, posture and facial expression of the interlocutor. For someone who sincerely sympathizes with you, this can happen by itself.

8. He looks at you a lot (but at the same time he can avoid direct “eye to eye”)

If a man likes a woman, how else does he give himself away? He looks at her a lot. If your new friend does not take his eyes off you, this may indicate deep sympathy. And, believe me, it doesn’t matter how your hair went wrong, whether you put on makeup or gained extra pounds over the past week. He does not care. To him, you are beautiful as you are. nine0007

9. He is nervous about potential competitors

Nature has instilled in us the ability and desire to compete for a potential partner. And even the calmest men can suddenly join the fight for you. Why did you have lunch with that guy from the second floor yesterday? What does your new boss want from you? A man in love will carefully watch all (even imaginary) rivals. It can even be cute - but if he shows signs of morbid jealousy , stay away and keep yourself from being associated with a dangerous person.

10. He is not afraid to talk about the future and is ready to make general plans

If after the second date he drags you to the registry office, be careful. You may be at risk of falling into the clutches of a tyrant and an abuser. A reasonable and sober-minded person will not rush into the pool with his head and give out promises, which in this case are of little value. But if you meet and gradually get to know each other closer, a truly in love man will not be afraid to talk about a future in which the single “I” will be replaced by your common “we”. nine0007

21 main signs of attraction for men and women that you should know about

Quite often we do not pay attention to the signs of attraction, because we are not able to recognize them. The following examples of signs of attraction will help you not to pass by your future soulmate.

Have you ever put off a date until you knew the other person was interested in you?

Or were you not interested yourself because you couldn't figure out if the guy liked you? nine0007

Men and women often struggle to catch involuntary signs of attraction, leading to some awkward encounters and missed opportunities.

When you find it difficult to know if someone is attracted to you, your confidence as a fan begins to dwindle.

Fortunately, you can learn to read the signs of attraction and feel more confident about approaching a potential date.

Our bodies subconsciously react to feeling attraction . People tend to use a variety of non-verbal cues, often without even realizing it.

You can stop missing out on dating opportunities because of your inability to recognize the signs of attraction.

But first you need to understand what you are dealing with.

What's in this article


  1. What is attraction?
  2. 21 indisputable signs of attraction
    1. Signs of a man's attraction
    2. Signs of a woman's attraction

What is attraction?

Attraction is a natural part of life experienced by almost all animal species. Without it, populations would rapidly decline.

As with other aspects of biology, researchers have carefully studied this phenomenon.

Psychologists tend to define interpersonal attraction as a bond between two people that leads to a platonic or romantic relationship. nine0007

Speaking of romantic relationships, psychologists often divide attraction into three main elements:

  • Physical
  • Psychological
  • Behavioral

In a romantic situation the physical attraction is often the first element. People are attracted to appearance.

Then, when you begin to associate with this attractive person, you may find that you like his or her personality, or you may find that you agree on many points. It's psychological attraction .

Behavioral attraction includes behavior, character traits and body language of a person.

The combination of these three elements encourages people to use various verbal and non-verbal signs of attraction.

21 undeniable signs of attraction

Let's look at the not-so-obvious signs that a man or woman is interested in you, as well as signs of attraction that you can get from a person who is an introvert. nine0007

Signs of a man's attraction

Traditionally, men initiate a courtship ritual by approaching a woman and asking her for a date or starting a conversation.

However, not all men are straightforward.

Pay attention to the following signs of a man's attraction:

  1. He lowers his voice when he talks to you.

    Although both men and women lower their voices by several octaves, this behavior is more characteristic of men. Psychologists believe it has to do with biology. nine0007

    Women are attracted to a deeper voice as it is a sign of masculinity and attraction. At the same time, men naturally lower their voices, often without realizing it, to appear more attractive.

  2. He evaluates your figure.

    Studies show that men are easily aroused by visual stimulation. Just looking at a beautiful female figure is enough to turn most men on. nine0007

    Guys try to be restrained in their views. However, you may notice that his gaze sometimes drops to your chest or follows your back as you walk away.

  3. He flaunts himself and preens.

    Although women sometimes "pretty" to appear more attractive to potential partners, men also engage in this behavior. This is a sign of attraction.

    nine0006 However, instead of constantly fixing their hair or touching up their lips, they more often demonstrate their skills or physical abilities . This type of preening occurs naturally in a wide variety of species, including most primates.

    A guy might try to pull off a stupid trick, move a heavy box, or show off his strength in some way.

  4. He does his best to talk to you or be near you.

    You may receive a text message as soon as you leave work, or find him waiting for you at your favorite restaurant.

    A sign of attraction is his constant attempt to find an excuse to spend more time with you. This suggests that, most likely, he wants the relationship to develop.

  5. He flirts with you.

    However, it is far less common for men to actively flirt or engage in harmless flirting with platonic acquaintances. Men usually flirt only with women who attract them .

    This is just one of the signs of attraction and interest in you. Other possible signs include buying gifts or being jealous when you hang out with other men.

  6. He moves closer to you.

    Have you ever noticed that a guy pulls his chair closer to you or leans in your direction when standing at the bar? If so, then he finds you attractive and desirable . And, therefore, in this way, he shows signs of attraction.

    He may start by slowly approaching you to see how interested he is in you. If you don't pull away and signal "get out of my personal space", he will move even closer, as will feel safe in and will be sure that the interest is mutual.

  7. He is trying to get your attention.

    He may see you across the room or in the gym when you are concentrating on your workout. He noticed you and wants to be sure that you notice him. nine0007

    Approach is an eloquent sign of attraction. To get your attention, in addition to approaching, he can also laugh out loud, start pumping iron to show off his physique, or order a drink next to you at a bar.

    A man wants to get your attention to make sure that you find him as attractive as so that he is comfortable starting a conversation.

  8. He is very polite.
    nine0006 Politeness is an obvious sign of attraction. He quickly runs over to hold the door for you, or offers to help you carry groceries. If you are in a restaurant or bar, he will buy you a drink or give you a flower.

    He is not looking for an award . He likes you and wants to let you know that he is interested in you. And he is looking for an answer that his gesture was accepted with reciprocal interest on your part.

  9. He makes sincere compliments. nine0176

    We're not talking about trite pikapersky phrases or insincere remarks that seem well rehearsed - on other women. If he is interested, then he noticed something special about you and took note of it.

    When he has the opportunity, he wants you to know that he noticed this feature. Compliments like, “You have incredible style. You look great in that dress" or "I couldn't help but overhear you talking to your girlfriend - she's lucky to have such a caring friend" are clear signs of attraction that show his interest and sincerity. nine0007

  10. He steals glances at you as often as possible.

    If he looks at you with adoration (too much, too fast) or insolently (fuuuu), it will be repulsive. There is a bit of shyness in his gaze, which indicates that he likes you. He doesn't want to scare you away - or he's afraid of being rejected.

    He holds his gaze long enough to say, "I can't take my eyes off you," but not long enough that you feel like you're being tested. nine0007

    On the other side of the room, you may notice that he is looking in your direction and trying to catch your eye. The warm smile after the look is the exclamation mark at the end of his clear message and the immediate sign of attraction.

Signs of a woman's attraction

Some of the most common signs of a woman's attraction include non-verbal cues such as body language. Women are less direct compared to men. nine0007

Instead of "hooking up" to you, a woman is more likely to flirt using the following signs:

  1. She uses open body language.

    When a woman is not interested, she is more likely to be defensive. She may cross her arms or legs, facing away from you.

    If the woman is interested, she will turn to face you. She can even repeat your posture and posture. If your right leg is slightly forward, she can push her right leg forward. nine0007

    Reflecting and looking at you are signs of attraction that she is comfortable with you and is potentially attracted to you.

  2. She leans over.

    Just as men move closer, women tend to lean in when they are romantically interested in someone because they want to be closer to that person.

    However, some people do not have a sense of personal space. Try to see how she interacts with others. Does she lean in when others speak? If it happens only when you say she is most likely interested in you.

    Leaning in, combined with some of the other signs of attraction listed here, give you some strong clues that she likes you.

  3. She communicates with her eyes.

    While maintaining eye contact is considered polite behavior, a woman is more likely to hold her gaze if she likes you.

    During a conversation, most people will look at you, but then look away from time to time. nine0003 Prolonged eye contact is often a subconscious act. Such an action is a clear sign of attraction.

    If a woman is not interested, she is more likely to look around the room and avoid meeting your eyes, indicating that she wants to get away from the conversation.

  4. She often smiles.

    Smiling is another non-verbal sign of attraction. As with eye contact, people smile to be friendly. nine0007

    If a woman likes you, she may smile at you for no reason, smile shyly when no one is looking, or smile every time you enter the room.

    She can also hold her gaze when she smiles at you.

  5. She is sensitive.

    Touching you is a less subtle sign of attraction, but many guys don't pay attention to it. These light, flirtatious touches are a great indicator of her interest in you. nine0007

    In most situations, a woman won't go out of her way to touch a guy she's not interested in.

    When there is no reason for physical contact, touching you becomes a strong sign.

    Keep in mind that some of these examples don't always mean she likes you. Look for repetitive behavior.

    If a woman accidentally touches your hand once in a crowded room, she may not be interested in you. nine0007

    Showing interest emphasizes repeatedly touching your hand during a conversation, such as when you are telling a joke, which is a sign of attraction to you.

  6. She blushes when near you.

    Blushing is an evolutionary adaptation to attract the opposite sex. Both men and women can blush when talking to a person they like. This is one of the most common signs of a woman's feelings. nine0007

    Women often use blush to mimic this natural effect and appear more attractive. But if her face turns pink where she didn't blush, it could be you. She wants to attract you because she finds you attractive.

  7. She has nervous body language.

    Nervous behavior is a subconscious sign of her attraction to you. All of the chemical energy has to go somewhere, and you can see her interest in her body language. nine0007

    To calm down, a woman may fidget while talking to a man she likes. An example of nervous behavior would be hair twisting or thread picking.

    She may also rub her hands, wiggle her leg cross-legged, blink more often, or touch her face frequently.

  8. Her pupils dilate.

    Dilated pupils - this is a very significant sign of her attraction to you.

    Research shows that your eyes widen when you look at something or someone that attracts you. nine0007

    The purpose of pupil dilation is to allow myself to focus on what is directly in front of me .

    Research has also shown that a slight arousal is enough to cause the pupils to dilate, making this one of the earliest signs of attraction.

    If her pupils seem large, she probably likes you.

    Although sometimes it can be a sign of feeling unwell, it usually means that you are attracted to a person. nine0007

  9. She licks her lips.

    No, she's not that big and scary she-wolf - but she licks her lips in anticipation. A woman does this unconsciously (mostly) because her lips and mouth can dry out when she is attracted to a man. Dry lips and a feeling of dryness in the mouth are clear signs of attraction.

    She may also draw attention to her lips as a invitation to a possible kiss. a not-so-subtle reminder that she is a potential sexual partner. nine0007

  10. She is putting away her purse.

    What does a woman's handbag have to do with signs of attraction? More than you can imagine. Notice where the woman's purse is when she is talking to you.

    Is she lying on the floor or hanging on her shoulder away from you? Or is she hanging in front or lying on her knees between you?

    If she lies between you, then she puts up a barrier that says, “Not interested. Don't come." But if she moves her away from her, she is inviting more intimacy and is probably interested in you. nine0007

  11. She reflects and repeats.

    You cross your legs, she crosses hers. You take a sip of your drink, she does. You touch your hair, she touches hers.

    If her body language mirrors yours, she is trying to connect with you and emphasize your likeness. Why does she do it? Of course, because she likes you! These are all clear signs of attraction.

Can you recognize subtle signs of attraction? nine0005

You will most likely use various verbal and non-verbal signs to show that you are attracted to someone. The person you're attracted to can also use subtle signs of attraction to let you know how they feel.

If you can't pick up his or her signals, you may be missing out on a great new relationship. Therefore, do not forget to follow the other person's subtle signals .

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