Home » Misc » Don t listen to the words i say

Don t listen to the words i say


"dont%20listen%20to%20a%20word%20i%20say?example=57515162" - Song Search

Note! Nothing could be found with that exact search. Showing fuzzy matches.

6,200 songs found (showing 15)

by

Clique

Dope Since 07 (2015)

…with the clown, clown, clowns? Baby I could roll a pound, pound, pound, I was chilling with that baby, 20I was chilling with that pretty 20…

VIEW SONG EXPAND SONG

by

Wyvern Lingo

Awake You Lie (2021)

…[Verse 1] Vision blurred pale surrounds me Need day more from every word you said I don't do so well in these 20A frames skipping…

VIEW SONG EXPAND SONG

by

Lo & Leduc

…: "was hesch du hüt vor?", du meinsch morn U i fingä 20i si easy Scho nächsts Jahr 19i, wüui schnäuer aus ds Liecht bi U du…

VIEW SONG EXPAND SONG

by

Burl Ives

Burl Ives Sings Little White Duck And Other Children'S Favorites (1949)

…swallowed the Frog, and the Mouse and the Rat. 19A. Next to come in was a big old snake, He chased the party into the lake. 20A…

VIEW SONG EXPAND SONG

by

Trupa Veche

1907 KM (2007)

Fara sa-I dau voie Grabita vine intr-una Ziua mea.. E a 20a oara si chiar daca nu-mi pasa O sa fac ce vreau Iar o sa ma puna sa…

VIEW SONG EXPAND SONG

by

Züri West

Arturo Bandini (1991)

…überleit Aber jitz isch aues klar Jitz isch ds 20i abegheit I weiss du bisch dä typ vo dere tankschteu Bi üs im quartier…

VIEW SONG EXPAND SONG

by

Josef Hader

Hader spielt Hader (2009)

…eihaun Da Fraunz duad gean redn üwas Wetta Da Fraunz duad gean um an 20a wettn Da Fraunz schlofd iagandwaun ei am Tisch Und waun…

VIEW SONG EXPAND SONG

by

Mimiks

C.R.A.C.K (2016)

Badmantel ond Crocks ah Fo am Morge am 10i scho met de Shots ah Ändi 20i mol riif före Schrottplatz [Pre-Hook: Aleksej] [Hook: Aleksej & Mimiks]…

VIEW SONG EXPAND SONG

by

Regina Belle

Higher (2012)

LORD, MAKE AN EXAMPLE OUT OF ME LET MY LIFE BE USED AS A VESSEL FOR YOU I'M NOT WORTHY OF ALL YOU DO FOR ME OOH LORD, MAKE AN EXAMPLE…

OUT OF ME LORD, MAKE AN EXAMPLE OUT OF ME I GIVE YOU PERMISSION OOH , LORD, UM MAKE AN EXAMPLE OUT OF ME LET MY LIFE…

BE USED AS A VESSEL FOR YOU I'M NOT WORTHY TO SIT BEFORE YOUR FEET OH LORD MAKE AN EXAMPLE OUT OF ME (IKNOW YOU CAN DO IT JESUS) PLEASE…

VIEW SONG EXPAND SONG

by

Commissioned

Number 7 (1991)

…you can't forget Somebody's watching you So try to be an example Push yourself beyond the limit Give it up You got to keep moving…

You got to keep pushing Your love for God will prove to see you through Be and example, you got to be an example Brothers, we…

We're not trying to bring you down We try to motivate So try to be an example Push yourself beyond the limit Here we go You got…

VIEW SONG EXPAND SONG

by

Kevin Gates

Murder for Hire 2 (2016)

…' it loyal with your niggas, I'm a great example You lean on me, I lean on you Gr-Great example You kill for me, I kill for you Gr-Great…

…example Family, in the state missin' I don't celebrate Christmas Levels, I don't like pictures Jail, I don't do visits You gon…

…' it loyal with your niggas, I'm a great example You lean on me, I lean on you Gr-Great example You kill for me, I kill for you Gr-Great example…

VIEW SONG EXPAND SONG

by

brentalfloss

What If This Cd. .. Had Lyrics? (2010)

…a good example (He's a good example, bitch) Teaches discipline and personal responsibility, ho! He's a good example (He's a good example…

…outta the box, From the chocolate locks to his fresh gym socks I'm his number one fan, this dude fuckin' rocks He's a good example…

…(He's a good example, bitch) Teaches integral and critical decision-making, sucka! He's a good example (He's a good example, bitch…

VIEW SONG EXPAND SONG

by

Nuburo

…that they would indefinitely Keep you alive for the publicity [Chorus: Leon Cox & Oisin Mc Hugh] Follow the example (avoid your own downfall) Avoid…

…your own downfall (back away do what they say) Back away do what they say (follow the example) Otherwise you lose it all Follow the example…

…(avoid your own downfall) Avoid your own downfall (back away do what they say) Back away do what they say (follow the example…

VIEW SONG EXPAND SONG

by

Example

Some Nights Last for Days (2020)

…[Verse 1: Example, Example & Love Fame Tragedy] You told me that you had a bad day Whole damn year didn't go your way I said…

…old tune Time just slipped away, called in sick today Did we fall in love too soon? [Pre-Chorus: Example & Love Fame Tragedy…

…of the month and so you got a new bruise today Whose to say you shouldn't think like that? Whose to say you shouldn't drink? [Chorus: Example…

VIEW SONG EXPAND SONG

by

Rock Plaza Central

Are We Not Horses (2007)

…slitgh Cause i would run more proudly Between your thighs tonight I wanna be a shining example I wanna be a shining example I wanna…

…be a shining example I wanna be a shining example Take these things that i have given Steal five years of my indecision…

The things we make, they shall be written With your wings and my voice of brass bells ringing Well, i wanna be a shining example I wanna…

VIEW SONG EXPAND SONG

LOAD MORE RESULTS

The Art of Listening for What’s Not Being Said: Top 10 Tips

October 4, 2021

When words and actions don’t match as we’re listening; when we have a sense that something’s not quite feeling right in a conversation, there’s a common formula known as the 7-38-55 rule that might be helpful. It indicates only 7 percent of meaning is conveyed through the words we speak, and the remaining percent of meaning is informed by tone of voice (38 percent) and body language (55 percent). When there’s incongruence, a vast majority of the information shared is gleaned from what is NOT being said.

That’s why we can all benefit by learning to better pay attention to what’s not being said whether we’re the one communicating, the one receiving the communication, or both.

A Communicator’s Perspective

First, here are some things that get in the way from a sender’s perspective, and why it’s so critical to listen for what’s not being said:

  • Sometimes, we don’t have the words or vocabulary, nor the emotional self awareness, to express what we’re feeling and get our needs out there.
  • Other times, we are afraid to express our true thoughts or feelings.
  • In today’s multi-tasking world, sometimes we just aren’t able to give all of our attention to a topic or spend enough time delving into why it matters to us.

In each of those cases, when we don’t know how or can’t find time to fully talk about a topic, the result is that we either avoid the conversation all together, or communicate in vague terms that might get glossed over and seem irrelevant to a listener.

A Listener's Perspective

From a listener’s perspective, what gets in the way?

  • We talk too much and don’t listen enough.
  • We listen to respond instead of listening to understand.
  • We’re not listening for word clues or noticing body language that signify there’s additional information that is yet to be uncovered. Body language is an especially important consideration as today’s virtual workplace enables meetings from afar, but with limitations when it comes to seeing and reading the body language of participants.

How well do you truly listen? This free one-page quiz asks 10 questions (to be answered honestly by someone other than yourself) that address indications of whether or not you listen well. Take it today…the results may just surprise you.

Top 10 Tips on How to Listen Better for What's Not Being Said

What then can one do to better listen for what’s not being said?

  1. Be quiet and listen to understand (don’t think about what you will say next). Sometimes jotting down key take-aways or questions that come to mind while listening can be helpful so you can focus on what’s being said not what you want to commit to memory.
  2. Be curious. If you’re not a naturally curious person, ask yourself, “What does this person have to say and what does it make me wonder or want to know more about?”
  3. Listen for the underlying issue or emotion (a fight about dirty clothes on the floor isn’t about the clothes on the floor; there’s a larger issue at play).
  4. Ask clarifying questions to ensure you understand before moving on from a topic. Listen and clarify. Repeat, as needed.
  5. Trust your gut if you’re feeling like you’re not getting the complete story.
  6. Notice any body language changes (i.e., change in position, facial movements), which may be a cue or clue to ask more questions. If the conversation is happening virtually, ask that everyone appear on camera to the extent possible and pay particular attention to when the speaker is making eye contact on screen or looking down / off screen, which may indicate their discomfort with the topic at hand.
  7. Listen for any emotional clues that signal there might be more to the story like extended pauses, subtle references or asides, and moments when the speaker appears to continue talking without adding new information.
  8. When we communicate effectively, we understand where another person is coming from. If you don’t understand where someone else is coming from (you don’t need to agree with them), it means you need to ask more questions.
  9. Ask yourself in your head during a pause in the conversation: “What’s not being said?”
  10. Take the time to allow for dialogue on a given topic before moving on the next one by asking everyone present if they have any additional comments or questions.

There’s not a formula to learn how to listen for what’s not being said, and it will vary based on the person, relationship, or situation. That said, the strategies above are worth considering.

What one strategy to listen for what’s not being said would help you be more effective?

—David Grossman

Now more than ever, leaders play a pivotal role in connecting, calming, and inspiring their teams. A big part of that is leading with Heart First – click below to learn more about Heart First and order yours today.

Tag(s): Leadership Communication

Other posts you might be interested in

View All Posts

Subscribe to the


leadercommunicator Blog!

Get new blog posts delivered directly to your inbox.

LISTEN - Bible Symphony



Ex 23:21

watch yourselves before him, and listen to his voice; do not resist Him, for He will not forgive your sin, for My name is in Him.

Deut 4:1

Therefore, Israel, listen to the ordinances and laws that I teach you to keep, so that you may live and go and inherit the land which the Lord, the God of your fathers, is giving you;

Deut 5:1

And Moses called all Israel together and said to them: listen to Israel, the ordinances and laws that I will pronounce in your ears today, and learn them, and try to keep them.

Deut 5:27

come and listen whatever the Lord our God says to you, and tell us everything the Lord our God says to you, and we will listen and do it.

Deut 6:3

So, listen, O Israel, and strive to do it, that it may be well with you, and that you may multiply greatly, as the Lord, the God of your fathers, told you, that He will give you a land flowing with milk and honey.

Deut 6:4

Hear , Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one;

Deut 9:1

Hear , Israel: now you are going beyond the Jordan to go and take possession of peoples bigger and stronger than you, great cities with fortifications up to the sky,

Deut 12:28

Hear And do all these words that I command you, that it may be good for you and your children after you forever, if you do what is good and right in the sight of the Lord your God.

Deut 13:3

then do not listen to the words of this prophet or this dreamer; for through this the Lord your God tempts you, to know whether you love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul;

Deut 13:8

then do not agree with him and do not listen to him; and let your eye not spare him, do not have pity on him and do not cover him,

Deut 20:3

and say to him: “ listen , Israel! today you enter into battle with your enemies, do not let your heart fail, do not be afraid, do not be embarrassed, and do not be terrified of them,

Deut 27:9

And Moses and the Levite priests said unto all Israel, saying, Heed and listen , Israel: on this day you have become the people of the Lord your God;

Deut 27:10

therefore, listen to the voice of the Lord your God, and do his commandments and his ordinances which I command you today.

Deut 32:1

Hear heaven, I will speak; and listen , earth, the words of my mouth.

1 Kings 20:8

And all the elders and all the people said to him: do not listen and do not agree.

1 Kings 22:28

And Micah said, If you return in peace, then the Lord did not speak through me. And he said: listen , all the people!

Job 15:17

I will tell you, listen to me ; I will tell you what I saw,

Job 33:1

So, listen Job, my words, and attend to all my words.

Job 33:31

Pay attention Job listen to me, be quiet and I will speak.

Job 33:33

if not, then listen to me : be silent, and I will teach you wisdom.

Job 34:16

So, if you have understanding, then listen to this and attend to my words.

Ps 49:7

« Hear My people, I will speak; Israel! I will testify against you: I am God, your God.

Ps 80:9

Hear My people, and I will testify to you: Israel! oh, if only you would listen to Me!

Proverbs 1:8

Hear , my son, the instruction of your father and do not reject your mother's covenant life.

Proverbs 22:17

Incline your ear, and listen to the words of the wise, and turn your heart to my knowledge;

Proverbs 23:19

Hear my son, and be wise and direct your heart to the straight path.

Isaiah 44:1

And now listen , Jacob my servant, and Israel whom I have chosen.

Jer 6:19

Hear , earth: behold, I will bring destruction upon this people, the fruit of their thoughts; for they have not listened to my words, and have rejected my law.

Jer 22:29

O earth, earth, earth! listen to the word of the Lord.

Jer 34:4

However, hearken to the word of the Lord, Zedekiah, king of the Jews! thus says the Lord of you: you will not die by the sword;

Eze 2:8

But you, son of man, listen to what I will tell you; do not be stubborn like this rebellious house; open your mouth and eat what I give you.

Eze 3:27

And when I speak to you, then I will open your mouth, and you will say to them, “Thus says the Lord God!” Whoever wants to listen, listen ; and whoever does not want to listen, do not listen to : for they are a rebellious house.

Eze 20:47

And say to the southern forest: listen to the word of the Lord; thus says the Lord God: Behold, I will kindle a fire in you, and it will devour every green tree and every dry tree in you; the blazing flame shall not be quenched, and all shall be scorched by it from south to north.

Eze 40:4

And this man said to me, “Son of man! look with your eyes and listen with your ears, and apply your heart to everything that I will show you, for this is why you were brought here so that I would show you this; everything you see, build up for the house of Israel.”

Eze 44:5

And the Lord said to me, Son of man! add your heart to everything, and look with your eyes, and hear with your ears everything that I tell you about all the ordinances of the house of the Lord and all its laws; and add your heart to the entrance to the temple and to all the exits from the sanctuary.

Mark 12:29

Jesus answered him: the first of all the commandments: “ listen, Israel! The Lord our God is the only Lord;

Acts 23:21

But you don't listen to them ; for more than forty of them lie in wait for him, who have sworn not to eat or drink until they kill him; and they are now ready, awaiting your order.

Bar 3:9

Hear O Israel, the commandments of life, heed, that you may understand wisdom.

3 Ezr 6:13

He answered me and said, Get up on your feet, and listen a voice full of noise,

3 Ezr 7:20005 listen the words I came to speak to you.

Ezra 9:30

and said: " Hear Me, O Israel, and heed My words, O seed of Jacob. you before you begin to disappear:

3Ezd 11:38

listen what I will tell you and what the Almighty will tell you:

3Ezd 14:28

listen , Israel, these words:

3 Ezr 16:41

Hear the word, my people: prepare for battle, and in the midst of disasters be like aliens of the earth.

Sir 16:24

Hear me, my son, and learn knowledge, and attend with your heart to my words.

False prophets, false teachers - the Word of God (quotations from the Bible), comp. K.V. Gritsenko

compiled by K. V. Gritsenko

Word of God (quotations from the Bible)

Flattery Perjury

Download