I fell out of love with my boyfriend
8 Signs You’re Falling Out of Love With Your Partner
- Relationships
- Love & Dating
Plus, advice on how to handle this situation.
By
Stacey Laura Lloyd
Stacey Laura Lloyd
Stacey Laura Lloyd is an author with a passion for helping others find happiness and success in their dating lives as well as in their relationships.
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You and your partner were all smiles and passion at the beginning of your relationship. After some time, though, those euphoric feelings faded, and you've now found yourself reminiscing on the good times instead of looking forward to the future. If this sounds like you, you may be wondering: Am I falling out of love?
"When we leave the honeymoon phase, the rose-colored glasses we’ve worn up until that point begin to fade away, and for the first time, we see our areas of difference. This is natural," says relationship expert Chanel Dokun, cofounder of Healthy Minds NYC. "But when we’re truly falling out of love, the negative begins to outweigh the positive."
Meet the Expert
Chanel Dokun is a life planner and relationship expert trained in marriage and family therapy. She is the cofounder of therapy practice Healthy Minds NYC and the founder of Women of Consequence, a life-coaching service for women.
Unlike leaving the honeymoon phase of a relationship, which is an important step in taking your partnership to the next level, falling out of love means seeing the negative aspects of the person and not being able to move past them. When falling out of love, "We often become fixated on our differences, unable to find any common ground, and the flaws our partner has are no longer viewed as opportunities for growth but major character flaws," says Dokun.
Keep in mind that if you feel like you're falling out of love, it doesn't mean you don't care about your partner; it just means those intense feelings you used to experience aren't quite there anymore. You may feel pangs of guilt about your faded feelings, but that doesn't mean you should stay in a relationship that doesn't bring you joy. Even if you don't want to hurt the person, it's imperative that you listen to your heart and do what's best for you and your partner.
If you're wondering whether or not you're falling out of love with your partner, be on the lookout for these eight signs.
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You’re Not Excited to Spend Time Together
If you were inseparable at the beginning of your relationship but no longer look forward to spending quality time with your partner, it may be a sign that you're falling out of love. On one hand, giving each other more space can be healthy. But if you find yourself eagerly making plans with anyone and everyone yet dreading an upcoming dinner date with your partner, it's time to reconsider your feelings.
It's nothing to feel guilty about, but it is an opportunity to reflect on your relationship—and yourself—to determine whether you're truly falling out of love. Evaluate what could be the driving force behind this change of heart, says Dokun. For example, "Lack of desire to see a partner could be indicative of a personal insecurity or fear of becoming too attached," she says.
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You’re Not Open With Your Partner
When you feel comfortable sharing your innermost thoughts with another person, it's exciting. Opening up is an excellent way to connect with someone, so if you were once completely forthright and honest with your partner but are suddenly not interested in discussing what's on your mind, that's a red flag.
Worse, if you find your desire to share growing smaller and smaller to the point where you stop communicating with them altogether—also known as "stonewalling"—it's a sign that your relationship is becoming irreparable, says Dokun.
Connecting with someone you're dating is a huge part of any successful relationship, so if you're walking away from conversations, not making eye contact, or refusing to discuss your feelings, it might be time to sever ties.
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You Seek Out Opportunities to Avoid Your Partner
Besides no longer getting excited to spend time together, you may find yourself flat-out avoiding your partner. You may stay late at work, see movies or eat dinner by yourself, or even take the long way home to avoid being with your partner for a moment longer than you have to. When you’re actively finding ways to be without your significant other, it’s clear that either your feelings for that person have changed, or you aren't getting what you need out of the relationship.
If you find yourself avoiding your partner, take a step back and think about why. Once you've come to terms with your perspective, initiate an honest conversation. Ask your partner for what you need in order to strengthen your emotional experience together, if you feel your relationship still has potential,
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You Choose Silent Contempt Over Disagreements
No one likes to argue, but sometimes you have to in order to strengthen your bond.
Expressing and working through anger and hurt is crucial to maintaining a healthy partnership. Otherwise, your negative emotions will build into contempt—another major relationship killer, says Dokun—and it will sour every interaction you have with your partner. If you constantly keep quiet about the things they do that annoy or upset you instead of having discussions about them, your contempt may take over and slowly eat away at your relationship until its breaking point. This is a telltale sign you're falling out of love.
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You Feel Uncertain About Your Future With Them
If you're unsure if you're falling out of love, ask yourself how you feel about your future as a couple. If you feel unhappy, trapped, or scared at the idea of being with your partner for the long haul, it's time to have a conversation with them. First, "Process your feelings through journaling, meditation, or even speaking with a neutral party, like a therapist," says Dokun. When you sit down to talk to your partner, "Simply state what you feel, and the concerns you’re having about what this could mean for your future together.
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Not looking forward to a future with your partner could be a clear indication of your faded feelings, but it could also be more complicated than that. "Feeling hopeless about the future could be that you’ve missed out on having meaningful conversations to this point and you’re unaware of your partner’s desires," says Dokun. It doesn't always mean you are no longer in love, but it's definitely a sign you should open a line of communication.
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You’re Longing for Someone (or Something) Else
If you've been in a monogamous relationship with your partner for a long time, it's totally normal for you to develop a crush on someone else—as long as you don't act on it. After all, you're only human, and you can't help but find other people attractive. Your innocent crush can become a problem, though, if it minimizes your desire for your partner. If you find yourself thinking about all the things you could do and people you could meet if only you weren't in a relationship, it might be a sign you've fallen out of love.
When someone falls out of love, "They begin to shift their perspective from 'we' back to 'me,' primarily concerned with protecting their own needs, pursuing their own interests (at the expense of their partner), and building up distance or possibly resentment within the relationship," says Dokun. Constantly fantasizing about being with other people or intensely craving new experiences is a sign that you're no longer fully invested in your partner.
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You're Overly Defensive
Dokun references Drs. John and Julie Gottman's theory of the "Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse," or four dynamics that will bring a relationship to its demise: criticism, stonewalling, defensiveness, and contempt. We've already touched on stonewalling and contempt; defensiveness is another harmful communication tactic that shows you no longer see your partner in a positive light. Being defensive means shifting blame onto your partner in every situation as a response to feeling criticized or accused.
When you're defensive, it's impossible for your partner to air their grievances and communicate with you effectively. If you find you're being defensive in most conversations you have with your partner, you may be lacking the love it takes to keep the relationship going.
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You Constantly Criticize Your Partner
Nobody likes being criticized, especially not a romantic partner. Another of the "Four Horseman." Criticism that becomes pervasive in your relationship is another sign you're falling out of love with your partner. Instead of being considerate of their feelings and expressing your disappointment in a respectful way, you assault their character every time they make a mistake or let you down in some way. According to the Gottmans, criticism is often the precursor to the other three horsemen.
It all comes down to whether you feel your criticism stems from not loving your partner or from some other internal psychological battle. This applies to all the signs above, too.
Says Dokun, "Always ask yourself, 'What fear might be influencing my reaction to my partner, and is this something I am able to address or overcome without missing out on a great love of my life?'"
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The Gottman Institute. "The Four Horsemen: Criticism." Apr. 29, 2013.
What To Do When You're Falling Out Of Love With Your Partner
What falling out of love feels like.
For starters, falling out of love—just like falling in love—is different for each person, according to Vermont-based licensed clinical psychologist Lindsay Jernigan, Ph.
D. It may be fast and furious or slow and gentle; however, there are commonalities that come with the loss of love in a partner.
"If you are falling out of love, you may feel a sense of strain and effort in daily interactions with your partner as your internal feelings and external life become increasingly incongruent," she tells mindbodygreen. "As a result, you may find yourself feeling more comfortable apart than you feel together—more authentic and able to be in a state of flow."
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Signs you're falling out of love.
- You're less interested in spending time with them.
- You feel more comfortable apart than you feel together.
- You're thinking about them less and less.
- They start to feel like a burden.
- Their behavior is increasingly annoying to you.
- You feel like you're just going through the motions.
- There's a lot of strain and effort when it comes to your daily interactions with them.
- You're no longer having meaningful conversations.
- You feel more authentic and in flow when they're not around.
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Is it even possible to fall back in love?
At this point, reviving your relationship with your partner may seem futile. But it's absolutely possible, according to Michelle Herzog, LMFT, a Chicago-based couples therapist and AASECT-certified sex therapist. She believes that, yes, you can fall back in love with your partner—but it won't be easy. Not only will you need to reflect on your partner and partnership, but you'll also need to look within.
"This may also include deeper self-work, which includes understanding the parts that contributed to the 'fall out,'" she tells mbg. "When we take a deeper look, we may find that our needs weren't getting met or that we did not feel challenged, therefore not growing as an individual.
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Working with a therapist can be helpful in assessing where both your hearts lie. Jernigan recommends discernment counseling, a type of therapy specifically designed to help couples work toward either reawakening their love or saying a loving goodbye. You can also look into couples therapy more broadly.
How to stop falling out of love with your partner.
If you and your partner decide you're both dedicated to reviving your relationship, then here are some therapist-approved tips to help you navigate the path back to love.
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Break old habits.
Take a moment to figure out your personal weak spots and the problematic dynamics that contributed to the downfall of your relationship. While it's easy to get caught up in what our partner did—or more likely, didn't—do, we need to shift our focus to the part of the equation that we can control: ourselves and what we contributed to the relationship.
Think about what you want from your partner and then ask yourself if you're even delivering it yourself. (Hello, the golden rule of treating others the way you'd like to be treated.) "If you're not, take the risk to give what you may not be receiving," Jernigan says. "Someone has to go first. If your relationship is going to get out of the rut, you have to put pride and fear aside and risk-taking the first leap toward change."
Next, ask yourself about how your partner can show up for you and whether or not you're creating such conditions, she says. For example, maybe you want more physical touch from your partner, but you just can't put down your phone in the evenings.
Of course, have your partner explore their own answers to these questions too—and remember to not get defensive or point fingers.
Ultimately, identifying issues is great and dandy, but positive outcomes only come with put in the effort to change your behaviors. "What is more important than the problematic patterns, themselves, are the intentions of both partners to genuinely grow and take risks to create change," Jernigan says.
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Prioritize each other.
Remember when you two first started dating and couldn't get away from each other? In the infancy of your relationship, you purposefully created a space for your love—it's time to do that again, Jernigan says. Once the honeymoon stage is over, we end up taking our partners for granted, believing that they'll just always be there for us. But this neglect can cause serious damage to a relationship.
Plan dates ahead of time and mark them in your calendar. Set a bedtime so you're both making time for sex and pillow talk. Send each other loving and flirtatious texts during the day. Most importantly, turn your phones off in the evening and set (and actually follow!) boundaries with work.
On top of quality time, Herzog recommends ushering in check-ins with your partner about your relationship to see how you're both feeling about where you're going and how you're being treated.
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3.
Show up authentically.
Who wants to be involved in a relationship where both partners don't feel like their authentic, true selves? How can a relationship be real then?
"Sometimes we fall out of love because we have overly adapted ourselves to fit into what we think is expected of us in our relationship, and as a result, we feel like a shrunken version of ourselves," Jernigan explains. "Love can't flourish under these conditions!"
Tap back into your own passion and creativity. Rediscover who you are and share it with your partner—and let them do the same! "If we let our personal fires go out, our relationship loses heat," Jernigan says. The result? Resentment and emptiness.
Showing up authentically also means being honest and present with your partner. Maybe your partner, who tends to be more reserved, has expressed that they don't like how rambunctious your personality can be, so you hold yourself in, Jernigan says as an example. However, you end up feeling resentful and judged, maybe even claustrophobic.
It's time to be open with your partner about your inner truth and real self.
"If the relationship can't survive bringing your whole self to the table, then it's not the relationship for you," she says. "If it's a healthy bond, your connection will feel more vibrant, sensual, playful, and expansive the more of yourself you bring into it."
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Don't force it.
Although worth it if it works out, revitalizing a sense of real, meaningful love is far from easy, and the reality may be that it is time to respectfully let each other go. All parties involved need to be fully committed and motivated to putting in the work. "If one person is halfway out the door, then the likelihood of them turning back toward the relationship is low," Herzog says. While this is without a doubt a difficult time, just remember that there is nothing wrong with having outgrown a once happy and healthy relationship. All parties involved deserve relationships full of playfulness, security, and love.
The takeaway.
Regardless of whether or not you choose to renew the relationship, realizing you're falling out of love with someone offers a critical time for you to reflect on your wants and needs in a partnership and if and how you can deliver those conditions yourself. That way, you can be a better partner in your revived relationship—or in your next one.
What changed when you fell out of love?
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The woman feels calm, because she has stopped twitching, giving energy to the man who does not return her in the form she needs in order to continue to "love" him.
you start looking at a person without rose-colored glasses, his value is greatly reduced
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I didn't understand you. Canned people?
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why don't you ask about the "cowardly asshole scheme" or the "Winnie the Pooh" syndrome?
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Don't confuse your fucking ego addictions with love.
You initially choose Winnie the Poohs as a couple (a funny concept, of course, and someone else believes in it) Then build theories on this basis why it didn’t work out.
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I kind of love and respect him. But I realized that something is already wrong with love. It seems that he is not disgusting to me and we sleep together and do not swear and help each other, we discuss everything. It’s just that without him I breathe more freely, there are no worries, no even household chores, I really don’t want to really delve into his problems and help. In general, like a mountain from the shoulders. I don't want to leave yet. I arrange a vacation for myself, I go to my mother. He is a little infantile, you always have to give a kick, dance with a tambourine and sing praises. Maybe I didn’t stop loving it, but the excessive initiative from me really annoys me, very much. I'm tired. While he began to enjoy going to the dentist himself, a lot of effort was invested in taking him there. It's his mother's fault.
Sometimes it seems to me that their whole family belongs to you.
What to do if I fell out of love ...
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So forget this feeling of guilt, you are now just on the other side of the same situation.
And do not flatter yourself about: "The current MCH gave such unearthly love and tenderness, I have never felt such an all-encompassing love before" - firstly, this is temporary, secondly. gaveL.
So don't step on your song's throat, you've been in suckers enough already, behave with him as you please. without any remorse.
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Or is this a romantic act for him?
I would never meet such a romantic.
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Thank you, I think so too... but such strong feelings should not go away forever...
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Apparently, it was not enough to convey my emotions (I loved him, loved him endlessly, and probably continue to love, it just seems that some feelings are passed through a filter .. And about his love - believe me, if you faced with this in reality, they would be able to make sure that the temporality of feelings here is out of the question.And gave - I mean at the time of my separation at that time.
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both) Why?
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It's just a question of your attitude.
I recommend accepting his affection and that's it.
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Why did he walk across the city? Was there no money for the tram?
Or is this a romantic act for him?
I would never meet such a romantic.
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Yes, honestly, I was hoping)
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6 It seems that I fell out of love with my MCH .... (We have been together for almost a year, and honestly, these months, these days were the happiest for me ... He cured me of unsuccessful previous relationships. Before him, I lived with my ex for 4 years, then I left him because of suddenly flared feelings for another, he took advantage of me and left me broken. compares with previous relationships ... We lived together for a while, then the rented apartment went up and we had to part for a while, now for the fourth month we have been living separately.
My problem is that it seems to me that my feelings have become a habit ... If obviously - you rarely meet such a sincere, caring, romantic, completely surrendering person ... I know that his feelings for me are genuine and pure, that he really loves me more than anything in the world, and he constantly proves this ... A month ago I felt the same thing, to the last line ... She lived with him, breathed him, was ready at night and the rain to rush to him even to the ends of the world ... And lately I notice that I don’t miss him so much, I don’t want him so much, not so touching all these cute deeds... He came to me on foot across the city and left a note on the car, and I read it, put it in my bag and forgot about it... I apologize for the post being too long, but I really don't I want to lose him and hurt him... How can I get my cold feelings back?... Right now I am writing this, and my breath is a little off, and my fingers are trembling... Maybe everything is not lost for us yet?.. Or, when they start to annoy even dignity, is it not worth pulling the rubber? .
.. I ask for advice and help ...
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No matter how much I re-read, I did not find a word about orgasm) What is the connection between orgasm and love? Never simulated, everything is fine in this regard..
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He's definitely going to be so impersonal hahahah! and unruffled like me.
.. And I probably wouldn't mind...
The author cannot be in a normal relationship with a man. You should beat her and spit on her - then she will be happy.
Love without suffering is not interesting for vampires...
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9000 MEADOW2 SIGH0005 No matter how much I re-read, I did not find a word about orgasm) What is the connection between orgasm and love? I never simulated, everything is fine in this regard. it’s probably artificial) and it always usually turns out that the lady didn’t experience an orgasm with her MCH (that is, she may have had an orgasm by herself, but not with MCH) Just don’t say that you experienced an orgasm with him (and even multiple) in every pa women won't believe you.
.....!!! 9Meadow ... He cured me of previous unsuccessful relationships... Before him, I lived with my ex for 4 years, then I left him because of sudden feelings for another, he took advantage of me and left me broken ...
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maybe this MCH was just like a "pill" for you... and you just fulfilled your mission.. beloved, believe in yourself and all that ... But in general, it would be better to appreciate your current MCH, learn to get orgasms with him., because it’s not a fact that you will find the same person who will treat you as sincerely.
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Author, believe me, your MCH, like all men, will someday cool down to you and change/leave.
Right now, it has not cooled down yet, because you do not like him initially.
So forget this feeling of guilt, you are now just on the other side of the same situation.
And do not flatter yourself about: "The current MCH gave such unearthly love and tenderness, I have never felt such an all-encompassing love before" - firstly, this is temporary, secondly. gaveL.
So don't step on your song's throat, you've been in suckers enough already, behave with him as you please. without any remorse.
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Inaccessible stories
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As for the torn off by all - special thanks to the Guest.
You people are stupid, stupid. What kind of "imitation", what kind of "I never finished with you", what kind of "liar", ***?)))
Thanks to everyone for the answers, here, apparently, everyone is turned on sex, and I climbed, stupid, to ask about how to save love...)
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So "Completely Satisfying" that fell out of love with the guy? What are these orgasms? If it was an orgasm, of course, and not pretense on your part. If you can’t be satisfied with yourself, what can you expect from a guy?
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she is quite passive herself, but when it hits, it satisfies me completely, and that's all I would like to discuss on this topic.
As for the one torn off by everyone - special thanks to the Guest.
You people are stupid, stupid. What kind of "imitation", what kind of "I never finished with you", what kind of "lied", ***?)))
Thanks to everyone for the answers, here, apparently, everyone is turned on sex, and I climbed, stupid, asking about how to save love...)
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And we, women, do not like the swamp where people live with each other just out of habit or out of a sense of duty, invented or imposed by someone!
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2) Everyone is right, you only need time - feelings come and go, then they can return again.
3) It's not worth it because it seems that they have stopped loving him - to leave him.
You need to figure out what you wanted at that moment. Maybe you just wanted him and that's it.
Otherwise, if you were really overwhelmed with emotions - you felt his tenderness, care ... everything he did for you - could bring a smile to your face ... you were pleased that he was just there, etc. P. So they loved. Then, just live on, the feelings will return and fade away and be restored more than once. You just need to live. Do not be afraid - the main thing is to believe that everything will be fine! Imagine your future next to him. What a wonderful and caring father he will be....and just look at others...would you like other men to be close to you?! Do you want this "dirt" - (searching for a kind of ideal, but in the end it will look like you will just be a SEND?:%: *J) and therefore you will be confused in your feelings? Do you... want someone else to be the father of your children?!.
... If yes... well... it's up to you.... If not, then everything will be fine) Let's give him a little more care than now , but a little ... so that later everything does not work out on the contrary ... it will be more difficult to deal with men ...
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Always when I hear the first thing that comes to mind: why do you come to mind so and didn’t learn how to experience an orgasm with him?! I have no doubt about his orgasm, but why did you do imitation so that later you could tell everyone that I don’t love him !!?
I lost communication, it may not have been. There were probably rose-colored glasses (((
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You are right.
It’s not even a matter of pragmatism, but of subtle spiritual structures ...) I want to learn, as before, to experience joy when you see him, to take your breath away from his kisses, to be bored at the slightest separation, to want to please and surprise ... Maybe
If you want to learn how to rejoice as before, there is only 1 way: pray and go to the end (if deep down you still want to give it a chance)...
If you are sure not, break up. You will not part because of pity, you will meet another and that's it ... your chain with couples will continue. Then another will wipe his feet about you again. This is the boomerang principle.
Since I have the same thing, I advise you and myself to leave before it's too late. It hurts to force yourself too!
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It seems to me that the point here is that you liked to suffer ...
and from the fact that you were loved and cherished, you became not very comfortable. there are people who need to be kept in a fist and they subconsciously like it, and when you start carrying them in your arms they quickly get bored)
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Oh, what kind of people are you...) In sex, I myself am quite passive, but when it hits, it satisfies me completely, and this everything I would like to discuss on this topic.
As for the one torn off by everyone - special thanks to the Guest.
You people are stupid, stupid. What kind of "imitation", what kind of "I never finished with you", what kind of "liar", ***?)))
Thanks to everyone for the answers, here, apparently, everyone is turned on sex, and I climbed, stupid, to ask about how to save love...)
Don't listen to anyone at all. Listen to your heart - the best adviser!
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You wrote:
"yes, because women live not by their minds, but by their feelings !!! AND YES, it is important for us to constantly feel love, love and passion and YES, we want to live ALL our lives in this exalted state.
And we women don't like the swamp where people live with each other just out of habit or out of a sense of duty, invented or imposed by someone!"
And now I:
Yes, you want
We guys are created to fuck with everyone and swagger as we want, only we can live like this, but you live so little, and then you think how to lasso him, the guy is good! It's you who imposes and you impose this "swamp"! And you make the guy cheerful, walked, joked, was the soul of any company, and then you he was drawn to you by visible and invisible ways and if he showed weakness, he became your slave.0005
And then, as MADEMOISELLE said (in a nutshell) "girls, we were suckers for a long time, let's beat these freaks with eggs and live as we want."
Yes, only dear ones... it happens that you love, they leave you, you are sad for two years, and you don’t want to live without her, but you continue to work and develop...
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