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In the company, people do not listen to me and constantly interrupt me

In the company, people …

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I have the same. I don't know what's the matter. This effect is less pronounced if they need help. But the only way I see is to change society for a better one. Find someone who will respect you.
By the way, if people come to you for advice but still don't listen and don't let you speak, you can say something about their problem: "it's easy to solve, and exactly how I already told you. I believe in you! ". They didn't listen, so they won't know if it's true. That's how I troll some.



Then why bother in a company where they don't pay attention to you?


eto. ya

Who climbs then😅
I need it hurts, it's not about resentment that there are no friends and no one needs me (everything is ok with that, it was just about conversations between several people ) I have only two friends and it’s enough for me that they listen to me. The resentment is that sometimes you feel sorry for the thoughts spent on the "deaf"

here some write “why are you in a company in which they don’t listen to you”, “mumble”, etc. Although I wrote that I speak loudly enough and have more than enough self-confidence, but MY upbringing does not allow me to yell even louder for the second time to dumbasses who stupidly hear only themselves or brothers in “reason”. Better shut up and leave. In principle, my two childhood friends, a young man and relatives are enough for me. But still it's a shame, although sometimes my words or advice would help them in some matters. They will contact me - I'll try to do as you said, an interesting idea))) Thanks for the answer 👏🏻

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    Guest to be friends with them. It always amazes me how you are friends with each other ... straight, a mystery to me)). Even here on the forum you remember each other, make friends, make friends, find a lot in common. -a gray faceless mass, I don’t focus attention on anyone. Men are a separate issue.

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    And people love. when others have a worse situation. than they have, they assert themselves at the expense of it. Think so.

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    I probably also love .Yes, not probably, but definitely. I don’t like anyone either, people are boring to be friends with them. It always amazes me how you are friends with each other ... straight, a mystery to me)). I’ve been here for a long time, but for me it’s all a gray faceless mass, I don’t focus on anyone. Men are a separate issue. I haven’t met a single smart one yet. in life, this is a primitive one continuous, no fantasy.



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    A person is initially alone. He comes into this world alone and leaves alone. In life, what you give is what you get. Do you want love? Let's love.

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    Girls, how old are you? Everything will be in time: both friends and love! It's funny to listen to you (that is, to read).



    will not succeed, what is not there, it will not be,

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    but in general, what difference does it make to you to some leftist people?) Do you have one very close friend? if so, don't sweat it. but this is in the event that everything is ok with the character ... many, when communicating with just a friend, begin to load her with problems and feelings as if she is the best friend .. did you happen to notice something like this?




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    Sometimes it seems that the whole world is against me. I had friends who loved me and I loved them. We always had fun talking, we understood each other well. Oh, how I want to find a person who will understand me ... But they disappeared (left my city). At the place of study, new people have appeared who ignore, insult, set me up, humiliate me (I don’t do anything to them). They hate me. It's very hard to live without friends. And my parents don't like me either. Only negative attention is paid to me.




    And parents never loved - mother always beat and reproached, dad, probably loved, but did not interfere in front of others or as a clown exposed, and if she did not want to perform, then it means harmful, disgusting, unworthy.

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