Crying before work


What It Is and How to Deal with It

If you feel depressed when working, you’re not alone. Sadness, anxiety, loss of motivation, difficulty concentrating, unexplained bouts of crying, and boredom are just a small sampling of the things you may be feeling if you’re experiencing depressive symptoms at work.

Depression impacts over 17 million American adults each year.

And data from the State of Mental Health in America 2021 survey shows that the number of people seeking help for depression increased significantly from 2019 to 2020.

There was a 62 percent increase in people who took the survey’s depression screen — and of those people, 8 in 10 tested positive for symptoms of moderate to severe depression.

When you consider that full-time employees spend an average of 8.5 hours per day working on weekdays and 5.5 hours working on weekends and holidays, according to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, it comes as no surprise that many of them will experience symptoms of depression while on the job.

Read on to find out why work might be triggering depressive symptoms, how to identify the signs, where to get help, and what you can do to start feeling better.

While a job may not cause depression, the environment may worsen symptoms for people who already live with depression.

“Any workplace or job can be a potential cause or a contributing factor for depression depending on the level of stress and available support at the workplace,” said Rashmi Parmar, MD, a psychiatrist at Community Psychiatry.

According to the World Health Organization (WHO), a negative working environment can lead to:

  • mental and physical health concerns
  • absenteeism
  • lost productivity
  • increased substance use

Mental Health America reports that depression ranks among the top three problems in the workplace for employee assistance professionals.

As with any other health condition, Parmar says, awareness and early detection are key.

“Depression is a complex condition with a varied manifestation of thoughts, feelings, and behavior that can affect anyone and everyone, and a variety of work and non-work-related factors might be at play when we consider someone struggling with workplace depression,” she explained.

The signs of depression at work are similar to general depressive symptoms. That said, some may look more specific to a workplace setting.

This depression will affect your level of functioning in your job as well as at home, Parmar said.

Some of the more common signs of work depression include:

  • increased anxiety levels, especially when managing stressful situations or thinking about work when you’re away from your job
  • overall feelings of boredom and complacency about your job
  • low energy and lack of motivation to do things, which can sometimes manifest as boredom in tasks
  • persistent or prolonged feelings of sadness or low mood.
  • loss of interest in tasks at work, especially duties that you previously found interesting and fulfilling
  • feelings of hopelessness, helplessness, worthlessness, or overwhelming guilt
  • inability to concentrate or pay attention to work tasks and trouble retaining or remembering things, especially new information
  • making excessive errors in daily work tasks
  • an increase or decrease in weight or appetite
  • physical complaints like headaches, fatigue, and upset stomach
  • increased absences or coming late and leaving early
  • impaired decision-making capacity
  • irritability, increased anger, and poor frustration tolerance
  • crying spells or tearfulness at work, with or without any apparent triggers
  • trouble sleeping or sleeping too much (like taking naps during regular work hours)
  • self-medication with alcohol or substances

If you’re good at masking or internalizing them, these signs of work depression might not be visible to your co-workers. But there are some symptoms they may be more likely to notice.

According to Parmar, here are some common signs of work depression to be aware of:

  • withdrawal or isolation from other people
  • poor self-hygiene or significant change in appearance
  • late arrival at work, missed meetings, or absent days
  • procrastination, missed deadlines, reduced productivity, subpar performance in tasks, increased errors, or difficulty making decisions
  • seeming indifference, forgetfulness, detachment, and disinterest in things
  • an appearance of tiredness for most or part of the day (may be taking afternoon naps at work)
  • irritability, anger, feeling overwhelmed, or getting very emotional during conversations (may start crying suddenly or become tearful over trivial things)
  • lack confidence while attempting tasks

There are various reasons why you may be dealing with an increase in depressive symptoms at work. And while no two people — or experiences — are the same, some common themes seem to emerge when pinpointing the causes or triggers of signs of depression at work.

While not an exhaustive list, the following situations may contribute to work depression:

  • feeling like you have no control over work issues
  • feeling like your job is in jeopardy
  • working in a toxic work environment
  • being overworked or underpaid
  • experiencing workplace harassment or discrimination
  • working irregular hours
  • lacking balance between work and home
  • working in a setting that doesn’t match your personal values
  • doing work that doesn’t further your career goals
  • experiencing poor or unsafe working conditions

Work stress vs. work depression

It’s not uncommon to experience stress at work, but don’t ignore feelings of depression. It’s important to know the difference.

Work stress

  • stress that decreases in intensity when the stressor passes
  • occasional bouts of feeling anxious and irritable
  • muscle tension or headaches

Work depression

  • increased feelings of sadness and crying
  • persistent feelings of anxiety
  • increased lack of focus and concentration
  • feeling bored and not fulfilled in your job

Leela R. Magavi, MD, a psychiatrist and regional medical director at Community Psychiatry, said she works with many clients who are adversely affected by engaging in work they aren’t passionate about.

“Individuals can mindlessly complete tasks throughout the day and begin to feel disconnected and demoralized, which can exacerbate anxiety and depressive symptoms,” she explained.

Others may have little time to consume meals or hydrate throughout the day, which Magavi suggested could worsen fatigue and inattentiveness.

Working remotely, while convenient, comes with its pitfalls. According to Parmar, the boundary between personal and professional life can easily disappear, causing major upheavals in your daily routine.

And creating and sticking to a structured routine at home is easier said than done.

“Without a routine, boredom can slowly creep in, giving way to depressive feelings and thoughts,” she said.

Without the social environment at work, Parmar said many people working from home experience feelings of loneliness and isolation.

“We’re forced to rely on chats or messages, phone calls, and video calls to connect with our friends and colleagues, which adds to our already increased screen time,” she said.

Remote work during COVID-19: Tips for improving your mental health

If working from home is your new “normal,” at least for now, you might be experiencing increased feelings of anxiety, stress, and depression.

Here are a few things you can do when those feelings surface:

  • Get out of the house and take a walk.
  • Keep your workspace separate from other parts of the house.
  • Get rid of clutter around your desk.
  • Practice 5 minutes of mindfulness meditation in the morning, afternoon, and before you call it a day.
  • Call a non-work friend.
  • Step away from the screen throughout the day.

Adding to this, Parmar said many people might be working more hours than usual, since it can be hard to keep track of time while at home.

“It is very natural to get overwhelmed from all these factors and feel depressed or anxious,” she explained.

Magavi suggested prolonged remote work could create many emotional, physical, and financial hurdles for individuals.

“Low-income families are significantly disadvantaged due to limited resources or access to stable Wi-Fi, while other families, regardless of income, may be increasingly exposed to domestic violence due to displaced anger caused by the pandemic and associated stressors,” she said.

“Individuals may feel like there is nothing to look forward to, or they may struggle, as they no longer have an outlet to normalize their feelings of burnout with fellow employees,” she added.

No matter where you work, managing symptoms at work can be challenging. The good news is there are things you can do when you’re feeling depressed:

  • Take a 10-minute break away from your desk or office.
  • Take a lunch break and get outdoors.
  • Go for a quick walk during a break — even if it’s indoors, exercise does wonders for mental health.
  • Take a mental health day.
  • Practice a few minutes of mindfulness meditation.
  • Incorporate deep breathing exercises into your day.
  • Say no to one small thing that allows you to experience less stress during the day.
  • Watch a funny video.

Some of the risk factors for depression at work, according to Magavi, include:

  • dismissive managers
  • effort-reward imbalance
  • workplace politics
  • workplace gossip
  • workplace bullying
  • high job demands
  • low decision latitude
  • limited social support in the workplace

Parmar pointed to additional risk factors like:

  • unfair expectations
  • excessive workload
  • unclear or mismanaged roles at work

She also suggested that a poor job fit can increase emotional and physical distress, leading to burnout, as can a poor emphasis on work-life balance.

Additionally, excessive long shifts of 10 to 12 hours or more or shifts during odd hours of the day that disrupt routines and sleep patterns are also risk factors.

A 2019 review found that shift workers, especially females, were at an increased risk for poor mental health — specifically symptoms of depression.

If you’re noticing a link between depressive symptoms and your workplace, don’t wait to seek help. Talking with your immediate supervisor or boss is a good first step — as long as you feel supported by them.

Sometimes a change in assignment or location within an office or organization can help reduce symptoms.

You can also ask the human resources department if your company has an employee assistance program. This is a work-based program that offers mental health–related services for personal and work concerns.

Outside of work, a combination of psychotherapy, medication, and lifestyle interventions are often recommended for treating depression. You can get help from professionals in person and online.

Finding help for depression

Help for depression is available online, in person, and through helplines. Here are some resources to contact:

  • Crisis Text Line (text “HOME” to 74174)
  • National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (800-273-8255)
  • Anxiety and Depression Association of America
  • GoodTherapy.org
  • Substance Abuse and Mental Health Service Administration National Helpline (LBGTQ+; 800-662-4357)
  • Psychology Today’s therapist finder tool

Online therapy options

Read our review of the best online therapy options to find the right fit for you.

Additionally, Parmar said that employers and colleagues can play a significant role in identifying an individual at risk.

“It’s important to create a culture of spreading awareness and reducing the stigma associated with mental health disorders at the workplace, so affected individuals are encouraged to seek help freely without any prejudice when needed,” she explained.

In fact, a 2014 study found that universally delivered workplace mental health interventions — and more specifically, cognitive-behavioral health-based programs — can reduce the level of depression symptoms among workers.

With that in mind, managers, supervisors, and employees can be trained to initiate such conversations with people who need help and support them in their search for timely care.

Experiencing symptoms of depression while at work can feel overwhelming. Identifying signs like anxiety, crying, boredom, and lack of interest is the first step to getting help.

If you’re concerned about work depression, consider reaching out to your supervisor or human resources department. They can help you find a counselor through an employee assistance program.

You can also seek treatment through a therapist or psychologist.

Remember, you’re not alone. If you’re not ready to reach out at work, make an appointment with a doctor or mental health professional.

Read this article in Spanish.

What It Is and How to Deal with It

If you feel depressed when working, you’re not alone. Sadness, anxiety, loss of motivation, difficulty concentrating, unexplained bouts of crying, and boredom are just a small sampling of the things you may be feeling if you’re experiencing depressive symptoms at work.

Depression impacts over 17 million American adults each year.

And data from the State of Mental Health in America 2021 survey shows that the number of people seeking help for depression increased significantly from 2019 to 2020.

There was a 62 percent increase in people who took the survey’s depression screen — and of those people, 8 in 10 tested positive for symptoms of moderate to severe depression.

When you consider that full-time employees spend an average of 8.5 hours per day working on weekdays and 5.5 hours working on weekends and holidays, according to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, it comes as no surprise that many of them will experience symptoms of depression while on the job.

Read on to find out why work might be triggering depressive symptoms, how to identify the signs, where to get help, and what you can do to start feeling better.

While a job may not cause depression, the environment may worsen symptoms for people who already live with depression.

“Any workplace or job can be a potential cause or a contributing factor for depression depending on the level of stress and available support at the workplace,” said Rashmi Parmar, MD, a psychiatrist at Community Psychiatry.

According to the World Health Organization (WHO), a negative working environment can lead to:

  • mental and physical health concerns
  • absenteeism
  • lost productivity
  • increased substance use

Mental Health America reports that depression ranks among the top three problems in the workplace for employee assistance professionals.

As with any other health condition, Parmar says, awareness and early detection are key.

“Depression is a complex condition with a varied manifestation of thoughts, feelings, and behavior that can affect anyone and everyone, and a variety of work and non-work-related factors might be at play when we consider someone struggling with workplace depression,” she explained.

The signs of depression at work are similar to general depressive symptoms. That said, some may look more specific to a workplace setting.

This depression will affect your level of functioning in your job as well as at home, Parmar said.

Some of the more common signs of work depression include:

  • increased anxiety levels, especially when managing stressful situations or thinking about work when you’re away from your job
  • overall feelings of boredom and complacency about your job
  • low energy and lack of motivation to do things, which can sometimes manifest as boredom in tasks
  • persistent or prolonged feelings of sadness or low mood.
  • loss of interest in tasks at work, especially duties that you previously found interesting and fulfilling
  • feelings of hopelessness, helplessness, worthlessness, or overwhelming guilt
  • inability to concentrate or pay attention to work tasks and trouble retaining or remembering things, especially new information
  • making excessive errors in daily work tasks
  • an increase or decrease in weight or appetite
  • physical complaints like headaches, fatigue, and upset stomach
  • increased absences or coming late and leaving early
  • impaired decision-making capacity
  • irritability, increased anger, and poor frustration tolerance
  • crying spells or tearfulness at work, with or without any apparent triggers
  • trouble sleeping or sleeping too much (like taking naps during regular work hours)
  • self-medication with alcohol or substances

If you’re good at masking or internalizing them, these signs of work depression might not be visible to your co-workers. But there are some symptoms they may be more likely to notice.

According to Parmar, here are some common signs of work depression to be aware of:

  • withdrawal or isolation from other people
  • poor self-hygiene or significant change in appearance
  • late arrival at work, missed meetings, or absent days
  • procrastination, missed deadlines, reduced productivity, subpar performance in tasks, increased errors, or difficulty making decisions
  • seeming indifference, forgetfulness, detachment, and disinterest in things
  • an appearance of tiredness for most or part of the day (may be taking afternoon naps at work)
  • irritability, anger, feeling overwhelmed, or getting very emotional during conversations (may start crying suddenly or become tearful over trivial things)
  • lack confidence while attempting tasks

There are various reasons why you may be dealing with an increase in depressive symptoms at work. And while no two people — or experiences — are the same, some common themes seem to emerge when pinpointing the causes or triggers of signs of depression at work.

While not an exhaustive list, the following situations may contribute to work depression:

  • feeling like you have no control over work issues
  • feeling like your job is in jeopardy
  • working in a toxic work environment
  • being overworked or underpaid
  • experiencing workplace harassment or discrimination
  • working irregular hours
  • lacking balance between work and home
  • working in a setting that doesn’t match your personal values
  • doing work that doesn’t further your career goals
  • experiencing poor or unsafe working conditions

Work stress vs. work depression

It’s not uncommon to experience stress at work, but don’t ignore feelings of depression. It’s important to know the difference.

Work stress

  • stress that decreases in intensity when the stressor passes
  • occasional bouts of feeling anxious and irritable
  • muscle tension or headaches

Work depression

  • increased feelings of sadness and crying
  • persistent feelings of anxiety
  • increased lack of focus and concentration
  • feeling bored and not fulfilled in your job

Leela R. Magavi, MD, a psychiatrist and regional medical director at Community Psychiatry, said she works with many clients who are adversely affected by engaging in work they aren’t passionate about.

“Individuals can mindlessly complete tasks throughout the day and begin to feel disconnected and demoralized, which can exacerbate anxiety and depressive symptoms,” she explained.

Others may have little time to consume meals or hydrate throughout the day, which Magavi suggested could worsen fatigue and inattentiveness.

Working remotely, while convenient, comes with its pitfalls. According to Parmar, the boundary between personal and professional life can easily disappear, causing major upheavals in your daily routine.

And creating and sticking to a structured routine at home is easier said than done.

“Without a routine, boredom can slowly creep in, giving way to depressive feelings and thoughts,” she said.

Without the social environment at work, Parmar said many people working from home experience feelings of loneliness and isolation.

“We’re forced to rely on chats or messages, phone calls, and video calls to connect with our friends and colleagues, which adds to our already increased screen time,” she said.

Remote work during COVID-19: Tips for improving your mental health

If working from home is your new “normal,” at least for now, you might be experiencing increased feelings of anxiety, stress, and depression.

Here are a few things you can do when those feelings surface:

  • Get out of the house and take a walk.
  • Keep your workspace separate from other parts of the house.
  • Get rid of clutter around your desk.
  • Practice 5 minutes of mindfulness meditation in the morning, afternoon, and before you call it a day.
  • Call a non-work friend.
  • Step away from the screen throughout the day.

Adding to this, Parmar said many people might be working more hours than usual, since it can be hard to keep track of time while at home.

“It is very natural to get overwhelmed from all these factors and feel depressed or anxious,” she explained.

Magavi suggested prolonged remote work could create many emotional, physical, and financial hurdles for individuals.

“Low-income families are significantly disadvantaged due to limited resources or access to stable Wi-Fi, while other families, regardless of income, may be increasingly exposed to domestic violence due to displaced anger caused by the pandemic and associated stressors,” she said.

“Individuals may feel like there is nothing to look forward to, or they may struggle, as they no longer have an outlet to normalize their feelings of burnout with fellow employees,” she added.

No matter where you work, managing symptoms at work can be challenging. The good news is there are things you can do when you’re feeling depressed:

  • Take a 10-minute break away from your desk or office.
  • Take a lunch break and get outdoors.
  • Go for a quick walk during a break — even if it’s indoors, exercise does wonders for mental health.
  • Take a mental health day.
  • Practice a few minutes of mindfulness meditation.
  • Incorporate deep breathing exercises into your day.
  • Say no to one small thing that allows you to experience less stress during the day.
  • Watch a funny video.

Some of the risk factors for depression at work, according to Magavi, include:

  • dismissive managers
  • effort-reward imbalance
  • workplace politics
  • workplace gossip
  • workplace bullying
  • high job demands
  • low decision latitude
  • limited social support in the workplace

Parmar pointed to additional risk factors like:

  • unfair expectations
  • excessive workload
  • unclear or mismanaged roles at work

She also suggested that a poor job fit can increase emotional and physical distress, leading to burnout, as can a poor emphasis on work-life balance.

Additionally, excessive long shifts of 10 to 12 hours or more or shifts during odd hours of the day that disrupt routines and sleep patterns are also risk factors.

A 2019 review found that shift workers, especially females, were at an increased risk for poor mental health — specifically symptoms of depression.

If you’re noticing a link between depressive symptoms and your workplace, don’t wait to seek help. Talking with your immediate supervisor or boss is a good first step — as long as you feel supported by them.

Sometimes a change in assignment or location within an office or organization can help reduce symptoms.

You can also ask the human resources department if your company has an employee assistance program. This is a work-based program that offers mental health–related services for personal and work concerns.

Outside of work, a combination of psychotherapy, medication, and lifestyle interventions are often recommended for treating depression. You can get help from professionals in person and online.

Finding help for depression

Help for depression is available online, in person, and through helplines. Here are some resources to contact:

  • Crisis Text Line (text “HOME” to 74174)
  • National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (800-273-8255)
  • Anxiety and Depression Association of America
  • GoodTherapy.org
  • Substance Abuse and Mental Health Service Administration National Helpline (LBGTQ+; 800-662-4357)
  • Psychology Today’s therapist finder tool

Online therapy options

Read our review of the best online therapy options to find the right fit for you.

Additionally, Parmar said that employers and colleagues can play a significant role in identifying an individual at risk.

“It’s important to create a culture of spreading awareness and reducing the stigma associated with mental health disorders at the workplace, so affected individuals are encouraged to seek help freely without any prejudice when needed,” she explained.

In fact, a 2014 study found that universally delivered workplace mental health interventions — and more specifically, cognitive-behavioral health-based programs — can reduce the level of depression symptoms among workers.

With that in mind, managers, supervisors, and employees can be trained to initiate such conversations with people who need help and support them in their search for timely care.

Experiencing symptoms of depression while at work can feel overwhelming. Identifying signs like anxiety, crying, boredom, and lack of interest is the first step to getting help.

If you’re concerned about work depression, consider reaching out to your supervisor or human resources department. They can help you find a counselor through an employee assistance program.

You can also seek treatment through a therapist or psychologist.

Remember, you’re not alone. If you’re not ready to reach out at work, make an appointment with a doctor or mental health professional.

Read this article in Spanish.

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Velcro

I don't want to go to work until I'm hysterical. What to do?

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When it becomes completely unbearable, this question will not even arise. You will simply wake up one far from perfect morning in complete shaking and with a lump in your throat, and each step will be given with the feeling that you have an anchor tied to each leg. And there will no longer be any doubts and fears in your head, there will only be a firm knowledge that today you will apply for dismissal. And tomorrow, even a tsunami, even an invasion of the titans, even though seven angels will sound. That's when this feeling is, IMHO, the limit, after which it is impossible to rape yourself and stay at work - then only a fool, at best, a clinic of neuroses. And the rest can be tolerated ... for a while. Well, there, and the bosses are temporary people (they will go on maternity leave, on a long sick leave, competitors will lure you away, kick you out for jambs . .), and in another department a place may be vacated for you. But this is if health is normal. If it is noticeably not normal, then all means are good: sick leave, vacation, and whatever. And there, you look, a place will be found. Already at 25 you can find a job without special talents

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Horror ((and in which city are there such shame ****** ZP salesmen ??

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You will just wake up one far from perfect morning in complete shaking and with a lump in your throat, and each step will be given with the feeling that you have an anchor tied to each leg. only the firm knowledge that today you will apply for dismissal, and tomorrow even a tsunami, even an invasion of the titans, even though seven angels will sound. dyrka, at best, a clinic of neuroses. And the rest can be tolerated ... for a while. Well, there, and the bosses are temporary people (they will go on maternity leave, on a long sick leave, competitors will lure you away, kick you out for jambs ..), and in another department a place may be vacated for you. But this is if health is normal. If it is noticeably not normal, then all means are good: sick leave, vacation, and whatever. And there, you look, a place will be found. Already at 25 you can find a job without special talents 9February 08, 2016 Especially for 25 thousand. Freelancing at home is easy to earn much more (if you know how to do something other than shifting papers and cracking on the phone) Yes - yes, no - no. And so you just eat away your mosk with a spoon - gradually, but confidently and with results. Perhaps you are an excellent performer and are now in your place - as it is clear that something more will be difficult for you and will not be as productive. Perhaps they didn’t fit into the team, but they move up those with whom they go to the bathhouse on Saturdays (well, or to football on Sunday). Many things are possible

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So fired

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your boss's goal is to replace the team with his own. and that's right. Gradually, he will survive you all from his team, and recruit new people, or those who are familiar to him before taking up the position. This is a very competent approach, he has his own tactics and it will work. I can advise you if the checkmate. position allows you to leave on your own. since judging by the above, you are already on the verge of leaving. salespeople are now required everywhere. find the same job, no problem. nine0003

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"Damn, it seems to me that if they were respected and appreciated, they would have started to teach me and transfer functions to me a long time ago. Isn't it? "What's the use of guessing about other people's motives. Yes - yes, no - no. And so you just eat away your mosk with a spoon - gradually, but confidently and with results. Perhaps you are an excellent performer and are now in your place - as it is clear that something more will be difficult for you and will not be as productive. Perhaps they didn’t fit into the team, but they move up those with whom they go to the bathhouse on Saturdays (well, or to football on Sunday). Many things are possible

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Of course everything can be. But it's a shame, it also affects the mood. Because I tried so hard and got so frustrated with small failures that I got myself a bunch of sores. Including infertility, as my doctor told me, it’s only because of your nerves. ((

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Now you know what the attempts are fraught with and indefatigable vanity. Now there's every chance that in your new job (or even this one with a new boss who doesn't know you as a workaholic) you'll have a balance between plow and rest.

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I don't think ambition is vanity. And good work is not servitude.

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I'd really rather be a janitor or a nanny than cold calls. There is no better job in the world.

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I'd really rather be a janitor or a nanny than cold calls. There is no better job in the world.

I thought the same thing when I read the topic.

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Author, I would have done exactly the same. There must be a new result, but you will never achieve this result, and therefore the majority, and even more so the management, will have to change it. He will recruit new, young, "living" people and they will change a lot in this company. And those who appointed him to you will give another plus to this director. And you better quit, you still can't cope with your duties

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when I went on vacation to the sea, I always thought about work... I was worried that I made mistakes somewhere and they were waiting for me to put a whip on me, although they put me on every day and I don’t know why I I was so afraid of this. Today I walked with a stroller and remembered this horror ... I have not worked for 11 months and every day I think that I will have to return there ...

And the chief accountant is annoying me ... who constantly brings people (not only me) to tears to the volokordin, and then with a smile after 5 minutes comes and asks: What does it smell like volokordin in you? Oh Ol, something happened? sitting so sad?

When I came to work it was my first job...began with the fact that I was like a brand new little relatively girl (I was very friendly, constantly smiling at everyone and getting to know each other) they just spread rot..Maybe I exaggerate of course, but now I am writing and straight tears flow . .. I can’t do this .... they always told me that I couldn’t make a tablet in Excel, although I know Excel 10 times better than them and they put me at a copier and you won’t believe me 2 weeks from 9-00 to 18-00, with a break for lunch, I stood and photocopied the papers! And then they again shouted at Enya that I had photocopied a lot of superfluous things and ruined a bunch of paper!!! I was extremely offended! I cried every day at work ... running into the first office I came across, I started to get hysterical and they gave me sedatives! Once a woman approached me and told me not to stand at the copier all day because this radiation and it's all at the level of the stomach ... in short, everyone felt sorry for me there, but no one from the accounting department they didn’t even think about the fact that I just simply want to relax ... they loaded them with all sorts of rubbish ... I understand that they torture everyone so new and throw off the most terrible job ... so maybe I’m so vulnerable . .. Then I remember that every day someone will make a mistake and bring documents that I should not check, and I turned out to be extreme! humiliates! You can tell for a long time what a terrible person she is ... if a person quits, then this is enemy number one ... in 2 years, 5 people left us only because of the chief accountant .. And there was such a case ... I paid the bill for electricity and the details are full in the program and it so happened that I didn’t think and sent money to the wrong OSB and in Serpukhov in the shopping center they turned off the light for non-payment (they give money on the last day) ... In short, the whole organization heard how they yelled at me! Even the boss from another department said: Oh Olchik, don’t worry, we’ll think of something now ... of course, get ready for a serious matter, but I’ll try to soften it, while the chief accountant talked to the head of the Serpukhov branch and at the same time yelled at me so that he would hear what I got! In short, it was 17-00 when the chief accountant ran in and started yelling: Get ready to go to Serpukhov to Mosenergosbyt and whatever you want you should be there until 18 and say whatever you want, ask as you like, but to turn on the light! "The girls that I experienced that day are not knows n who am I still roaring over this situation . ... Well, we are all people ... I’m not a robot, I can make a mistake! I went to Serpukhov on my own ... not knowing the city of the road at all and didn’t understand what to do at all .. I caught the car gave the last money and did not know how to return home ... I was driving and tears just flowed in my stream ... I could not stop ... when I arrived where I was told to wait for the head of the branch, I called him and he was just mockingly said: You have no right to make such mistakes! This is not acceptable! It is better to send the money the next day, but to the right place!0003

Oh girls, I will never forget this...how cruel people are...I was driving all the way again crying...then the chief accountant called me and started lisping: How are you Olechka? How did you get there? They just decided to teach you a lesson! etc. ... In short, this is only a small percentage I told you ... how many memos she wrote to me so that they would deprive me of my salary, she simply would not let me go to the institute .


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