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72 Mental Health Questions for Counselors and Patients

What does “mental health” mean to you?

Is it the same as happiness?

Or is it simply the absence of mental illness?

Whether you are a professional therapist or want to help a friend in need, it helps to have some mental health questions up your sleeve.

You may not be able to diagnose someone who isn’t doing 100%, but with a little insight into their state of mind, you can play a valuable role in supporting them to get the help they need.

In this article, we’ll cover some mental health questions to ask yourself, your clients, or even your students. Read on to learn more.

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This Article Contains:

  • What Are Mental Health Questions?
  • Mental Health Questions
  • 5 Examples of Common Mental Health Questions for Risk Assessment and Evaluation
  • 20 Mental Health Interview Questions a Counselor Should Ask
  • 10 Mental Health Questions Aimed at Students
  • 7 Questions for Group Discussion
  • Common Mental Health Research Questions
  • 9 Mental Health Questions a Patient Can Ask
  • 12 Questions to Ask Yourself
  • 9 Self-Reflection Questions
  • A Take-Home Message
  • References

What Are Mental Health Questions?

Let’s start with a definition of mental health – more precisely, what it isn’t. In the article The Mental Health Continuum: From Languishing to Flourishing, positive psychologist Corey Keyes (2002) is very adamant about not oversimplifying the mental health concept, writing:

“mental health is more than the presence and absence of emotional states.

Recapping the definition of a syndrome from the clinical literature, he then reminds us of the following:

“[a syndrome is] … a set of symptoms that occur together.”

Finally, Keyes argues that we can challenge the idea that syndromes are all about suffering. Instead, he argues that can we view mental health as:

“a syndrome of symptoms of an individual’s subjective well-being” or “a syndrome of symptoms of positive feelings and positive functioning in life.”

Mental Health Questions

The right questions can give you insight into others’ wellbeing and promote the benefits of mental health.

These questions also help you:

  • Show your concern for someone who is struggling
  • Open up a dialogue about their mental state
  • Trigger them to reflect on their overall wellbeing
  • Prompt or encourage them to seek professional help if it is necessary

To get a clearer idea of these questions, let’s consider some examples.

5 Examples of Common Mental Health Questions for Risk Assessment and Evaluation

Where do you take a mental health conversation once you’ve opened with, “How are you feeling?

For professionals, it might help to screen your client for any disorders or distress. The Anxiety and Depression Detector (Means-Christensen, Sherbourne, Roy-Byrne, Craske, & Stein, 2006) can help you assess depression and anxiety disorders, and it’s only five questions long (O’Donnell, Bryant, Creamer, & Carty, 2008).

You may want to tweak some of these questions to make them more relevant to your client.

  1. Have you ever experienced a terrible occurrence that has impacted you significantly? Examples may include being the victim of armed assault, witnessing a tragedy happen to someone else, surviving a sexual assault, or living through a natural disaster.
  2. Do you ever feel that you’ve been affected by feelings of edginess, anxiety, or nerves?
  3. Have you experienced a week or longer of lower-than-usual interest in activities that you usually enjoy? Examples might include work, exercise, or hobbies.
  4. Have you ever experienced an ‘attack’ of fear, anxiety, or panic?
  5. Do feelings of anxiety or discomfort around others bother you?

These are just a few examples, and they are primarily concerned with identifying any potential signs of anxiety and depression. By design, they do not assess indicators of wellbeing, such as flourishing, life satisfaction, and happiness.

If you want to find out more about the latter, we have some great articles about Life Satisfaction Scales, as well as Happiness Tests, Surveys, and Quizzes and mental health exercises.

20 Mental Health Interview Questions a Counselor Should Ask

Open-ended questions are never a bad thing when you’re trying to start a discussion about mental health.

A study by Connell, O’Cathain, and Brazier (2014) suggested that seven quality of life domains are particularly relevant to a counselor who wants to open up dialogue with a client: physical health, wellbeing, autonomy, choice and control, self-perception, hope and hopelessness, relationships and belonging, and activity.

Physical health

Questions of this type were related to feelings such as agitation, restlessness, sleep, pain, and somatic symptoms. Examples of prompts to investigate this domain could include:

  1. Tell me about your sleeping habits over the past X months. Have you noticed any changes? Difficulty sleeping? Restlessness?
  2. How would you describe your appetite over the past X weeks? Have your eating habits changed in any way?

Wellbeing (and ill-being)

These questions looked at feelings of anxiety, distress, motivation, and energy. The ‘absence of negative feelings of ill-being,’ was understandably related to a higher perceived quality of life Connell et al., 2014). Sample prompts might include:

  1. Could you tell me about any times over the past few months that you’ve been bothered by low feelings, stress, or sadness?
  2. How frequently have you had little pleasure or interest in the activities you usually enjoy? Would you tell me more?

Autonomy, choice, and control

Questions about independence and autonomy were related to quality of life aspects such as pride, dignity, and privacy. Potential questions might include:

  1. How often during the past X months have you felt as though your moods, or your life, were under your control?
  2. How frequently have you been bothered by not being able to stop worrying?


Self-perception questions were related to patients’ confidence, self-esteem, and feelings of being capable of doing the things they wanted to do. Counselors might want to use the following prompts:

  1. Tell me about how confident you have been feeling in your capabilities recently.
  2. Let’s talk about how often you have felt satisfied with yourself over the past X months.

Hope and hopelessness

These questions ask about the patient’s view of the future, their hopes and goals, and the actions they were taking toward them.

  1. How often over the past few weeks have you felt the future was bleak?
  2. Can you tell me about your hopes and dreams for the future? What feelings have you had recently about working toward those goals?

Relationships and belonging

These questions consider how the client felt they ‘fit in with society,’ were supported, and possessed meaningful relationships. Examples include:

  1. Describe how ‘supported’ you feel by others around you – your friends, family, or otherwise.
  2. Let’s discuss how you have been feeling about your relationships recently.


The more purposeful, meaningful, and constructive a client perceived their activities to be, the better.

  1. Tell me about any important activities or projects that you’ve been involved with recently. How much enjoyment do you get from these?
  2. How frequently have you been doing things that mean something to you or your life?

Read our post on mental health activities to assist clients in this area.

Other mental health questions for counselors

Another useful source of questions can be found on this website by Mental Health America (n.d.a; n.d.b). You’ll find questions about:

Depression – e.g., How bothered have you felt about tiredness or low energy over the past two weeks? How bothered have you felt about thoughts that you’ve let yourself or others down?

Anxiety – e. g., Over the last two weeks, how bothered have you been by feelings of fear or dread, as though something terrible might happen? How often have you been bothered by so much restlessness that you can’t sit still?

Mental health for young people – e.g., How often have you felt fidgety or unable to sit still? Have you felt less interested in school?

Whatever counseling interview questions you choose to ask as a practitioner, you may find that you need to refer your client to a different healthcare provider. You can help others improve their mental health by making them feel supported and ensuring they are aware of their options for continued support.

10 Mental Health Questions Aimed at Students

Life skills and self-efficacy are two key aspects of mental health, which is why these measures are sometimes used to assess the latter.

Bashir (2018) mentions several assessments used to assess mental health, including:

  • The Life Skills Assessment Questionnaire (Saatchi, Kamkkari, & Askarian, 2010)
  • The Self-Efficacy Scale (Singh & Narain, 2014)
  • Mental Health Scale (Talesara & Bano, 2017)

Bashir (2018) found “a positive significant relationship between the mental health of senior secondary school students with life skills and self-efficacy,” suggesting that the two measures together can be used to get an understanding of students’ mental health.

Mental health questions for students

Other self-efficacy and life skills measures could give us a good idea of some example mental health questions for students. The following may help:

Academic self-efficacy questions for students

How much confidence do you have that you can successfully:

  1. Complete homework within deadlines?
  2. Focus on school subjects?
  3. Get information on class assignments from the library?
  4. Take part in class discussions?
  5. Keep your academic work organized?
Mental health questions (World Health Organization, 2013)
  1. Over the last 12 months, how frequently have you felt so worried about something that you were unable to sleep at night?
  2. Over the last 12 months, how frequently have you felt alone or lonely?
  3. Over the last 12 months, how often did you seriously consider attempting suicide?
  4. Over the last 12 months, did you ever plan how you might attempt suicide?
  5. How many close friends would you say you have?

As with all the other questions in this article, you’ll probably want to tweak and amend these items to suit your audience.

7 Questions for Group Discussion

The catch-all term “mental health group” can refer to several different things. Mental health groups may gather together for therapy or may be more informal peer support groups. You may also find yourself part of a group that’s purely for friends, family, and carers of those whose mental health is a concern.

Whatever group you find yourself in, the World Health Organization (2017) has some suggestions that will help you create a safe and productive space.

Mental health group best practices

Everything that is said in therapy should remain confidential; nothing from the discussion should be shared outside of the group setting.

Bear in mind that not everyone in the discussion will be at the same stage. Some may be new, others may be more seasoned or regular visitors.

Recognize that people won’t necessarily get along, but they all are welcome anyway.

Try not to view peer support or group discussions as a panacea for mental conditions. While they may be a great place to get suggestions or clarity, mental health is about feeling good in more than one way. Participants or caregivers may also require coaching, counseling, or medication to feel better.

7 Group questions

What questions can we ask to get some discussion flowing in a mental health group?

You may want to start with a focus for your discussion. Ask someone to share a story, experience, or step in as a facilitator with a video about the theme at hand. If you are discussing the role of social support, for example, you may have a presentation or case study prepared on the importance of friends and family.

Once you’ve opened with your story or resource, try some of these to spark a discussion (Gruttadaro & Cepla, 2014):

  1. How do you feel about the story you just heard? What was your first reaction? How about as the story unfolded?
  2. What were your thoughts regarding the signs and symptoms of this mental health issue? Have you experienced any of these yourself or in someone you know?
  3. How would you react if you noticed these in someone you care about?
  4. How might taking action benefit you and the person you care about?
  5. What actions could you take to help someone who is exhibiting these signs and symptoms?
  6. What do you believe is important for anyone to be aware of if they know someone with this mental health issue?
  7. What experiences have you had that are related to this story? What was similar? What differed?

Common Mental Health Research Questions

Curious to know the top research questions related to mental health worldwide? Tomlinson et al. (2009) identified some of the key priorities for researchers to look at.

The group came up with 55 questions, and the top three topics included:

  1. Health policy and systems research topics – e.g., How can health policy and systems research help us create parenting and social skills interventions for early childhood care in a cost-efficient, feasible, and effective way?
  2. Cost-effective interventions for low-resource settings – e.g., How can affordable interventions be delivered in settings where resources are scarce?
  3. Questions about child and teen mental disorders – e.g., How effective and cost-effective are school-based mental health treatments for special needs schoolchildren?

9 Mental Health Questions a Patient Can Ask

Engaging with your mental health practitioner is one of the best ways to get the most out of your check-ups. The healthcare system is changing, and gone are the days when a patient sat passively for a diagnosis or prescription (Rogers & Maini, 2016).

These days, arguably, medical dialogues place more emphasis on helping a client help themselves through information, education, and commitment to a better lifestyle. It’s good news indeed for anyone who wants to get proactive about their mental health. So what should you be asking your practitioner?

Before committing to a mental health practitioner, you’ll need to know a few things about the services they provide. Many therapists can provide psychological treatments but aren’t able to prescribe medication. You’ll need a psychiatrist or physician for that.

Bear this in mind, and consider the following questions when you’re deciding whether a provider is right for you (Association for Children’s Mental Health, n.d.; Think Mental Health, n.d.):

  1. What is your experience with treating others with my mental health condition?
  2. Will you be able to collaborate or liaise with my physician on an integrated care plan?
  3. What does a typical appointment with you look like?
  4. What treatments or therapies are you licensed to administer?
  5. Are there benefits or risks that I should know about these therapies?
  6. What is the general time frame in which most patients will see results?
  7. How will I know if the treatment is having an effect?
  8. How long does this type of treatment last?
  9. What does research say about this type of treatment?

12 Questions to Ask Yourself

Mental Health Week takes place every year in October.

It is an awareness-raising campaign that encourages us to tune in early to the symptoms of mental illness.

But, of course, you can always check in with yourself as regularly as you like.

Example questions about wellbeing

The Canadian Mental Health Association (n.d.) provides some self-report questions that you can start with; these questions cover six areas and require only agree/disagree responses. Try some of these as an example:

  1. Sense of self questions– e.g., I see myself as a good person. I feel that others respect me, yet I can still feel fine about myself if I disagree with them.
  2. Sense of belonging questions – e.g., I have others around me who support me. I feel positive about my relationships with others and my interpersonal connections.
  3. Sense of meaning or purpose questions – e.g., I get satisfaction from the things I do. I challenge my perspectives about the world and what I believe in.
  4. Emotional resilience questions – e. g., I feel I handle things quite well when obstacles get in my way. I accept that I can’t always control things, but I do what I can when I can.
  5. Enjoyment and hope questions – e.g., I have a positive outlook on my life. I like myself for who I am.
  6. Contribution questions – e.g., The things that I do have an impact. My actions matter to those around me.

9 Self-Reflection Questions

Elsewhere on, we’ve written about the many potential benefits of narrative therapy. If you’re looking for some writing or journal prompts to help you get started, you can try putting your responses to these questions down on paper (Post Trauma Institute, 2019).

  1. Have my sleeping habits changed? Do I wake up and fall asleep at regular times? When I sleep, how would I describe the quality of my rest?
  2. How has my appetite increased or decreased recently?
  3. Am I having trouble focusing at work or school? Can I concentrate on the things I want to do? Do I find pleasure in things that usually make me happy?
  4. Am I socializing with my friends as much as I usually do? How about spending time with my family? Am I withdrawing or pulling away from those around me who matter?
  5. Do I feel like I’m maintaining a healthy balance between leisure, myself, my career, physical activity, and those I care about? How about other things that matter to me?
  6. How relaxed do I feel most of the time, out of 10? Is this the same, more, or less than usual?
  7. How do I feel most of the time? Happy? Anxious? Satisfied? Sad?
  8. What are my energy levels like when I finish my day? Are there any significant changes in my tiredness?
  9. Am I having any extreme emotions or mood swings? Any suicidal thoughts, breakdowns, or panic attacks?

It may help to keep track of your responses over time and take notice of any differences in your answers. It should go without saying that the earlier you seek out any help you may need, the better. Consider reading one of these recommended mental health books if you are still unsure about seeking help.

A Take-Home Message

Mental health is not about the absence of mental illness. When we take the time to ask ourselves and others about our mental states, we can potentially make some crucial steps toward wellbeing.

As Keyes (2002) describes, we can think of our mental health as a continuum, with languishing at one end and flourishing at the other. By starting a dialogue and showing that we care, we can help each other get the help we need and potentially begin to feel better.

What questions have you asked yourself before? And what would you add to our list? Let us know in the comments below!

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Top 15 Psychology Survey Questions for Questionnaires

What are psychology survey questions?

Psychology survey questions are survey questions asked to collect information about an individual to evaluate the mental state of the respondent. Such questions enable the researcher to categorize different behaviors, traits, and conditions. Such survey questions are used by a number of industries such as healthcare, corporates, recruitment firms, defense services and many more. Psychology survey questions are created and analyzed by psychologists, mental health professionals, psychiatrists, members of the judicial system and other psychology experts. Some examples of psychology surveys are anxiety surveys, Depression questionnaires, happiness surveys, personality surveys, quality of life survey, life attitudes survey, couples survey and many more.

For example, a psychologist wants to understand the factors that may be the cause of a student’s depression problem. For such a situation the mental health professional can ask the patient to answer a depression survey for students which includes psychology questions that will enable them to understand the psyche of the patient and evaluate their behavior, traits, lifestyle, and other parameters that may have impacted the student’s mental state. Such questions can be very helpful as it may sometimes shed light on patients who might even have suicidal tendencies. Using the responses from such questions can help the psychologist devise corrective actions for their patients.

Another instance where psychology surveys can be used is while conducting psychological studies. These personality surveys can help the researcher to collect data on the behavior, traits, attitudes, and lifestyle of a person.  Using this data will enable the researcher to prove a psychological study that is based on the psyche of a person. For example, the color red and yellow is known to increase hunger in a person. In such a case, a psychology survey will help the researcher to collect the right information needed for their research and prove the hypothesis.

Psychology survey questions for questionnaires

Following are a few psychology survey questions that can help you evaluate the behaviors, traits, and attitudes of your respondent. An important point to remember when conducting psychology surveys is that wording the questions appropriately to create an effective research design will help you get good response rates. Also, demographic questions are important in such surveys as they play a vital role in shaping the psyche of a person.

Demographic questions for psychology questionnaire
  1. Please state your gender?
    1. Male
    2. Female
    3. Other (Please specify)
  2. How old are you?
  3. Please state your ethnicity?
  4. In which country did you spend most of your life?
  5. What is the highest level of education you have completed?
    1. High school
    2. College
    3. Associate degree
    4. Bachelors degree
    5. Masters degree
    6. Doctorate
    7. Other (Please specify)
  6. What is your current employment status?
    1. Permanent full-time employment
    2. Non-permanent full-time employment
    3. Permanent part-time employment
    4. Non-permanent part-time employment
    5. Unemployed
    6. Retired
    7. Full-time student
    8. Part-time student
    9. Other (Please specify)
  7. What is your current relationship status?
    1. Single
    2. In a casual relationship
    3. In a serious, committed relationship
    4. Unmarried but cohabiting
    5. Married
    6. Widowed
    7. Divorced/separated
    8. Other (please specify)
  8. How many children do you have
    1. None
    2. 1
    3. 2
    4. 3
    5. 3+
Generic psychology survey questions for questionnaires
  1. On a scale of 1 to 7, 7 being the highest, how happy do you consider yourself?
  2. Compare to your colleagues or friends, do you consider yourself happier than most of them?
    1. Yes
    2. No
  3. How often do you feel lonely?
    1. Always
    2. Very often
    3. Sometimes
    4. Rarely
    5. Never
  4. How often do you feel depressed?
    1. Always
    2. Very often
    3. Sometimes
    4. Rarely
    5. Never
  5. Please state your level of agreement for the following statements: (Completely agree, agree, neutral, disagree, completely disagree)
    1. I am content with the current state of my life
    2. Currently, I don’t need to worry about the finances in my life
    3. I am satisfied with my life
    4. I am happy with the relationships in my life
    5. I am happy with my professional life
  6. How often do you procrastinate about that status of your personal goals in life?
    1. Always
    2. Very often
    3. Sometimes
    4. Rarely
    5. Never
  7. Do you have any other concerns that you would like to mention?


60 important questions to help you get to know yourself, your friends and loved ones better


A person among people Know yourself

Truly deep questions and conversations require sincere curiosity and a desire to establish emotional contact. “The shortest route to another person's heart or mind is through meaningful, meaningful dialogue. By asking important and deep questions, you demonstrate sincere interest in the interlocutor and create the prerequisites for further rapprochement, ”explains psychotherapist Holly Richmond. nine0003

Here are 60 such questions. Of course, you can add to this list by creating your own.

Questions to ask yourself

  • What are my true intentions?
  • What are my core values?
  • What secret desires and aspirations have I used to ignore?
  • Who are those people with whom communication always cheers me up?
  • Who, on the contrary, always seems to draw energy out of me?
  • At what moments do I most acutely feel alive? nine0014
  • What do I feel now (anxiety, joyful anticipation, emotional excitement, thirst for action...) and why?
  • Am I taking good care of myself?
  • Do I value myself?
  • What am I not paying enough attention to?
  • How did my personal growth manifest itself?

What to ask your friends about

  • What are you thinking about today?
  • What are you most interested in right now?
  • Has anything been bothering you lately?
  • Do you feel connected to the outside world?
  • What is especially important and interesting for you?
  • What do you value most in friends?
  • What always makes you happy?
  • What difficulties are you currently having in life?
  • Would you like to talk about something? Perhaps I can offer some advice?
  • What do you enjoy now?
  • Are you working on something interesting right now?

What to ask your partner about

  • What do you feel most often lately?
  • Do you think we are close enough?
  • Are you satisfied with sex?
  • How can we make our relationship even better?
  • When do you feel especially loved/loved?
  • Is there anything important to you that you would risk your life for?
  • How can I become a better partner?
  • How/what were you like as a child? What about in adolescence?
  • When was the last time you felt alone despite the fact that we were together? nine0014
  • What do you dream about?
  • When do you think we are especially close?
  • Is there anything that is bothering you that I could help with?
  • How do you imagine a truly great relationship?

What to ask relatives

  • What are you most interested in today?
  • What are you grateful for today?
  • What did you miss this week?
  • Did you manage to do something this week that you are proud of? nine0014
  • What do you want to learn in the near future?
  • How would you describe our family?
  • Do you feel like a full-fledged member of the family, or rather an outsider?
  • What family traditions do you try to keep?
  • Have you ever done something "forbidden" that was worth it?
  • Tell me about our relatives that I don't know?
  • What are the strengths of our family?
  • Tell us about the best gift you have ever received? nine0014
  • What are the main values ​​in our family?
  • What traditions were you glad to give up?
  • How do you imagine our family in 50 years?

A few more philosophical questions to start an interesting conversation

  • What is the meaning of life for you?
  • What memory do you think of you will remain?
  • How long do you think you will be remembered?
  • What is the most important thing you have done in your life?
  • How did you manage to change the world even a little? nine0014
  • What is the most important quality for any person?
  • What should be more in the world?
  • What should become less in the world?
  • What do you think will be more valued in 50 years: science or art?
  • Why do you think art is important (or vice versa, useless)?
  • Do you think the influence of religions will increase or decrease?
  • What is happiness?
  • Which do you think is more important and why: improving your own life, helping your family, or making the world a better place? nine0014
  • By what criteria should a society be judged?
  • Is the world changing for the better or for the worse? And why?
  • Do you have a motto or main life principle?
  • Are moral principles relative or absolute?
  • What from the past would be worth keeping?
  • How has society changed during your lifetime?
  • What do you think these changes are connected with?
  • Is it better to be a realist or an optimist?

“It is always useful to have in your “arsenal” a set of important and interesting questions that can start an interesting dialogue. Such questions help to better know others and yourself and strengthen relationships with loved ones,” emphasizes Holly Richmond. nine0003

Text: Nikolai Protsenko Photo credit: Getty Images

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9 psychological questions that will help you “read” a person / Bright Side the phenomenon of "deep discussion" has become fashionable. Simply put, it all looks like unexpectedly philosophical tete-a-tete conversations late at night in the kitchen.

But today they have been transformed into a whole communicative layer that helps people get to know each other much better. nine0003

ADME found 9 interesting questions that will make your interlocutor "deeply" think about what he probably never thought about. You need to answer not in one word, but as detailed as possible. In this case, there are no correct answers. But, as many like to say mysteriously, sometimes the right question is already the answer.

NB! You should not ask them to a person in whom you are very afraid of being disappointed.

  • Would you open an envelope with the date of your death written in it? nine0200
    According to the answer, one can understand: the degree of fatalism of a person, his attitude to life in general.
  • Would you be friends with yourself?
    Based on the answer, you can understand: self-esteem, good and bad sides of a person, his level of "interestingness".
  • If you could see a scale measuring something above each person's head, what would it be? A person's rating in society? The level of happiness, the amount of money or the remaining days of life or something else? nine0200
    According to the answer, you can understand: the values ​​and priorities of a person.
  • What do you do differently in this life than other people?
    According to the answer, you can understand: the level of self-esteem, sense of humor or even insanity, the degree of uniqueness of the individual.

  • If your partner never found out about your unintentional infidelity, would you talk about it?
    Question-indicator of morality and degree of attitude towards other people.